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Sex & Dating in the Coronapocalypse: The Guide for the Perplexed
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by Dr. Susan Block. Modern love, sex and dating have always been tricky to navigate. But the Coronapocalypse has turned a rough path into a veritable obstacle course. That's why I created this "Guide for the Perplexed" (with apologies to Maimonides). The good news is a vaccine is around the corner. But in the meantime, how can you make it through the pandemic, achieve your relationship goals, satisfy your dating desires and have a good time running this crazy course without falling flat on your unmasked face into an infected puddle? Dating in the Time of Coronavirus ...with apologies to Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Say you’re single. You want to connect with other singles for dating, a relationship, love, lust, kink, intimacy, marriage, holiday festivities or just for fun. What could be more natural and good for you? Except in a pandemic, when it’s all fraught with danger, worry and hassle at every level. First, there’s the physical risk: you could catch Covid-19, die, get sick and/or infect other people. Then, there’s the mental turmoil: even if you don’t catch it, you might be extremely stressed out by the thought of catching it, maybe even paranoid to the point of social paralysis. Dating in a pandemic is like taking a bite of the forbidden fruit. It might taste delicious, but it could toss you into a wilderness of trouble. It’s not a foregone conclusion that you’ll catch Covid-19 if you kiss, hold hands, share a meal, a drink, a dance, a spank or a roll in the hay, but is it a risk worth taking? Then again, maybe you don’t care. Perhaps you don’t believe you’ll catch Covid-19 or that it’s even real. Here at the Institute, we think you’re wrong, of course, but just say, for argument, we don’t know what’s right or wrong. Still, even if you believe “Covid-19 is a hoax,” you’re trying to meet “new people” in a dating world where most folks think you’re nuts and/or pretty irresponsible. Not a good dating look, except maybe for QAnon Singles. For most of us, neither of the extreme alternatives—being a complete shut-in or throwing caution to the wind and out the window—is very appealing.The question is, how might you minimize the risk while living your life, if not to its fullest, at least to a degree it’s worth living? How do you get close to someone new while everyone’s playing physical “keep away” on a grand scale? How can you satisfy your personal, interpersonal and sexual needs under these crazy, impersonal, sex-negative, date-demolishing conditions? Need to talk about dating, mating, self-love, fantasies, fetishes, problems, pleasures or anything else that you can’t talk about with anyone else? You can talk to us. Call the Therapists Without Borders of the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime 24/7 at 213.291.9497. We’re here for YOU. Let’s NOT Get Physical First, let’s establish our terms. “Social-distancing” is a misleading misnomer. It makes it sound like we have to stop socializing, communicating, connecting with or caring about one another. That’s not very bonobo, or very human, let alone conducive to love, sex and/or dating. Here at the Institute, we prefer the term “physical distancing,” which is bad enough, but not as bad. To “flatten the curve” or just minimize risk, we need to “physically distance” ourselves from each other—maintaining a physical distance of six feet or so, unless we’re masked up, and even then, it’s best to forego close physical contact. Unlike the virtual “viruses” that “infect” our digital systems, the Coronavirus is a physical bug. Therefore, we don’t have to do “social distancing” at all! We can maintain, deepen and expand our social relationships, including dating, mostly through our otherwise demonic devices to our social-lite/influencer hearts’ content. Yes, our devices can be vices—bad habits, stupefying sources of alienation, depression, misinformation and a host of other social ills. But in our battle against COVID-19, they are proving to be lifesavers, a vital means of communication, a loneliness balm, a method of connecting, a means to let off steam, and a way to stay or get in touch without touching. It’s still possible for singles to meet physically—and very romantically—like the “Romeo and Juliet” of the Italian Coronapocalypse who actually met on their respective balconies during a lockdown—in the city of Verona where Shakespeare’s play takes place! Unlike the Bard’s star-crossed lovers, this Romeo and Juliet’s tale has a happy ending, and now they are engaged. But alas, we don’t all have balconies positioned fortuitously across from eligible singles or that kind of sheer luck. If you’re politically motivated, you might meet someone at a protest, one of the few types of large gatherings that’s allowed during quarantine. At least, then you know they share your political views. But the great majority of in-person events have been cancelled or postponed and most bars, clubs, hotels, nonessential stores and restaurants are closed. Gone are the days of hooking up with a hottie at the club. Gone is the fated rendezvous at the local bookstore or coffee shop. As for something to do together on that first, second or 10,000th date, gone are those simple nights of “dinner and a movie.” Hopefully, this state of human physical isolation is temporary, and the new vaccine will free us soon to meet again. But right now as of this writing, the American Covid-19 death and hospitalization count is surging, it feels like the physical world has become a vast social wasteland as the virus, like Thanatos the Angel of Death, sweeps its poisonous way, through our lives. Virtues of Virtual Dating In the meantime, just beyond the physical world, there’s a gigantic universe of souls awaiting your connection just a few keyboard strokes or phone pad taps away. Hopefully, those “souls” are connected to real living human beings and not bots or fake accounts. Such is one of the many risks of dating in cyberspace. It’s a risk well worth taking, especially during a pandemic when, outside of balconies, protests and masked-up meetings in Whole Foods, there isn’t much choice. For many singles, that means a dating app. The type of app depends on what you’re looking for, some temporary fun or marriage and a family? For instance, if you’re looking for a more serious relationship, you might try Hinge, which allows you to set your relationship preferences, then curates your matches in terms of ideals and interests, lowering your chances of being matched with Mr., Ms. or Dr. Wrong. It also recently added a “Date from Home” feature, which allows you to video chat with people you’ve messaged. Regarded by many as the Holy Grail of hookups, Tinder is one of the biggest dating sites. Perhaps because it’s so popular, it can involve a lot of swiping before you find someone worth putting on your mask, not to mention getting off your couch, to break quarantine and actually meet. In most societies, though we ladies tend to flirt with our eyes (still possible, even with a mask!), men are traditionally expected to initiate verbal contact. The Bumble dating app bucks tradition by only allowing women to send the first message, i.e., make the first move. If the woman doesn’t respond to the match in 24 hours, the connection is lost. This is very bonobo in terms of female empowerment, giving women some control in a time where many are bombarded with unwanted messages and, let’s face it, dick pics (precursors to Zoom Dick, they’re still flourishing and mostly nonconsensually). However, what’s great for some isn’t the best for others, and Bumble can be frustrating for shy gals and more dynamic guys. OK Cupid is considered best for providing accurate matches based on preferences, sexual orientations and gender identities. It lets you set your preferences regarding family, religion, political leanings (crucial these days) and Zodiac sign. It even lets you use certain Covid stances, like lack of Covid safety, as deal-breakers. The main problem with OK Cupid is that, unlike Tinder or Bumble, you may get caught in an avalanche of unwanted messages. Just like love itself, no dating site is perfect for everyone. What about special interests? According to a recent article by Digital Trends, top sites catering to hobbies or orientations include Kippo, (for gamers), HER (LGBTQ+ women), Pure (good for hookups) or NuiT (astrology buffs), and then there are the more traditional websites like Match and Plenty of Fish which still lead the pack in popularity for singles of all ages seeking relationships of all kinds. Advertising for Love Just about all of these dating apps and sites require that you post at least one photo and a description of yourself. If you’re not used to singing your own praises without sounding like a lame duck, this could be a daunting task. If you need some guidance, check out my classic book, Advertising for Love: How to Play the Personals (William Morrow Publishers). It may be over 35 years old, but it predicted the current online dating boom and, though dating apps are a lot quicker than those old newspaper personal ads, you still have to write something catchy, not too threatening, humorous but not offensive, honest but enticing. With all the advances in technology, you’re still essentially advertising for love. Of course, you don’t have to confine your search for a soulmate, addition to your polycule, hot phone sex or whatever your locked-down heart desires to dating apps. Lots of people meet the new love of their life on “traditional” social media sites, like Twitter or Instagram, or hook up with old flames through Facebook (links go to my accounts because, hey, I’m always looking to make new friends!). But no, LinkedIn is not a dating service; no matter how awesome you think you are, don’t try to hook up with people hoping for job offers. Speaking of mixing business and pleasure, don’t be like Jeffrey Toobin and catch a bad case of “Zoom Dick”—which can be worse than the virus… for your career. It’s usually best to keep your sex and dating life separate from your online business meetings, insanely aroused as you might feel around your co-workers. There are exceptions, such as if the “work” you’re engaging in is sex work or if you fall in love with a co-worker, and you’re both ready to deal with the consequences… but even then, you shouldn’t do the cyber-equivalent of PDA (public displays of affection) during a work meeting. So, just take this as a general Zoom Dick Prevention rule, don’t pull it out in the wrong online meeting any more than you would on stage at a conference (hopefully you wouldn’t, and if you would, forget dating; you need sex therapy). There’s nothing wrong with showing off sexually; just do it in the right, consensual situation. Some social media sites actually encourage you to let your kink flag fly. Whether you’re an experienced Top or bottom, or just a kink-curious newbie, these sites let you learn as you connect with people. Probably the most popular kink-positive social media site is Fetlife. If you’re a little adventurous, check out Bonoboville, a great place to connect, show off, share your thoughts and/or find a prime mate!Need to talk about dating, mating or anything else that you can’t talk about with anyone else? You can talk to us. Call the Therapists Without Borders of the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime 24/7 at 213.291.9497. We’re here for YOU. Getting to Know You… Once you’ve successfully advertised for love, and it appears some lucky person is interested in what you’ve got, congrats! Now it’s time to reap your dating reward and meet your potential mate IRL (in real life)… or is it? In these treacherous times, most single people opt to build a rapport online before meeting in person. Many daters try Zoom, FaceTime or other forms of video chat before taking that next big step to an IRL rendezvous. This alleviates some mystery so at least you can be pretty sure you’re not getting catfished, and it also helps you to get to know each other before taking the plunge…into going out and about in the midst of a pandemic. You may even choose to have the first few dates via video. Try a Zoom dinner (sure, Ramen’s okay, but do dress it up a bit) and a movie, cocktails, a smoke or whatever you’d like to share. Make it fun and festive, though splosh might be taking it a bit far... Of course, it’s not as much physical fun as in-person dating someone awesome. But if you realize midway through your cyber-date that your date is an asshat, at least you don’t have to Uber your way home. You just have to come up with a credible excuse why you have to leave the chat a little early. Have a few excuses handy, as in “Oooohhhh… this Ramen Alfredo is making me sicko!” or “Uh oh, Fido just knocked over the trash, and there are hypodermic needles in the driveway—gotta go!” Do not say you just got a text from your sister that your Mom caught Covid; that’s bad taste and very bad luck. One benefit of virtual dating is that your conversation won't be drowned out by restaurant din, club music or the raging drunk at the other end of the bar. You can even use your “sexy voice.” Another plus: no awkward moments when you have to figure out who picks up the check. Hey, if you keep your camera focused on your upper half, you don’t even have to wear pants! You may both feel so close, you decide to have cam sex or phone sex even before meeting IRL. That’s fine, just make sure the feelings are mutual and consensual before you strip down for your date. When in doubt, keep it “clean” and release your inner bonobo (tiger, horndog, pussy, anaconda or whatever applies) consensually, maybe in a webcam therapy session. Going Out IRL Eventually, unless you are both agoraphobic, you will want to meet IRL (in real life). At this point, you should know your date’s personality, philosophies, life goals, voice and appearance so well that the only thing that could turn one of you off is their smell. Then again, in the Coronapocalypse, you shouldn’t be getting close enough to detect such intimate aromas, at least not on the first IRL date. If it was difficult to plan and carry out an in-person date before, it’s double-tough in the Coronapocalypse. A walk through the park six feet apart? A masked brunch? If you’re cautious, you and your date should get a Covid test before meeting IRL. Yes, it’s a bit of a pain, but testing is getting easier in most places, and consider this: When you’re ready for sex, you’d probably get an STD test anyway, so with the pandemic, there’s just a little more testing involved. Even if you’ve both tested negative and you’re (presumably) Covid-free, wear your mask on first dates which are probably in public places and might involve all sorts of other people. Best to continue physically-distancing, even if you’re both tested, and especially if you aren’t. At least, if you live in a place where all the restaurants are closed, you’re not going to argue over where to eat! So, what to do together… especially when your area’s in quarantine? Even in lockdown mode, most local governments let you walk your dog (Fido’s got to go!), so if you both have pooches, take them for a stroll together… six feet apart. Careful the canines don’t get too friendly though; nonhuman animals can catch Covid too. True, it's not exactly a “hot date.” But look at it this way: Good teasing and foreplay usually makes sex a lot better and orgasms much deeper. So maybe all this getting to know each other while physical-distancing will enhance your erotic relationship if and when you’re finally in each other’s arms and humping each other’s brains out. No one’s saying it’s easy, but it’s possible to find love and lust in the Coronapocalypse, like AJ and Ronnie who met on the HER app. After getting to know each other virtually and then taking the necessary pandemic precautions, the pair, from two different states, decided to meet midway for a secluded night of hot romance… and as of this writing, they’re still sexy Pandemic Partners. As A.J. opines, “Who says you can’t find love in quarantine?” It happened for them. It can happen for you.Need to talk about dating, mating or anything else that you can’t talk about with anyone else? You can talk to us. Call the Therapists Without Borders of the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime 24/7 at 213.291.9497. We’re here for YOU. Reach Out and Touch… Yourself! Not everyone is up for the challenge of finding love or even lust in the Coronapocalypse. If you’re happy being single (at least, for now) or exasperated with advertising for love, maybe it’s best you use this “down time” for self-love and improvement. Let’s start with self-improvement. Now’s a good time to get in shape (most gyms are closed, but you can exercise at home and take the time to eat healthier), start a new hobby, create some great Coronapocalyptic art, practice meditation, learn to play an instrument, write that screenplay that’s been in your head since you were 12, build a new business (not a restaurant or bar right now; something pandemic-friendly like an online shop), take a virtual class (how about a virtual kink class?), catch up on reading great books you never finished or watch some awesome old movies—all things likely to make you a more interesting, desirable partner by the time we get through this crazy pandemic and back into the swing of things. What about “self-love”? The term means many different things, of course. These include noble ideals of self-development and self-acceptance, as well as the earthier reality of self-pleasure. It’s great to exercise, eat healthy and “love yourself” platonically. But loving yourself erotically is also good for you, and it’s natural. Aside from grasping tree branches and smartphones, human fingers are made for stroking, strumming… and self-loving! As George Carlin said, “If God (or the Goddess) had intended us not to masturbate, S/He would have made our arms shorter”… and our fingers less adept. Bonobo fingers are made for self-love too. You see our close Great Ape cousins, the bonobos, as well as other primates, doing it so much in the zoo (when the zoo is open, which most are not these days), you might want to tell them to “get a room.” Of course, there’s no reason you can’t go bonobos for self-love all year around; but the Coronapocalypse is the perfect time for you self-love slackers to step up your game. Do it in memory of my beloved mentor, the Godmother of Masturbation, Dr. Betty Dodson, single for all but five of her 91 years, but never lacking for orgasms, thanks to her hands, her vibrator(s), a great imagination and a heart full of love. In my not-so-humble opinion, if self-love doesn’t include a little quality masturbation time, you’re not fully self-loving. In fact, you’re cheating yourself of one of the best parts. During isolation, you’re more than likely spending extra time with yourself, so why not really enjoy your own company? Exploring masturbation is the easiest, safest and most convenient way to enjoy sex during physical distancing, and also explore your body and desires. Just remember, wash your hands before you start choking that chicken or polishing that precious pearl! According to the New York City Department of Health “You are your own safest sex partner.” As backed by health professionals, masturbating is the best and safest way to enjoy sex without physical touch. And...it can also boost your immune system. Right now is also the perfect time to try new toys and positions. Invest in yourself and your pleasure. There are plenty of places to buy toys and sexual enhancement products online, including Dr. Block’s Pleasure Shoppe (currently under construction, but check it out!). Moreover, you don’t have to be “all by yourself” as you make self-love. Remember, we’re just physical-distancing, not social-distancing. So, feel free to socialize as you strum your sexual bass guitar, and maybe you’ll find someone to play with. As long as it’s consensual (no Zoom Dick work or family calls, please), like the old AT&T song said, you can “reach out and touch someone” (virtually)… while you touch yourself (literally). Of course, self-pleasuring isn’t dating, though Zonker in Doonesbury calls it “self-dating.” So, how will you go on this date with yourself? By car, plane, train or a bicycle built for two? What virtual sex medium is best for you? Sex-a-Phone Everyone has their preferred d’vice and method for erotic and/or intimate pleasures. My personal favorite is good old-fashioned phone sex. It’s a lot sexier than abstinence, safer than a hazmat suit and very stimulating in a sapiosexual way. It’s aural sex. You can enjoy it with a new partner (if they let you know they’re game, please don’t just start moaning or heavy-breathing on a casual phone call) or with a professional service. There should be no shame in calling a phone sex service for a little helping hand—especially in a pandemic! If you do feel ashamed of enjoying phone sex, well, then maybe you need phone sex therapy. I love the phone so much I wrote a poem about it:This is an Ode to My Telephone, My plastic fantastic lover, my smooth operator, My companion, confidant, savior, friend. An ordinary yet revolutionary instrument that I press intimately against my ear and mouth. O, how I love thee, O Telephone, I touch your tones, your push-buttons that beckon invitingly, your mellifluous ring, your wiry ways, your voluptuously curling chord, your ever so receptive receiver, your amazing ability to communicate! To sing! To shout! To whisper secrets, confessions, fantasies, intimacies we’d never reveal face-to-face. Around the world and into the new, you transport my love, O Telephone, I touch your tones… You are my aural paramour. Obviously, I’m a phone freak: phone sex, phone therapy and just chatting on the phone with a friend. I love the intimate conversation steeped in the romantic mystery of that voice in the dark. The phone is especially conducive to erotic hypnosis, guided masturbation and exploring the erotic theater of the mind. I’ve guided many women through their first orgasm, taken many men into fantasies they’ve never shared before, helped many trans people enjoy voyages of sexual discovery and much more. No doubt, the Coronapocalypse is lousy for most things, but it’s a great opportunity to explore new erotic horizons through phone sex.Need to talk about anything that you can’t talk about with anyone else? You can talk to us. Call the Therapists Without Borders of the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime 24/7 at 213.291.9497. We’re here for YOU. Cornoapocalyptic Cam Sex If you’re more visual, go ahead and bump uglies on webcam. Why not enjoy some consensual Zoom Dick—or Zoom Pussy—if it turns you on? However, Zoom itself is not a great place to get naked. In fact, some Zoom sex parties have been busted, as they are in violation of the platform’s “acceptable use” requirements. But fear not, there are many safe havens in cyberspace where you can release your inner exhibitionist consensually and without fear of being evicted from the platform by the Zoom Dick Police. These include Skibbel and Bateworld, which match you with another eager stranger who shares your desire to connect and possibly even your kinks, fantasies or fetishes. Other sites, like Chaturbate, Adult Friend Finder, Masturbate 2Gether, and The Wank Cam, let you be a voyeur and/or join in on the camming fun. Hook several of you together in a cam multiplex and you can have a veritable webcam orgy! Sexty Time If you’re self-isolating in the family room with your parents or kids, you might want to forego the camming and get into sexting. On second thought, maybe you shouldn’t be masturbating in the family room. Lots of people like sexting these days, mostly because they’re used to texting. Also, it is quieter and much easier to do with other people in the room than phone sex or camming. Then again, maybe some Sext Machines believe their erotic utterances to be sheer poetry. Maybe they are! Whatever the case, keep in mind that unlike phone conversations and webcam chats which are gone when you are (unless one of you hits record), sexts are almost always forever embedded in the memory of your—and your sext partner’s—phone. This has proven highly problematic for many sext lovers, including celebrities. But hey, if you don’t care if your auto-corrected declarations of passion and perversion are tweeted to the world, sext away! Whatever your d’vice of choice, carve out some private space and time for sexting, phone sex or Zoom sex. You might also benefit from erotic hypnosis (live or recorded) to help you enter the Erotic Theater of the Mind, achieve hands-free orgasm, or an enhanced sexual experience without touch. Or just ditch the d’vices, and do it yourself. Sometimes, with the right training and mindset, you can even hypnotize yourself. The possibilities are endless. No Time Like NOW If you haven’t self-loved yourself yet this pandemic, you’re overdue! Set the mood, buy yourself flowers and a dildo or vibrator, tell yourself you’re gorgeous (and make sure you really mean it!) give yourself a massage (c’mon, you can reach your feet) and make beautiful self-love. You deserve it. Whether you have a partner or not, don’t use the Coronapocalypse as an excuse to have bad sex or no sex. So what are you waiting for? Wash up and get busy! © December 3, 2020. Susan Block, Ph.D., a.k.a. “Dr. Suzy,” is a world renowned LA sex therapist, author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure and horny housewife, occasionally seen on HBO and other channels. For information and speaking engagements, call 626-461-5950. Email her at [email protected]. Editorial Assistance on this article provided by Adriana Gomez-WestonRead or Post Comments on this Article on Facebook Twitter One Twitter Two Need to talk about dating, mating, self-love, erotic hypnosis, fantasy roleplay, fetishes, problems, pleasures or anything else that you can’t talk about with anyone else? You can talk to us. Call the Therapists Without Borders of the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime 24/7 at 213.291.9497. We’re here for YOU. Read More |
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GANGBANG Phone Sex Therapy
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by Dr. Susan Block. Are you thinking about gangbangs? Do you ever fantasize about multiple men having sex with one woman? Do you imagine your wife, lover or favorite celebrity at the center of the action? Would you want it to be with your friends or strangers? Have you ever participated in a gangbang? Would you like to try it? Do you need to talk about it? Being aroused by the idea of participating in a consensual gangbang is normal and a lot more common than you might realize. You may want to act on your desire, or you may not. Regardless, though gangbangs and all forms of group sex are taboo in most modern human societies—and no one should ever take part in a nonconsensual gangbang—they remain part of our prehistoric primate heritage. Indeed, gangbangs have been going on since the dawn of humanity, for thousands of years before the concepts of monogamy and even fatherhood came into understanding. Need to talk privately about gangbangs, group sex, swinging, cuckolding or any other form of recreational sex? call the world’s foremost experts, the Therapists Without Borders at the Dr. Susan Block Institute. Our team of highly qualified sex therapists, sex life coaches, fantasy roleplay performers, sexual psychodrama facilitators, erotic hypnotherapists and kink specialists are here for YOU anytime you need to talk. Whether you want to better understand your own feelings and desires, act them out in real life, learn how to share them with your partner, work through past experiences, hear about our own experiences with gangbangs, or explore a fantasy over the phone, via webcam through sext therapy and/or in person, we’re here for you. Call 213-291-9497. Why Do You Love Gangbangs? Many gangbang enthusiasts are worried that their interest in gangbangs, threesomes “The Lifestyle” and other forms of group sex makes them “weird.” If that sounds like you, rest assured you’re not weird. Human sexual history, in fact, is loaded with various kinds of group sex, including gangbangs. Unfortunately, much of it—way too much of it—has been by force, most notably and tragically during wartime. Unfortunately, when Hollywood movies, such as The Accused, depict gangbangs, though they don’t show genitalia like porn, they almost invariably show the horrible, nonconsensual kind. However, some of the group sex that’s been going on since hunter/gatherer times has been consensual and a great pleasure, as well as a profoundly meaningful experience, for all involved. That includes gender-balanced swing parties, same sex orgies, one male with a “harem” of females, as well as one female having sex with multiple men. So, there’s nothing new about group sex, including gangbangs. What is *new* is that the Internet allows us to learn more about what other people do than ever before in human history. Moreover, if we want, we can *hook up* with people who share our desires—including the desire to watch or partake in a good gangbang. Search “gangbang” in google, and you’ll see megatons of gangbang porn, and the great majority appears to be enthusiastically consensual. According to PornHub.com, which received 42 billion visits in 2019, “threesome” was the 13th most popular search term and “gangbang” was the 19th most popular, putting both in the top 20. But why is this? Aren’t we supposed to want to be with just one special lover? Why would sharing lovers with others turn us on? Sperm Wars & the Upsuck Effect The “Sperm Wars” phenomenon—where the womb becomes a battleground for sperm that fight like armies or football teams to get one of their sperm (the proverbial football) to the egg first—gives us a biological explanation of why gangbangs are so popular. Studies show that a man’s sperm count tends to rise when competition to fertilize the egg of his wife or girlfriend appears to be high. Whether the man really has genuine rivals who are having sex with his partner or it’s just in his vivid imagination, his brain sends a message to his testicles that says, “Send in the army!” or “We need the whole football team, including reinforcements, for this game!” In other words, “Make more sperm!” Whether he’s excited and happy about the competition or jealous and angry, this phenomenon tends to give a man a stronger erection and a more explosive ejaculation. Of course, it’s better for everyone concerned if he’s more glad than mad, but that does explain why jealous, angry lovemaking or “makeup sex” can be so arousing for some people, despite their better judgment. Conversely, sperm counts often decline in the routine sex of monogamous relationships, no matter how intimate and loving. Since the element of competition is missing, the brain’s message to the balls is, “You don’t need the whole football team to score this goal since there’s no rival team on the field. Conserve your resources and just send in a few runners.” The shape of the human penis gives us another clue as to why gangbangs are so popular. A study by Gordon Gallup and coworkers (2003) concluded that one evolutionary purpose of the thrusting motion characteristic of intense intercourse is for the penis to “upsuck” another man’s semen before depositing its own. Thus a man’s urge to thrust, through intercourse or masturbation, is often enhanced by the presence of another man or several men, whether real or fantasized. A Galaxy of Gangbangs There are many different kinds of gangbangs. There’s the beach party gangbang, a birthday gangbang, a soft-swing gangbang that involves outercourse instead of intercourse. It could be a spanking gangbang, a cuckold gangbang, an oral or an anal gangbang. In terms of the participants, there’s the classic one-woman-with-a-male-gang scenario—and then there’s anything else that turns you and you partner(s) on. Maybe you’re a man who longs to be gangbanged by other men, or perhaps by a group of women sporting strap-ons or squirting all over you. Most men who imagine such scenarios don’t dare express their feelings, not to other men nor to the women in their lives, for fear of being humiliated… even if “humiliation” is part of the fantasy. Need to talk about it privately with someone who understands? Call us at 213.291.9497. Consent is Essential As with any type of sexual activity, the most important element of a gangbang is consent. Fantasy gangbangs can involve whatever turns you on, but any real-life gangbang should require enthusiastic consent from all participants, especially the recipient, the person (usually, but not always, a female) who is at the center of the gangbang. Otherwise, it’s a gang rape. Even if that turns you on in fantasy, it’s not something to ever participate in reality. Keep in mind that, for many reasons, feelings of consent can change over the course of a few minutes or hours. So, it’s important to continually “check in” with the recipient to make sure she or he is “all right,” happy and eager for more. At the first sign of reluctance on the part of the recipient, no matter how turned on everybody else is, the gangbang must stop. Whether or not the gangbang is a success, it’s important to provide “after care,” especially to the recipient. This could take the form of hugs, drinks, food, help cleaning up, words of appreciation, a massage or whatever the recipient enjoys. Need advice preparing your next gangbang soirée? We’ll help you to make sure it’s a success for all concerned. Call the Therapists Without Borders of the Dr. Susan Block Institute at 213.291.9497. Are You a Cuckold? "Cuckold" is an old English term for a man whose wife (often called a “hotwife”) has sex with other men (called “bulls”). In the 21st century, there has been a resurgence of interest in the cuckold's predicament, cuckold sex, cuckold fantasies, cuckold erotica, hot wives, big bulls, sperm wars and the cuckold lifestyle. There’s also the cuckold gangbang, when the hotwife has sex with several bulls at one time. The gangbang may or may not include the cuckold himself. There are many types of cuckolds: Submissive Cuckolds, Dominant Cuckolds, Sissy Cuckolds, Fantasy Cuckolds, Sapiosexual Cuckolds, Interracial Cuckolds, Small-Cock Cuckolds, Bi-Curious Cuckolds, Swinger Cuckolds, Spanked Cuckolds, Cuckolds-in-Bondage, Cuckolds-in-Chastity, Director Cuckolds, Cuckold Voyeurs, Cuckold Exhibitionists, Cheated-On Cuckolds, Trans Cuckolds, Reluctant Cuckolds, Humiliated Cuckolds, Happy Cuckolds and many more varieties. Along with the growing popularity of cuckolding, there has been a growing acceptance of it as a “normal” sexual interest, even if it’s enhanced with a gangbang, as long as it’s all consensual. Nevertheless, many men feel ashamed of their desire to be cuckolded, perhaps especially if it involves a gangbang. Such men tend to feel a whole lot better when they learn the “sperm wars” biological explanation for their desires, as well as just how common and “normal” these desires are. Need to talk about sperm wars, cuckolding or gangbangs? Call the Dr. Susan Block Institute at 213-291-9497. Group Sex & Swinging There are many forms of group sex, from threesomes to orgies, polyamorous arrangements, swing parties and pansexual celebrations. Gangbangs are another form of group sex. Group sex might sound very kinky for some, but it fulfills a very natural, human need to share erotic, orgasmic, loving experiences with multiple people, friends, loved ones and attractive strangers. In a world that increasingly demands compartmentalization and isolation, there are few arenas left in which humans can share in this vital, life-affirming experience of communal ecstasy. Different group sex formations are popular, such as the “daisy chain” in which participants perform oral sex on each other in circular formation. Some threesomes exhibit a gangbang flair, such as the “spit-roast,” where two males engage a female (or another male), with one penetrating from the rear, usually doggy style, while the female performs fellatio on the other male. There’s also “double-penetration” in which one male penetrates the lady’s vagina while the other enters her anus. If she goes down on another, that’s a triple-penetration. Add a few more guys around them, watching, stroking themselves and waiting their turn, and you’ve got a classic gangbang. Go Bonobos for Gangbangs Gangbangs and other forms of group sex are very common amongst our closest genetic cousins, both common chimpanzees—who are more likely do it non-consensually—and especially bonobos —who usually do it with enthusiastic consent and are thus far more worthy of our emulation. In fact, the sexual behavior of all the great apes is a fascinating window into how early human sexual behavior evolved, giving us vital clues as to why gangbangs are so arousing for so many people. Many anthropologists agree that prehistoric humans often engaged in various forms of group sex for tens of thousands of years before the advent of farming and “civilization” started pressuring people, especially women, to be sexually monogamous. Certainly, prehistoric humans participated in consensual gangbangs and other bonoboesque forms of recreational sex that are generally considered taboo in modern human society. Do you yearn to liberate your inner bonobo… at least in the Erotic Theater of the Mind? Call us at 213-291-9497. If you’re a porn fan, you probably know that “bukkake” is a Japanese term that refers to spraying the face and body of a person, usually a woman, though sometimes a man, with sperm from one, several or many men. The word actually means “splash” or “squirt” in Japanese. In some bukkake sessions, 150 men ejaculate onto one woman. That’s some gigantic gangbang! In American-style bukkake, the recipient acts like she’s enjoying herself, rubbing the sperm into her skin like a beauty treatment. In Japanese-style bukkake, the recipient is more degraded, often acting like she is an unwilling participant (hopefully, it’s just an act). Legend has it that in ancient Japan, an adulterous woman would be dragged into the town square and tied up, whereupon every man in town ejaculated all over her in a frenzied bukkake gangbang. Basically, they seem to have been saying, “If you’re going to take it from a man other than you husband, you’re going to get it from everyone else. You’re going to be gangbanged.” Some say it comes from the practice of stoning an unfaithful woman to death, and that bukkake is a “kinder, gentler” chastisement. Whether or not the legends are true, “bukkake” became a form of Japanese porn in the 1980s, grew in popularity, and now if you type “bukkake” into google, you’re likely to get hundreds of sites, even if you don’t spell it right. Bukkake is so vivid and provocative, it can represent many different ideas and feelings. Years ago, in an antiwar context, I compared the “Shock & Awe” bombing of Iraq with bukkake (the nonconsensual kind) in Bukkake Bombing Crusade. But back to consensual bukkake (even if it’s made to look forced) where nobody gets killed and, hopefully, everybody has fun and big orgasms, including the recipient. By far the most common bukkake scenario is a group of males ejaculating on a female, but there are scenes where a group of women gangbang a man or woman, spraying the recipient with female ejaculate. Gay male bukkake gangbangs are also popular in which a group of men gangbang one male recipient, covering him in their creamy spunk. Just the sight of all that semen can trigger the Sperm Wars effect in many guys—gay, straight or bi. Banzai! Gangbangs: Natural, Normal…But Not Easy Just because a desire for gangbangs is natural and popular doesn’t mean it’s easy to make it happen in real life, especially in our erotophobic society. There are many variables with one-on-one sex, and group sex just ratchets up the possibilities for problems as well as pleasure. For instance, say you’re a man with an intense gangbang fantasy that you’d really like to make happen in real life. But what if the woman (your wife? Your girlfriend? Your sex buddy?) isn’t as enthusiastic about being “gangbanged” as you are about seeing her in that situation?
What if you can’t find the right guys? Where do you find them? How do you screen them? How do you handle safer sex? What if, despite the fantasy turning you on, the reality makes you jealous? What if people gossip about it, take photos without your permission or otherwise betray your trust? How do you mix lust with trust? Sometimes it helps to talk freely with someone who understands, won’t judge you and will help you. Whether you need more personalized advice or just want to roleplay a fantasy, call the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime at 213-291-9497 Are You a Gangbang Goddess? Are you a woman who wants to be gangbanged? Congratulations! You are a very sexual female, and you deserve to enjoy the tremendous, unparalleled pleasures of group sex. The good news is it probably won’t be tough for you to find partners who want to gangbang you. Just post an ad on a swinger site and watch the replies flood your inbox. The bad news is that it’s not so easy to find partners you really like, feel attraction for and trust with your naked sexuality. It might take some time and patience to mix trust with lust to create the gangbang of your dreams. Unfortunately, most modern societies around the world denigrate all forms of group sex, including consensual gangbangs. This can make your partner judge you harshly for confessing or expressing your desires. So, it’s usually best that you understand your feelings and the issues involved before divulging too much. Most importantly, before you plunge into the deep end of gangbanging and group sex, make sure this is something you want to do, not just something your husband or lover wants you to do. Don’t grudgingly “go along” with a scene that doesn’t turn you on, like Paul Manafort’s wife is alleged to have done in their “interracial” gangbangs. Enthusiastic consent—on your part and the part of all involved—is the basis of a great gangbang or any kind of great sex at all. Need to talk about how to turn your gangbang fantasy into reality? Want to find out how to create the ultimate gangbang, whom to invite, what to serve and what to wear? Want to learn more about the origins of your personal gangbang desires? Or do you just want to enjoy guided masturbation as we explore the fantasy together? Whatever you need to talk about, you can call the Therapists Without Borders of the Dr. Susan Block Institute and talk to one of our male, female, trans or non-binary therapists of all ages over 18 with great gangbang knowledge, experience and erotic appreciation. Whether you’d like to get a better understanding of your fetish, get some tips for talking to your partner about it, work through past experiences, hear about our experiences with gangbangs, or just explore gangbangs in the Erotic Theater of the Mind over the phone, via webcam through sext therapy and/or in person, we’re here to help. Call us anytime at 213-291-9497. Read More |
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Lupercalia + SPANK Launch Live Saturday Night February 16th on The Dr. Susan Block Show!
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This Saturday Night, February 16, 2019 on The Dr. Susan Block Show, we come to celebrate the kinky end of Valentine's Week 2019 with LUPERCALIA, the Original Pagan Valentine's Day, as well as the launch of the all-new SPANK ‘n’ Art edition of Dr. Susan Block’s SPEAKEASY JOURNAL (we'll have proof copies). Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block is "Most Dazzling Domme" SUZY award winner Goddess Phoenix, "Most Well-Rounded Kinkster" SUZY award winner Rhiannon Aaron reprising her stellar role as the Luper of Lupercalia, "Best Humiliatrix" She God Claire. "Best Submissive" Bratty Wolfie, "Most Congenial Sex Worker" Kacy TGirl, Bonoboville rapper Ikkor the Wolf, Dr. Suzy's kitty-kat show assistant Blossom Green, co-host and co-conspirator Capt’n Max and more!
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Valentine’s Day Splosh Night Live Saturday Night February 9th on The Dr. Susan Block Show!
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This Saturday Night, February 9, 2019 on The Dr. Susan Block Show, we'll get ready for Valentine's Day, World Bonobo Day and Lupercalia with a little Valentine Splosh and a whole lotta love. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block will be "Most Bonobo Couple" 2018 SUZY award winners and stars of SPLOSH 'n' Art, Danièle Watts and Rawkstar Chef Be*Live - who will create special raw chocolate and other Valentine's Day dessert sauces for sploshing - plus "Best Sex" 2018 SUZY award winners Lexi Lore and Eric John of Erotique Entertainment,"Most Bonobo" and "Best Female Ejaculation" 2018 SUZY award winner Juici Jenni, Malory Morgan, "Best Dog and Mistress" 2018 SUZY award winner Mother Tink with Nea Dune & Pamela Vandervelde, adult entertainer Honey Dior, Bonoboville rapper Ikkor the Wolf, Dr. Suzy's kitty-kat show assistant Blossom Green and co-host and co-conspirator Capt’n Max! Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2018: The SUZYs THIS Saturday December 29th, 2018
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This Saturday night, December 29th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will reflect upon another great year’s journey down the path of peace-through-pleasure and honor those that made it interesting, inspirational and orgasmic. Tune in to international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block, Capt’n Max and staff broadcasting live from Bonoboville LAX, 10:30 pm to Midnight PST, as we remember 2018, the fourth great Year of the Bonobo, and bestow the DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards, a.k.a., “The SUZYS,” upon our most memorable guests for the seventh consecutive year. Award categories include “Most Bonobo,” “Most Sapiosexual,” “Best Blow-Up Doll Sex Act,” “Most Well-Rounded Kinkster,”“Hottest Motorbunny Ride,” “Best Trump Voodoo Doll CBT,” "Most Torrential Golden Showers on Trump," "Best Strap-On Trump Stuffing," “Funniest Fundamentalist Refugee,” “Best Bonobo Way Book-Spanking,” “Most Dazzling Domme,” "Hottest Electric Violin," “Best Bonobo Conservationists,” and more. “These awards honor excellence in broadcast artistry and exhibitionism, recognizing erotic performance, sexual intelligence, and Weapons of Mass Seduction,” says Dr. Block. “They celebrate The Bonobo Way of ‘peace through pleasure’ in all kinds of weather and pay tribute, with love, humor, and deep respect, to those who work and play in the field of sexuality. For the sake of better sex education, superior sexuality research and development, more interesting and entertaining pornography, a more sex-positive aesthetic and a more bonoboësque ethos, we look forward to presenting these very special awards for our sixth consecutive year.” Award winners will be selected from guest appearances and products used on the 43 live broadcasts of The Dr. Susan Block Show in 2018. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or Call 626.461.5950. “The DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2018” will air live December 29th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight. Listen FREE on your computer at DrSusanBlock.Tv or your phone at http://m.drsuzy.tv. Call-In: 1.866.289.7068 or 626.461.5950. See the Live Show at DrSusanBlock.Tv for as little as $5.95, or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com. GO BONOBOS in the NEW YEAR! Help make 2019 another great Year of the Bonobo (8):{I). Make your new year’s resolution to learn “The Bonobo Way,” to bring about “Peace on Earth—Pleasure for All”… or at least improve your love life! Find out what these great apes know about sex—and the rest of life—that you don’t. The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA. Founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned, Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials, the Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure around the world. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max for this special show are former Penthouse Pet and Hot Romantic author Christine Dupree, plus Dr. Suzy’s sexy assistant Blossom Green, hip-hop star Ikkor the Wolf and more TBA. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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XXXmas Season Sex Workers Day Bacchanal Live This Saturday Night on The Dr. Susan Block Show!
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This Saturday night, December 15, 2018, on The Dr. Susan Block Show, we'll celebrate the Xmas Season in Bonoboville, and get set for the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers with Commedia Erotica, sapiosexual conversation, sexy live music, political discourse and the always alluring unknown. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block are kink educator 'Miguel' of Hollywood BDSM Club Threshold, adult film star Lilith Lustt, songwriter extraordinaire Elena Rayn, SUZY award-winner for "Most Well-Rounded Kinkster" Rhiannon Aarons. Mother Tink, Bonoboville rapper Ikkor the Wolf, kitty-kat show assistant Blossom Green, co-host and co-conspirator Capt’n Max and more. Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. "Jesus loved the hookers and so do we," proclaims Dr. Block in preparation for this Saturday's XXXmas Sex Workers Bacchanal Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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Hot-Wax Hanukkah This Saturday Night on The Dr. Susan Block Show
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This Saturday night, December 8, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show will heat up for the 7th night of Hanukkah 2018, the Festival of Lights & Gambling, with Commedia Erotica, sapiosexual conversation, live music, political satire, kinky fun, hot wax play, "strip dreidel" and the always alluring unknown. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block are an eclectic group of exciting guests (see if you can guess who was raised Jewish) including porn icon Ron Jeremy; veteran artist and femdom Sheree Rose; award-winning film actor Luzer Twersky; sexy porn stars Honey Dior, Lilith Lustt and Eva Yi. Bonoboville rapper Ikkor the Wolf, Dr. Suzy's kitty-kat show assistant Blossom Green, and her co-host and co-conspirator Capt’n Max and more TBA. Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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Spanksgiving Live Saturday Night on The Dr. Susan Block Show
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It's Our Duty to Spank Booty on Spanksgiving! This Saturday night, November 24, 2018, on The Dr. Susan Block Show we pull out our paddles and bare our butts as we celebrate Spanksgiving in Bonoboville with a show full of hot holiday spanking, Commedia Erotica, sapiosexual conversation, live music, political discourse and the always alluring unknown. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block are squirting cam gal Juici Jenni, nude model Sugar, and kinky cosplay couple Dorian Black and Peggy Reynolds. Plus Bonoboville rapper Ikkor the Wolf, kitty-kat show assistant Blossom Green, co-host and co-conspirator Capt’n Max and more. Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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Holiday Foreplay Live Saturday Night on The Dr. Susan Block Show
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This Saturday night, November 17, 2018, on The Dr. Susan Block Show we get into the holiday groove as Thanksgiving approaches followed by Christmas, Hannukah, Kwanzaa, the Winter Solstice, Festivus, and more. It's a show sure to be full of Commedia Erotica, sapiosexual conversation, live music, political discourse and the always alluring unknown. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block are squirting cam gal Juici Jenni, Bonoboville rapper Ikkor the Wolf, kitty-kat show assistant Blossom, co-host and co-conspirator Capt’n Max and more. Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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Halloween 2018: Kink Month Climax Live Saturday Night on The Dr. Susan Block Show
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This Saturday night, October 27, 2018, things get spooky and very sexy on The Dr. Susan Block Show as Kink Month 2018 climaxes with a hot Halloween show filled with racy costumes, kinky Commedia Erotica, sapiosexual conversation, live music, political discourse and the always alluring unknown. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block are fabulous FinDoms Goddess Virgin and Goddess Stella Sol, the return of Daniele Watts & Rawkstar Chef Be*LiVE, seductive singer Elena Rayn, and new Dr. Susan Block Institute sex therapist Cecily SimCoxxx. Plus Bonoboville rapper Ikkor the Wolf, Dr. Suzy's adorable show assistant Blossom Green as well as her husband, co-host and co-conspirator, Capt’n Max. Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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Kink Month Cosplay Live Saturday Night on The Dr. Susan Block Show
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This Saturday night, October 20, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show celebrates kink month with comic book character cosplay in a fitting prelude to Halloween. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block for this thrilling live broadcast filled with kinky Commedia Erotica, sapiosexual conversation, live music, political discourse and the always alluring unknown are kinky cosplayers Tony Stark, Pepper Pots, and Bruce Wayne, comedian and stripper Rainbow Scum, and new Dr. Susan Block Institute sex therapist Cecily SimCoxxx. Plus Bonoboville rapper Ikkor the Wolf, Dr. Suzy's adorable show assistant Blossom Green as well as her husband, co-host and co-conspirator, Capt’n Max. Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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Kink Month 2 Live Saturday Night on The Dr. Susan Block Show
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This Saturday night, October 13, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show continues getting kinky for Kink Month 2018 with another thrilling live broadcast filled with kinky Commedia Erotica, sapiosexual conversation, live music, political discourse and the always alluring unknown. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block are FemDom Mistress Lila Sage, comedian Anthony Davis, dom/sub switch actress/model Ebony Desire, new Dr. Susan Block Institute sex therapist Cecily, and camgal/makeup artist Crystal Mac, plus Bonoboville rapper Ikkor the Wolf, Dr. Suzy's adorable show assistant Blossom Green as well as her husband, co-host and co-conspirator, Capt’n Max. Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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Kink Month Kick-Off 2018 | Live Saturday Night on The Dr. Susan Block Show
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This Saturday night, October 6, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show kicks off Kink Month 2018 with another exciting live broadcast filled with kinky Commedia Erotica, sapiosexual conversation, live music, political discourse and the always alluring unknown. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block are free spirit vegan culinary master and multiple SUZY-award-winner Chef Be*Live, porn veteran Lillith Lustt, and multitalented model, actress, and camgirl Juici Jenni. Plus Bonoboville rapper Ikkor the Wolf, Dr. Suzy's adorable show assistant Blossom Green as well as her husband, co-host and co-conspirator, Capt’n Max. Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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Self Love September Climax this Saturday Night Live on The Dr. Susan Block Show
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This Saturday night, September 29, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show bids farewell to Self Love September with a wild show full of erotic politics, sexual performances, sapiosexual conversation, live music, and the alluring unknown. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block are Mistress Jenna Rotten, stripper comedian Sunshine McWane, camgals Honey Dior and Monet. Plus Bonoboville rapmaster Ikkor the Wolf, Dr. Suzy's show assistant Blossom Green as well as her husband, co-host and co-conspirator, Capt’n Max. Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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Erotic Autumn Equinox this Saturday Night Live on The Dr. Susan Block Show
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This Saturday night, September 22, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show celebrates Fall Equinox coming up on the Harvest Moon with erotic politics, sexual performances, sapiosexual conversation, live music, and the alluring unknown. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block are sexy camgirl Lexxy and stud stripper Andy the Gypsy, as well as Bonoboville rapmaster Ikkor the Wolf, Dr. Suzy's show assistant Blossom Green as well as her husband, co-host and co-conspirator, Capt’n Max. Have a question for Dr. Suzy or one of the guests? Call in live during the show at 1.866.289.7068. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More |
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