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DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2018: The SUZYs THIS Saturday December 29th, 2018 Comments Off on DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2018: The SUZYs THIS Saturday December 29th, 2018

 

This Saturday night, December 29th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will reflect upon another great year’s journey down the path of peace-through-pleasure and honor those that made it interesting, inspirational and orgasmic. Tune in to international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan BlockCapt’n Max and staff broadcasting live from Bonoboville LAX, 10:30 pm to Midnight PST, as we remember 2018, the fourth great Year of the Bonobo, and bestow the DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards, a.k.a., “The SUZYS,” upon our most memorable guests for the seventh consecutive year. Award categories include “Most Bonobo,” “Most Sapiosexual,” “Best Blow-Up Doll Sex Act,” “Most Well-Rounded Kinkster,”“Hottest Motorbunny Ride,” “Best Trump Voodoo Doll CBT,” "Most Torrential Golden Showers on Trump," "Best Strap-On Trump Stuffing," “Funniest Fundamentalist Refugee,” “Best Bonobo Way Book-Spanking,” “Most Dazzling Domme,” "Hottest Electric Violin," “Best Bonobo Conservationists,” and more.

“These awards honor excellence in broadcast artistry and exhibitionism, recognizing erotic performance, sexual intelligence, and Weapons of Mass Seduction,” says Dr. Block. “They celebrate The Bonobo Way of ‘peace through pleasure’ in all kinds of weather and pay tribute, with love, humor, and deep respect, to those who work and play in the field of sexuality. For the sake of better sex education, superior sexuality research and development, more interesting and entertaining pornography, a more sex-positive aesthetic and a more bonoboësque ethos, we look forward to presenting these very special awards for our sixth consecutive year.” Award winners will be selected from guest appearances and products used on the 43 live broadcasts of The Dr. Susan Block Show in 2018. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or Call 310.568.0066. “The DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2018” will air live December 29th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight. Listen FREE on your computer at DrSusanBlock.Tv or your phone at http://m.drsuzy.tv. Call-In: 1.866.289.7068 or 310.568.0066See the Live Show at DrSusanBlock.Tv for as little as $5.95, or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

See 2017's Winners.

See 2016’s Winners.

See 2015’s Winners.

See 2014’s winners.

See 2013’s Winners.

See 2012’s Winners.

GO BONOBOS in the NEW YEAR! Help make 2019 another great Year of the Bonobo (8):{I). Make your new year’s resolution to learn “The Bonobo Way,” to bring about “Peace on Earth—Pleasure for All”… or at least improve your love life! Find out what these great apes know about sex—and the rest of life—that you don’t. The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA. Founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned, Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials, the Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure around the world. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max for this special show are former Penthouse Pet and Hot Romantic author Christine Dupree, plus Dr. Suzy’s sexy assistant Blossom Green, hip-hop star Ikkor the Wolf and more TBA. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. Read More

ORGASM Comments Off on ORGASM

It’s all about the orgasm.

Well, maybe not all. There are other important aspects to good sex: sensuality, intimacy, humor, consent, creativity, openness, communication, love. But for many people, orgasm—yours and your lover(s)—tends to be the high point of a sexual experience.

Orgasm might just be the peak of our very existence. That’s why we also call it a “climax.” It’s certainly considered by many to be the most pleasurable thing we can enjoy. That thrumming rush of endorphins as it builds via foreplay, teasing and erotic tension, the electric thrill, the ultimate eruption and release, accompanied by intensely pleasurable, rhythmic muscle contractions in the pelvis and sometimes throughout the body, as well as in the mind, ecstasy enveloping your entire being, sometimes making you feel that you “lose” your body… or your mind. You might also feel like you’re floating through space or hurtling through time into infinity, a shattering of the “ego,” blending into a deep “cosmic” awareness of your cellular connection with everyone and everything in the universe, along with a marvelous sense of well-being.

Oh, what a feeling.

Yet, for some of us, orgasms are elusive, “over-rated” and almost mythical. Some people, usually women, have never experienced sexual climax in their lives. Other women or men, due to the aging process, or physical and/or mental trauma, may have once climaxed easily and often, but not anymore.

Orgasms aren’t everything, but not having them—for whatever reason—can certainly take the wind out of your sexual sails. What to do?

Need to talk about your orgasms?

Private and absolutely confidential, you can call the orgasm experts of the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime: 213-291-9497. Whatever your question, desire or orgasmic issue, we’re here for you.

Orgasm Education

Could you benefit from a little orgasm education? It’s not a subject they teach in school… at least not in the classroom. Yet most of us would greatly benefit from learning a thing or two about orgasms, as well as why and how we have them… or don’t have them.

Not everyone just instinctively “knows” how to climax in a way that is satisfying for themselves and their partners. Many women have to learn to “achieve” or release orgasm, and many men greatly benefit from learning to control the timing of their orgasms. Most people of all genders can achieve greater, stronger orgasms through experience, education and just sharing information.

What kinds of orgasms do you experience? What would you like to try?

Orgasms are like flowers; there are many different varieties.  All are beautiful in their own way, but some may not be your cup of love juice.  There are quickie orgasms, deep slow orgasms, clitoral orgasms and G-spot orgasms (for women), C-spot orgasms (also for women, involving the cervix), P-spot orgasms (for men), blended orgasms, extended orgasms, oral sex orgasms, masturbatory orgasms, woman-on-top orgasms, missionary orgasms, doggy-style orgasms, reverse-cowgirl orgasms, spoon-style orgasms, yabyum orgasms, first-time orgasms, multiple orgasms, simultaneous orgasms, orgasms that seem to come from parts of the body other than the genitals (i.e., nipplegasms, toegasms, eargasms), anal orgasms, emotional orgasms, no-touch orgasms, fantasy-powered orgasms, fetish-oriented orgasms, vibrator orgasms, dildo orgasms, sadomasochistic orgasms, orgy orgasms, bondage orgasms, pain-killer orgasms, sinus-clearing orgasms, “Sperm Wars” orgasms, tantric-style non-ejaculatory orgasms for men, male ejaculatory orgasms that shoot versus the kind that just dribble, and female ejaculatory orgasms (squirting). There are even so-called “forced orgasms” where the Dominant partner restrains the submissive (consensually, of course) until they climax, seemingly against their will. There are mini-orgasms that last a half-second and orgasms that go on for days—or feel like they do.

Got questions about any type of orgasm? Give us a call anytime at 213-291-9497.

“Oh God!”

In a very real sense, coming or “cumming” is sacred. Maybe that’s why so many of us call out to “God” when we cum. Climaxing launches us into a higher state of being—one many of us yearn to experience on a regular basis. However, while frequent orgasming is good and good for you, there are some practical limits. After all, you’ve got a life to live, maybe a job to work, relationships to foster, issues to deal with. Sacrificing everything else for the sake of the ultimate O isn’t necessarily desirable or even feasible.

For instance, you may be a “demisexual” who can only climax via intimacy with a meaningful partner, which might sound very nice but means that you freeze up during first-time encounters. On the other hand, you might have stronger orgasms via self-pleasure—or, even more problematic, during an affair—than with your regular partner, the person you love.

Orgasms, though fabulous, can be fickle.

Are your orgasmic needs at odds with your other needs, desires and goals? Need to sort it out with someone knowledgeable?

Or do you feel like you just need to “cum” in a safe, confidential context that doesn’t interfere with your other priorities and just lets you enjoy your strongest solo-sex orgasm possible?

To kick that Big O into overdrive, call the Therapists Without Borders of the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime 24/7. And yes, of course, you can masturbate during sessions. And no, there is no sex therapy center or phone sex service quite like ours. Call us: 213-291-9497.

Orgasm Yoga

Many people practice yoga, meditation and martial arts to reach that “higher” level of being, but an orgasm instantly blasts you past anything those disciplines can achieve—and (usually) with a lot less effort. It might not last long or grant deep wisdom, but there’s no denying the physical and mental bliss that occurs in that explosive moment and in the lingering after-glow.

How about orgasm yoga? Perhaps a class like Dr. Betty Dodson teaches featuring lessons in arousal and orgasm control, climaxing with a naked, orgiastic group release. Talk about Hot Yoga… wow! Sounds titillating—and it sure is—but unless you are an exhibitionist, for most people, having an orgasm is a private affair.

How about a private orgasm yoga class one-on-one with just you and your orgasm yoga teacher? We can make it happen via phone, webcam or sext therapy.

To get started, call us anytime at 213-291-9497.

A Glorious Gift

Climaxing yourself is one thing (and it’s a very important thing!), but being able to give someone else body-shaking orgasms is also a wonderful skill well worth cultivating. It’s a glorious gift to your partner, not to mention a self-esteem boost for yourself. While it’s certainly true that you are not “responsible” for your partner’s orgasm, there’s no denying how good you both feel when you can help someone you care about “cum.”

Whether you’re rubbing their button, stroking their shaft, fingering their g-spot (or p-spot), grinding against their pubic bone as you penetrate their depths, squeezing their stick, whispering fantasies in their ear, or going up and down as they go in and out, the power to give pleasure is the greatest power you have.

Do you have trouble helping your lover climax? Is your partner unable to orgasm when you have sex? Do you want to improve your ability to give your lover(s) pleasure? Need some advice or inspiration? Call our Pleasure Counselors anytime at 213-291-9497.

Orgasm Issues

We believe that everyone—male, female or however you identify—can experience some kind of orgasm. Furthermore, we all have a “right” to have orgasms (though we don’t have rights to have orgasms with others, unless they consent, of course).

For various reasons, not all of us can achieve orgasm as “freely” and easily as we’d like to, and some of us have a more difficult time of it than others. This may be due to a physical problem; a relationship issue; emotional trauma from past sexual abuse; a strict, religious, anti-sex upbringing or just a lot of really bad sex.

Some women suffer from “anorgasmia,” the inability to climax. The good news is that many anorgasmic learn to have fantastic orgasms, if they really want to, with sex therapy (especially if the anorgasmia is due to trauma from past experiences), sex education, relaxation and kegel exercises, perhaps a good vibrator or, if the anaorgasmia is very severe, the help of medications and hormone treatments.

Though anorgasmia is more common among women than men, some guys, especially older males or men taking antidepressants and other medications, are anorgasmic or just have difficulties climaxing.

Sometimes it might take a long period of stimulation, more than your partner enjoys, for you to climax. You might need or desire more consistent, lengthier or more intense stimulation than your partner can even tolerate. This discrepancy in orgasmic needs can turn pleasure (orgasm) into pain and frustration for both of you.

If that sounds like your situation, maybe we can help, as we’ve helped thousands of men, women and couples every day for over 25 years. Give us a call at 213.291.9497. We’re here for you.

Many men, especially younger men, suffer from so-called “premature” ejaculation. The suffering is not in the orgasm itself, but in the shame and embarrassment often felt with a partner hoping for more. The good news is that most men naturally slow down as they age. Moreover, if you really want to learn how to keep from blowing your load before your partner is ready for it, even when you’re young, you can do it! Read “Pre-Mature Ejaculation Combat Tips & Techniques,” and try the stop-start or squeeze techniques and other suggestions. Then, if you have questions or need some personal guidance for great orgasm control—which ultimately leads to stronger, more satisfying orgasms—give us a call anytime at 213.291-9497.

Benefits of Orgasm

As if the pure pleasure of orgasm isn’t enough to make you want to cum right now, get this: climaxing is good for your health.

It’s common knowledge that orgasms relieve stress, but they also benefit your health in numerous other ways. The big O raises your heart rate—even if you do it lying down! Exercising your heart is great cardio. It’s just what the doctor ordered (though most doctors wouldn’t dare to order it). Orgasms can also reduce inflammation and sometimes completely eliminate the pain of a headache, cramps or even sinus congestion. The sexual hormones released during an orgasm are linked to lower rates of anxiety, depression, and suicide. A good climax can help you fall into that deliciously deep sleep that eludes so many of us in today’s 24/7 society—and its much better for you than taking a Xanax or even a Melatonin. Regularly orgasming keeps your skin healthy and younger looking. An orgasm a day reduces the risk of prostate cancer in men. There’s even evidence that women who climax regularly during sex live longer than women who don’t.

Can more orgasms create peace on earth? Who knows, but it’s the Bonobo Way, and hey, it’s worth a try! Like the old saying goes: You can’t fight a war while you’re having an orgasm.

Orgasm is a great equalizer. Not everyone in this unfortunately unequal world of ours can be rich, powerful, beautiful (in the conventional sense) or “successful.” But everyone alive can experience an orgasm of some sort, and that’s a very valuable kind of “success” of its own.

Orgasms are amazing, maybe the most amazing life-affirming moments we living creatures can experience, but they can be tricky. There’s any number of issues that can pop up when dealing with them, just a few of which we’ve mentioned above. Whatever your issue, the orgasm experts of the Dr. Susan Block Institute are here for you. You can call us anytime for a totally confidential conversation about orgasm or any aspect of sex, anytime you need to talk. Don’t miss out on the better, stronger, easier, healthier orgasms that you deserve.

Call us now at 213-291-9497.

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DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2017: The SUZYs THIS Saturday December 30th, 2017 Comments Off on DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2017: The SUZYs THIS Saturday December 30th, 2017

This Saturday night, December 30th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will reflect upon another great year’s journey down the path of peace-through-pleasure and honor those that made it interesting, inspirational and orgasmic. Tune in to international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block, Capt’n Max and staff broadcasting live from Bonoboville LAX, 10:30 pm—Midnight PST, as we remember 2017, the third great Year of the Bonobo, and bestow the DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards, a.k.a., “The SUZYS,” upon our most memorable guests for the sixth consecutive year. Award categories include “Most Bonobo,” "Sexiest Sex Therapist," "Funniest Former Porn Star," "Most Well-Rounded Kinkster," "Hottest Motorbunny Ride," "Best George Bush, Sr. #MeToo Story," "Funniest Fundamentalist Refugee," "Most Artistic Asshole," "Most Imaginative Dominatix," "Best Bonobo Conservationists," and more.

"These awards honor excellence in broadcast artistry and exhibitionism, recognizing erotic performance, sexual intelligence and Weapons of Mass Seduction," says Dr. Block. "They celebrate The Bonobo Way of 'peace through pleasure' in all kinds of weather and pay tribute, with love, humor and deep respect, to those who work and play in the field of sexuality. For the sake of better sex education, superior sexuality research and development, more interesting and entertaining pornography, a more sex-positive aesthetic and a more bonoboësque ethos, we look forward to presenting these very special awards for our sixth consecutive year."

Award winners will be selected from guest appearances and products used on the 45 live broadcasts of The Dr. Susan Block Show in 2017. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the "Speakeasy" studio audience or Call 310.568.0066 “The DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2017” will air live December 30th, 2017, 10:30pm-Midnight. Listen FREE on your computer at DrSusanBlock.Tv or your phone at http://m.drsuzy.tv. Call-In: 1.866.289.7068 or 310.568.0066. See the Live Show at DrSusanBlock.Tv for as little as $5.95!

See 2016's Winners. See 2015's Winners. See 2014's winners. See 2013’s Winners. See 2012’s Winners.

GO BONOBOS in the NEW YEAR! Help make 2017 another great Year of the Bonobo (8):{I). Make your new year’s resolution to learn “The Bonobo Way” to bring about “Peace on Earth—Pleasure for All”… or at least improve your love life! Find out what these great apes know about sex—and the rest of life—that you don’t.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA. Founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials, the Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure around the world.

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This Saturday night, December 30th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will 

Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max for this special

ormer Penthouse Pet and Hot Romantic author Christine Dupree, plus Dr. Suzy's sexy assistant Phoenix Dawn, hiphop star Ikkor the Wolf and more TBA.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

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About the Block Institute (0)

The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences is an internationally renowned center for sex exploration, expression, education, investigation and therapy, founded by Susan M. Block, Ph.D. in 1991.

Our mission is to assist individuals, couples, groups and communities to explore and unlock the “secrets” to their own sexualities and to support them in finding ways to meet their needs and desires so that they are not self-destructive or harmful to others. We serve a diverse range of men, women and couples of all types, orientations, cultures and lifestyles, helping them with a wide range of sexual pleasures and problems, from impotence to exhibitionism, sex addiction to orgasmic fulfillment, transgender issues to relationship problems, erotic fantasies to challenging realities, fears to desires, fetishes to marriages.

We offer private therapy over the telephone as well as in-person, including sex therapy, relationship counseling, fantasy roleplay, fetish exploration, and life coaching. We also give seminars and produce radio and TV shows that deal with a variety of sexual subjects. We offer a wide selection of erotic sex educational and inspirational materials, including books, articles, DVDs, CDs, downloads, video and audio streams, aphrodisiacs, erotic art, bonobo materials and sex accessories.

The Block Institute is a private, non-profit, non-denominational research project of Susan Block, Ph.D. We are not associated with any government or professional groups, nor are we licensed by any state or federal agencies. We provide no medical treatment, nor any kind of service that requires a government license.

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DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2016: The SUZYs THIS Saturday January 7, 2017 Comments Off on DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2016: The SUZYs THIS Saturday January 7, 2017

This Saturday night, January 7th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will reflect upon another great year’s journey down the path of peace-through-pleasure and honor those that made it interesting, inspirational and orgasmic. Tune in to international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block, Capt’n Max and staff broadcasting live from Bonoboville LAX, 10:30 pm—Midnight PST, as we remember 2016, the second great Year of the Bonobo, and bestow the DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards, a.k.a., “The SUZYS,” upon our most memorable guests for the fifth consecutive year. Award categories include “Most Bonobo,” "Sexiest Sex Therapist," "Funniest Porn Star," "Best Female Ejaculator," "Best Male Ejaculator," "Most Orgasmic Sybian Rider," "Sexiest Spoken Word," "Funniest Fundamentalist Refugee," "Most Artistic Anus," “Best Aphrodisiacs,” “Best Exhibitionist,” "Most Musical Porn Star," "Sexiest Live Musical Performance," "Savviest Sex Worker," "Most Creative Dominatix," "Most Promising Porn Star Politician," "Best Bonobo Conservationists," and more. To win, you must have been a guest or placed a product on The Dr. Susan Block Show in 2016.

"These awards honor excellence in broadcast artistry and exhibitionism, recognizing erotic performance, sexual intelligence and Weapons of Mass Seduction," says Dr. Block. "They celebrate The Bonobo Way of 'peace through pleasure' in all kinds of weather and pay tribute, with love, humor and deep respect, to those who work and play in the field of sexuality. For the sake of better sex education, superior sexuality research and development, more interesting and entertaining pornography, a more sex-positive aesthetic and a more bonoboësque ethos, we look forward to presenting these very special awards for our fifth consecutive year."

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the "Speakeasy" studio audience or Call 310.568.0066 “The DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2016” will air live January 7, 2017, 10:30pm-Midnight. Listen FREE on your computer at DrSusanBlock.Tv or your phone at http://m.drsuzy.tv. Call-In: 1.866.289.7068 or 310.568.0066. See the Live Show at DrSusanBlock.Tv for as little as $5.95!

See 2015's Winners. See 2014's winners. See 2013’s Winners. See 2012’s Winners.

GO BONOBOS in the NEW YEAR! Help make 2017 another great Year of the Bonobo (8):{I). Make your new year’s resolution to learn “The Bonobo Way” to bring about “Peace on Earth—Pleasure for All”… or at least improve your love life! Find out what these great apes know about sex—and the rest of life—that you don’t.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA. Founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials, the Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure around the world.

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Dr. Suzy & Pr. Max’s 24th Wedding Anniversary Bacchanal in Bonoboville this Saturday, April 9th! Comments Off on Dr. Suzy & Pr. Max’s 24th Wedding Anniversary Bacchanal in Bonoboville this Saturday, April 9th!

Saturday night, April 9th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will celebrate international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and publisher/producer Pr. Maximillian R. Lobkowicz di Filangieri's 24th Wedding Anniversary. Joining the ridiculously happy couple live in-studio will be a star-studded guest list, including Guests of Honor Mistress Selina Minx, Ron Jeremy, Jessica JaymesJohn Barrymore, Eric John & Riley Reyes, Amor Hilton, Luc Wylder & Alexandra Silk (aka Silky), Isiah Maxwell, Jessica Shores (aka J-sho), Master D, Onyx Muse, Anthony Lee Winn, Tammie Parrott, Corpsy, Joe Williamson, Luzer Twersky, Loni Legend, Barry Fisher, Me$$ed UpIkkor the Wolf,  Nori Carter, Daryl Wright and DrSuzy.Tv associate producer Dayton Rains.

An orgasmic anniversary cheesecake will be whipped up with pansexual love by Rawkstar Chef Belive, aka Brian Lucas, who will attend with renowned Django Unchained star of stage and screen Daniel Watts.  (together they are famous as the interracial couple cited by LAPD for allegedly having sex in the car, though they were fully clothed). Ron Jeremy (not just a penis, but a pianist as well) will play a medley of classics and Nori Carter will play his original music on Dr. Suzy's grandmother's 1926 Steinway medium grand piano (just pulled out of storage and tuned by Dan the Piano Man!) in honor of the 24th Wedding Anniversary, the symbol of which is "Musical Instruments." Mistress Selina Minx will play harp or ukelele, depending on her mood. Other guests will also show off their musical talents in this sure-to-be amazing celebration of sex, art, music and long-term love. And yeah, there could be some sex...

"Dr. Suzy & Pr. Max's 24th Wedding Anniversary" will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show Saturday night, April 9th, 2016, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv. This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum, JuxLeather, Wein-Erotik-Edition.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

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The DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2015, aka “The SUZYs” This Saturday, January 2nd LiVE from Bonoboville! Comments Off on The DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2015, aka “The SUZYs” This Saturday, January 2nd LiVE from Bonoboville!

This Saturday night, January 2nd, The Dr. Susan Block Show will reflect upon another great year’s journey down the path of peace-through-pleasure and honor those that made it interesting, inspirational and orgasmic. Tune in to international sexologist Dr. Susan Block, Capt’n Max and staff broadcasting live from Bonoboville LAX, 10:30 pm—Midnight PST, as we remember 2015, the first great Year of the Bonobo, and bestow the DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards, a.k.a., “The SUZYS,” upon our most memorable guests. Award categories include “Most Bonobo,” "Sexiest Sex Researcher,"  "Most Eloquent Porn Star," "Most Orgasmic Sybian Rider," "Most Congenial Revolutionary," "Funniest Fundamentalist Refugee," "Most Artistic Anus," “Sexiest Author,” “Best Aphrodisiacs,” "Most Orgasmic Mad X Bike Rider,"  “Best Twerking,”  “Best Exhibitionist,”"Sexiest Live Musical Performance," and more. To win, you must have been a guest or placed a product on The Dr. Susan Block Show in 2015.

"These awards honor excellence in broadcast artistry and exhibitionism, recognizing erotic performance, sexual intelligence and Weapons of Mass Seduction," says Dr. Block. "They celebrate The Bonobo Way of 'peace through pleasure' in all kinds of weather and pay tribute, with love, humor and deep respect, to those who work and play in the field of sexuality. For the sake of better sex education, superior sexuality research and development, more interesting and entertaining pornography, a more sex-positive aesthetic and a more bonoboësque ethos, we look forward to presenting these very special awards for our fourth consecutive year."

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the "Speakeasy" studio audience or Call 310.568.0066

“The DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2015” will air live January 2, 2016, 10:30pm-Midnight. Listen FREE on your computer at DrSusanBlock.Tv or your phone at http://m.drsuzy.tv. Call-In: 1.866.289.7068 or 310.568.0066. See the Live Show at DrSusanBlock.Tv for as little as $5.95!

See 2014's winners. See 2013’s Winners. See 2012’s Winners.

GO BONOBOS in the NEW YEAR! Help make 2016 another great Year of the Bonobo (8):{I). Make your new year’s resolution to learn “The Bonobo Way” to bring about “Peace on Earth—Pleasure for All”… or at least improve your love life! Find out what these great apes know about sex—and the rest of life—that you don’t.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA. Founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials, the Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure around the world.   Read More

The DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards This Saturday, December 27th! Comments Off on The DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards This Saturday, December 27th!

This Saturday night, December 27th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will reflect upon another great year’s journey down the path of peace-through-pleasure and honor those that made it interesting and orgasmic.

Tune in to international sexologist Dr. Susan Block, Capt’n Max and staff broadcasting live from Bonoboville LAX, 10:30 pm—Midnight PST, as we remember 2014 and bestow the DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards, a.k.a., “The SUZYS,” upon our most memorable guests. Award categories include “Most Bonobo,” “Sexiest Author,” “Best Musical Sex Parody,” "Most Intelligent-Sounding Porn Star," "Kinkiest Committed Couple," “Most Sex-Positive Political Candidate,” “Hottest Pharmacist,” “Life of The Party,” “Best Pick-Up Artist,” “Mother Teresa of Sex,” "Most Copious Ejaculator—Male & Female (now banned in the UK)," “Wildest Sex Toy,” "Most Intoxicated," “Most Congenial Revolutionary,” “Most Drama,” “Best Aphrodisiacs,” "Most Orgasmic Sybian Rider," “Most Bonobo Mainstream Star,” “Best Twerking,” “Still-Sexiest Sex Symbol,” “Best Exhibitionist” and more. To win, you must have been a guest or placed a product on The Dr. Susan Block Show in 2014.

"These awards honor excellence in broadcast artistry and exhibitionism, recognizing erotic performance, sexual intelligence and Weapons of Mass Seduction," says Dr. Block. "They celebrate The Bonobo Way of 'peace through pleasure' in all kinds of weather and pay tribute, with love, humor and deep respect, to those who work and play in the field of sexuality. For the sake of better sex education, superior sexuality research and development, more interesting and entertaining pornography, a more sex-positive aesthetic and a more bonoboësque ethos, we look forward to presenting these very special awards for our third consecutive year."

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“The DrSusanBlock.Tv Awards 2014” will air liveDec. 27th, 2014, 10:30pm-Midnight. Listen FREE on your computer at DrSusanBlock.Tv or your phone at http://m.drsuzy.tv. Call-In: 1.866.289.7068 or 310.568.0066. See the Live Show at DrSusanBlock.Tv for as little as $5.95! See 2013’s Winners. See 2012’s Winners.

GO BONOBOS in the NEW YEAR! Help make 2015 the Year of the Bonobo (8):{I). Make your new year’s resolution to learn “The Bonobo Way” to bring about “Peace on Earth—Pleasure for All”… or at least improve your love life! Find out what these great apes know about sex—and the rest of life—that you don’t.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA.  Founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials, the Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure around the world.   Read More

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Honoring Excellence in Broadcast Artistry & Exhibitionism

This Saturday’s live broadcast of The Dr. Susan Block Show will reflect upon another extraordinary year’s journey down the path of peace-through-pleasure and honor those that made it interesting and orgasmic! Tune in live to international sexologist Dr. Susan Block, Capt’n Max, Trixie Plenty and other members of the DrSusanBlock.tv staff, as we remember 2013 and bestow awards upon our most memorable guests for "Sexiest Sex Researcher," "Most Intelligent-Sounding Porn Star," "Most Orgiastic Author," "Truest Libertine," "Kinkiest Committed Couple," "Most Bonobo-Friendly Author," "Sexiest Mainstream Performer," "Best Female Ejaculator," "Best Male Ejaculator," "Best-Dressed Guest," "Hottest Post-Show Sex," "Best Boob Job," "Sexiest Promoter," "Most Erotic Artist," "Wildest Committed Couple,"  "Most Orgasmic Sybian Rider," "Most Fanatic Foot Fetishist," "Best Lollipop-Licker," "Most Mesmerizing Pole Dancer," "Most Obnoxious," "Most Enlightening Sex Educator," "Hottest Hair," "Best Exhibitionist," "Most Blasphemous," "Most Morbid," "Most Impressive P-Spot Stimulator," "Best Peter Piper Holder," "Most Dangerous Sex Act," "Most Intimate Interview," "Greatest Erotic Entertainment Longevity," "Most Bonobo," "Most Adorable," "Best Sex Play," "Best Bonoboville Caricaturist," "Most Royal Without Being Spoiled," "Most Family-Oriented Porn Star," "Best Sex Toys," "Sharpest Whip," "Wildest Bartender," "Most Gracious," "Most Intoxicated" and more. In order to win, you need to have been a guest on The Dr. Susan Block Show in 2013.

"The DrSusanBlock.tv awards honor excellence in broadcast artistry and exhibitionism, recognizing erotic performance, sexual intelligence and Weapons of Mass Seduction," explains Dr. Block. "They celebrate 'peace through pleasure' in all kinds of weather, and they pay tribute, with humor and deep respect, to those of us who work and play in the field of sexuality. For the sake of better sex education, more high quality sexuality research and development, more interesting and entertaining pornography and erotica, a more sex-positive aesthetic and a more bonobo ethos, we present these awards."

The DrSusanBlock.TV Awards will air live December 28th, 2013, 10:30pm-Midnight PST on The Dr. Susan Block Show.

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Call-In: 1.866.289.7068 or 310.568.0066. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1.

For a list of last year's winners, go to http://bloggamy.com/awards/. Watch the Live Show and past shows and clips at DrSusanBlock.Tv (for as little as $5.95!)

Coming Up: January 3-5, 2014: Dr. Susan Block will join a galaxy of older TV stars, film legends (both mainstream and adult) and some of the world's hottest MiLFs and GiLFs at THE HOLLYWOOD SHOW, the world's biggest celebrity autograph and memorabilia convention, at the Loews Hotel. Dr. Block will conduct interviews with several of the stars, as well as sign copies of her book The 10 Commandments of Pleasure: Erotic Keys to a Healthy Sexual Life.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA. Founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials, the Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure around the world.

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¿Tienes alguna pregunta sobre el sexo? ¿Alguna fantasía que le gustaría explorar? ¿Algun fetiche que no puede entender? ¿Un deseo que desea liberar? ¿Necesitas hablar con alguien acerca de algo que no puedes hablar con nadie mas? Usted puede hablar con nosotros. Cada vez que usted necesite hablar durante las 24 horas del día, nuestros famosos sexólogos telefónicas del Instituto de Dr. Susan Block de las Artes y las Ciencias eróticos, estan a sólo una llamada telefónica de larga distancia, y nos puede llamar al 310.568.0066

Aquí en el Instituto de Dr. Susan Block, ofrecemos diferentes formas de terapia sexual a medida adaptadas, a las necesidades personales de nuestros clientes, incluyendo nuestro mundialmente reconocido servicio de terapia sexual telefónicas las 24 horas del día.

Reconocemos que la mayoría de las personas no desean o no necesitan entrar en nuestras oficinas de Los Angeles para la asesoría individual o para las sesiones de terapia, ni estamos siempre disponibles para propuestas de citas presenciales. Pero usted nos puede llamar en cualquier momento y desde cualquier lugar, solamente cuando llame directamente a: (310) 568-0066.

Desde la discusión de la sexualidad, cuestiones eróticas, los placeres, los problemas, las fantasías y los fetiches, son asuntos muy privados. Nuestros servicios telefonicas son las más populares, y en la mayoría de los casos, la más efectiva de terapia sexual. Por otra parte, mientras que las sesiones en persona están disponibles sólo con cita previa y en nombramientos de persona, deben hacerse por lo menos una semana de adelanto, nuestro servicio de terapia sexual telefónica está de guardia las 24 horas del día, siete días a la semana, incluso festivos. Cada vez que necesite que hablar, nuestros terapeutas sexuales telefónicas estan disponibles. Y no, no existe alguna otra terapia teléfonica o terapia de sexo como el de nosotros.

Totalmente privada, absolutamente confidencial, los escuchamos, y los exploramos con usted; le guíamos, le recomendamos, lo inspiramos, y lo educamos, Juego de roles para usted, fantaseamos con usted (ninguna fantasía es demasiado tabú), y ayudarle con cualquier cosa, desde la impotencia a la exhibicionismo, la adicción al sexo a satisfacción orgásmica, las cuestiones de transgénero a problemas de pareja, la ejaculación masculina o femenina a problemas de intimidad, el intercambio de energía con el travestismo, "fantasías sexuales" a realidades difíciles, chat adulto de profundo amor, monogamia con la pornografía, política sexuales a educaciones religiosas, "hablar sucio" al romance audio, su pasado sexual de su futuro erótico, gay, heterosexual, bisexual, los temores a los deseos, fetiches a los matrimonios. El cielo es sin límite, pero estamos con los pies en la tierra como ustedes.

Si usted necesita hacer una pregunta, tiene alguna fantasía, quiere obtener ayuda con un problema, explorar algun fetiche, o simplemente hablar con alguien acerca de algo que no puede hablar con nadie mas, usted puede hablar con nosotros ahora.

Usted no está solo. Estamos aquí para ayudarle.

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Do you seek a more spiritual approach to sexuality?

Are you dissatisfied with the sex-negative dogma of most organized religions, yet not entirely comfortable with the crass, objectifying, even soul-deadening lack of intimacy involved in most non-spiritual approaches to sex?

Do you want to find “pure bliss” in this lifetime? Do you desire erotic enlightenment?  Do you long to feel the deepest connection between your body and your partner’s, or between the universe inside and outside of you? Would you like to experience better, more frequent, and longer orgasms? Full-body orgasms? Touch-free orgasms? Or are orgasms not really the point for you? Do you yearn for the kind of soul-enlivening intimacy that can only be called “spiritual”?

Are you striving to make sex more than just a path to orgasm, more even than just something “enjoyable”? Do you have a sense that there is a more intense pleasure and deeper understanding and connection available through sex than you have yet experienced? Do you long to practice a more “sacred” sexuality?  Or, perhaps your desires are more down to earth... perhaps you are seeking a real solution to a real physical problem. Then again, maybe you are just curious by nature, and are eager to explore new regions of erotic knowledge and understanding.

In any case, if the answer to more than one of the above questions is “yes,” you would benefit from learning something about Tantric Sex.

Although there are many definitions, Tantra is a body of beliefs, practices, and teachings aimed at expanding consciousness, enhancing interconnectedness, and weaving the different natures of the universe into an integrated whole. In fact, the word “tantra” means “weaving,” and tantric ritual seeks to weave the supra-mundane or spiritual with the mundane or physical, identifying the microcosm with the macrocosm.  The Tantric practitioner uses yoga, mantras, mudras, mandalas, chakras, yantras and other systems to attempt to manipulate prana, an energy that flows through the universe (inside and outside of one's own body) to attain goals that may be spiritual, material or both.

“Tantric Sex” forms a subdomain of this overall tradition that weaves the spiritual with the material. Some call tantric sex “neotantra,” identifying it as the “new age” variation or modern Western interpretation of traditional Eastern Hindu and Buddhist tantra. Tantric sex uses special mind and body techniques to cultivate ecstatic consciousness as well as increased spiritual awareness of the erotic consciousness that pervades one's human nature.  Tantric sexual methods may be practiced alone, in partnership, or in the sacred sex rituals of groups.

Tantric sexual practices aren’t “just” about heightened consciousness.  They certainly have immediate, tangible benefits: they can make you more anatomically flexible, and can help solve many physical sexual problems. Tantric sex techniques can be a great help to women who have difficulty experiencing orgasm, men with premature ejaculation tendencies and couples who wish to attain more intimacy through sex. These practices can greatly help people to "slow down," breathe deep and discover new and exciting sexual positions and techniques. Tantric practice can literally breathe new life into your sexuality.

However, Tantra is also about going even deeper...about connecting with the sexuality of your partner (whatever their sex, and whatever way you swing), and connecting with the orgasmic sexuality of the entire universe. Tantric sex practices not only teach us ways of prolonging and enhancing the pleasure of making love, but of utilizing potent orgasmic energies more effectively for your overall health, enlightenment and well-being. This is not only to increase your individual awareness and understanding, but that of the people around you. Overall tantric philosophy focuses on enhancing compassion and consciousness, so as to serve, heal and help others: one of the greatest pleasures in life. Indeed, serving, healing and helping others is exactly what the Block Institute is all about.

Dr. Susan Block, the founder of the Institute, has studied and practiced various forms of Tantra since she was a freshman at Yale University where she meditated and practiced Kundalini yoga and advanced deep breathing techniques for an hour every day before class.  She went on to study at Tantric ashrams and communities in Kathmandu, Nepal and Dharamsala, India, as well as with the late Tibetan Tantric Meditation Master Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche, eminent embodiment of the “crazy wisdom” (Tibetan: yeshe chölwa) tradition of Tibetan Buddhism, and other Tantric masters and practitioners at Naropa Institute in Boulder, Colorado.  She has also studied the work of Guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh aka Osho, and follows Margot Anand’s “Skydancing Tantra,” Annie Sprinkle’s “Tantric Massage,” Diana Daffner’s “Tantric Sex for Busy Couples,” Dr. Judy Kuriansky’s “Idiot’s Guide to Tantric Sex” and Barbara Carrellas’ “Urban Tantra” and the harnessing of ecstasy.

Dr. Block and some of our other more Tantra-skilled therapists here at the Institute can help you with your questions about this ancient and yet thoroughly modern philosophy of the erotic mind and body. We teach many Tantric practices and principles, as well as provide a Tantric Sexual Experience, with a customized combination of Erotic Hypnosis, Guided Masturbation, Erotic Theater Therapy:  Fantasy Roleplay, Bonobo Liberation Therapy, Sensual Domination, Sex Therapy, Phone Sex Therapy and Tantric techniques.  We teach and practice Tantra over the phone, on webcam and via text and provide in-person Tantric sex education classes and tutorials for some of our regular phone and webcam clients.

If you’re interested in Tantra or any kind of deep, meaningful sexuality, we’re here for you.  And you can talk with us any time of day or night, any day of the week, even holidays.  We’re ready to teach you, learn from you, guide you, serve you and heal you. We’re here to take your sexuality to a higher level physically and spiritually.  Don’t worry about concepts that seem complex or foreign, or even if you feel you're far from the spiritual state you think you ought to be in.  We understand. And we’re here to help. It's easy to talk to us, and you'll be surprised how good you'll feel when you do—body, mind and soul.

Call the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime at [callus]. We're open 24/7, and we’re here for you.

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Are You Quick On The Trigger, Sexually Speaking? Find yourself coming before your partner’s even gotten going? Would you like to learn to slow down and satisfy your partner? Want to enjoy more passionate lovemaking & bigger orgasms, instead of inadvertently shooting your wad before you can say “Oops, I did it again”? For information about telephone sex therapy for premature ejaculation and other issues, call [callus]

Premature Ejaculation is most often described as the inability to delay ejaculation to a point when it is mutually desirable for both partners. It is an extremely common condition for men around the world. So if you suffer from the humiliation and frustration of premature ejaculation (or if your partner does), rest assured that you are not alone. Virtually all males experience premature ejaculation at some time in their lives, usually when they are young. But for many, “coming too fast” remains an ongoing problem, even into old age. Sometimes, ironically, it accompanies impotence and other forms of erectile dysfunction.

Your first premature ejaculation experience can be laughed off as “no big deal,” or it can be so traumatic that you find yourself dropping your bombs before you reach your target again and again. Luckily, there are several fairly simple “cures” for what I call Sexual Quick Draw McGraw Syndrome. With a little understanding, technique, help and practice, you can safely and naturally banish the heartbreaking embarrassment of premature ejaculation forever from your sexual life.

Let’s start with understanding. The Boston Medical Group estimates the premature ejaculation prevalence rate in American males as from 30-70%. Why are these figures so high? Why is premature ejaculation so common? Why is it that most men will prematurely ejaculate at some points in their sex lives, and why do so many do it almost constantly?

Here’s the bottom line in terms of evolutionary biology: Premature ejaculation is natural. It may even be more natural for a man, especially a young man, to come “too” quickly than to control his orgasm long enough to make sex satisfying for himself and his partner. Nature favors premature ejaculators, guys that pop their loads into the next generation before the gal can get away. Those males who come as fast as possible, that is, before the female changes her mind or predators - ancient saber-toothed cats or modern-day parents - arrive to ruin the mood, have tended to reproduce more than guys who take their time. After all, a woman doesn’t need to have an orgasm to get pregnant, nor does the man have to feel like a stud. He just needs to ejaculate inside of her at the right time of month, his potent sperm penetrating her fertile egg. So despite how mortified he might be or how frustrated she might feel, as far as natural reproduction is concerned, the sooner he comes inside her, the better.

But just because premature ejaculation is natural doesn’t mean it’s desirable.

After all, sex isn’t just about procreation; it’s about recreation. It’s also a form of communication. What do you communicate to your partner when you produce the juice before you put it in her caboose? The first time, you could be communicating, “You’re so hot I just couldn’t control myself!” In that sense, one or two episodes of premature ejaculation can be a bittersweet “compliment” to Mr. Quick Draw’s partner who could be considered a “Premature Ejaculation Inducer.” But if you come too fast time and again, you start communicating anxiety, insensitivity and other not-so sexy messages.

More stats from Boston Medical: The average man can usually control ejaculation for 6-10 minutes after penetration. However, the average woman needs approximately 15-20 minutes of sexual activity before she can experience orgasm. By these standards, the entire male race needs to learn how to better prolong erection and sexual stamina.

In a sexually civilized society, gentlemen would be educated in the art and science of ejaculation control. How else are you guys going to learn? After all, someone had to toilet train you, right? But nobody ejaculation-trained you. Unless you’re one of the lucky ones…

Over the years, I have “ejaculation-trained” thousands of men from all over the world. And no, I haven’t had the pleasure of having sex with them all. Most ejaculation training takes place over the phone during the process I call telephone sex therapy. Through deep relaxation, guided masturbation, anatomical education, PC muscle exercise training, erotic hypnosis, fantasy roleplay and other techniques, I help men of all ages last longer, please their partners and wind up with a much bigger orgasmic ejaculation than they ever experienced as Sexual Quick Draw McGraws.

12 Essential Tips & Techniques for Better Ejaculation Control

1. Grow Up: Premature Ejaculation is most common among young men. If you are under twenty-five, and you’re quick on the trigger, the good news is that you’ll probably slow down as you get older. The “bad” news is that if you want to be a great lover while you’re young and virile, you need to learn a thing or two about discipline. Keep in mind that experience is the greatest teacher. Practice, practice, practice! Older men with premature ejaculation problems tend to lack much sexual experience.

2. Come Again: If you’re young, you may ejaculate sooner than you’d like, but you might also be able to get hard again soon after you’ve come. If so, then don’t worry so much about “premature ejaculate.” Just come naturally, then engage in other forms of lovemaking while you build up towards another erection. This second time around, you are likely to last longer simply because you have less fluid in your seminal vesicles and less urgency to release it. You can “trick” your system by masturbating a few hours before your sexual encounter, so that your urge to come is not so urgent. You can also take Viagra to insure that even after you ejaculate, you’ll have a hard-on. However, I don’t recommend taking Viagra if you don’t have serious erectile dysfunction, because you can easily develop a psychological dependency on it.

3. Breath Deep: Now we’re getting into serious control techniques. When you’re nervous or excited, the natural tendency is to hold your breath. Holding your breath creates tension that demands release, which is one reason for premature ejaculation. Learn to slow yourself down by inhaling deeply and exhaling even more slowly, as practiced by Tantric sex practitioners. Tantra is not for everybody, but its slow deep breathing techniques are excellent for reducing the chance of premature ejaculation.

4. PC Exercise: Ejaculating before you want to--whether it’s after ten minutes or ten seconds—is a sexual *weakness.* If you want to become sexually strong, you need to strengthen the right muscles. For instance, if the muscles in your thighs are weak and you want to run longer, you work out your thigh muscles. So what muscle should a gentleman exercise to strengthen his ability to maintain an erection in different sexual positions without ejaculating? Contrary to popular belief, the penis itself is NOT a muscle--nor does it have a bone, even though they call erections “boners.” Answer: Your PC muscle. No, it’s not your politically correct muscle nor is it personal computer muscle; it’s your pubococcygeus (PC) muscle group that runs from the pubic bone in front to the tailbone in back and supports the pelvic floor. This is the muscle that spasms during orgasm in the male and the female. PC muscle exercise is good for both men and women. To find your PC muscle, pretend that you’re urinating and want to stop the flow of urine by squeezing an internal muscle. Feel it? That’s your PC muscle. Flex or squeeze it for a couple of seconds, then release. And squeeze and release, squeeze and release, breathing in on the squeeze and out on the release. Do the PC muscle exercise ten times in the morning and ten times in the evening, gradually holding squeeze longer each time, and you will eventually gain strength and control. By the way, you can do this exercise anytime, anywhere--sitting, standing, walking around, or lying down. Women should do PC muscle exercises regularly too. A strong PC muscle enhances female orgasm tremendously, along with improving male ejaculation control.

5. Stop/Start Technique: Just like the name says, this method involves arousing the penis to the point before the point of no return and then stopping, pulling out if necessary, and letting your erection go down before resuming the stroking, sucking or thrusting. That is, if your flaccid state is at “0”, and ejaculation is at “10,” then the point of no return would be “9.” So you would need to reduce stimulation or “stop” at level “8” or, if you’re very trigger-happy, at level “7.” The stop/start exercise trains your big head and little head to recognize the points or stages of pleasure before the point of no return. Then, it trains you to stop--maybe for half a second, maybe for about a minute--so you don’t come. It’s a simple exercise that sex therapists and surrogates have been teaching for years, and it really works after about a month or two of practice, if you practice. In fact, you can get so good at this that you can experience multiple orgasms without ejaculation before your final ejaculatory climax.

6. Squeeze Technique: This is the same as the stop/start technique, but just as you stop, you or your lover squeeze the rim of your penis, between the head and the shaft, holding the thumb on top and the first and second fingers underneath. That’s the most popular spot for the squeeze technique. But there’s another spot right in the middle of the base of the penis, above the scrotum, where it meets the pubic bone. Max and other guys swear this is a sure-fire come-stopper.

7. Tease Technique: Erotic Teasing is one of the sexier ways to hold off premature ejaculation. Encourage your partner to tease you, with lots of foreplay, before you penetrate her mouth or vagina. Teasing is also excellent for women, though usually for the opposite reasons. Men need to be teased because it makes them slow down. Women need to be teased because it makes them come around.

8. Drink Up: A little alcohol can help some gentlemen with premature ejaculation last longer. This is not an excuse to get plastered, which tends to give you the opposite problem: erectile dysfunction, a.k.a. drunk dick syndrome. As Porter tells MacDuff in Shakespeare’s MacBeth, alcohol “provokes the desire, but takes away the performance.”

9. Relax: Remember, pressure is the enemy of pleasure. Every guy comes too fast sometimes due to stress, novelty, performance anxiety, or good old-fashioned excitement. If you just do it occasionally, try not to make a big deal about it. You’re likely to make it worse. Just gently and playfully start going through some of the above activities. They’re great sexual muscle-building exercises, even if you don’t have “penis problems.” And don’t let the fact that you came a little earlier than expected stop you from helping your partner to come.

10. Back-Up Your Hard-Drive: Always keep a back-up system for your computer, and always have some sex toys – dildos, vibrators and other goodies – to use on your partner when your personal hard-on is down. Or just go down on her. Most women are more likely to climax from a talented tongue than from a hard penis anyway. Coming “too fast” is relative. Remember that you can always keep going even after you’ve come, with your mouth, hands or toys. Or just make sure that you give your partner an orgasm or two before you get into any of her orifices or, if you’re lightning fast, before you let her touch your penis at all.

11. Examine Yourself: If you’re over thirty, chronically trigger happy and have “no luck” with any of the above exercises, tips and techniques, then you might have a psychological problem. This is not cause to check yourself into the nearest psych ward or start guzzling Prozac (which can wreak havoc on your sense of desire). But you may need to work out some internal conflicts in order to relax and relate, as well as control yourself sexuality. This “tip” calls for examining yourself and your feelings, especially your penis’ feelings. What is your quick-to-come, quick-to-go prick trying to tell you? Could it be that you subconsciously want to get sex over with? Why? What are you afraid of? Answering these questions honestly can lead you into some pretty tough psychological terrain, involving your ambivalent feelings about women and sex, your fears of abandonment (so you come “before” you can be abandoned), your performance anxieties, your guilt about sex, your conflicts over pleasure. If it’s too tough for you to handle alone—and it’s generally not the type of thing you can talk about with friends, family or even your partner—you might want to consult a sex therapist.

12. Enjoy Yourself: Many guys think of sex as a purely penis-driven activity. Give yourself permission to savor the little pleasures of life, love and sex, the touch of your partner’s skin, the smell of her hair. Instead of focusing all your desire in the hyper-sensitive head of your penis, try opening up to pleasure you can experience through your fingers, toes, nipples, buns, lips and tongue. Don’t worry, you’ll come back to your precious penis, but not before you’ve aroused your whole being: body, mind and soul. It takes a little patience, but if you practice, by the time you allow the forces of pleasure to flow freely through your mighty shaft, you’ll find yourself enjoying the biggest, most explosive orgasm ever.

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Do you long for an erotic experience that is more than just physical, but doesn’t require a major long-term commitment? Many of us, probably most of us, feel that there is much more to sex than just the carnal act...that goes for women and men.  So, what about you?  Do you feel that a physical encounter is heightened by what goes on before and after, not to mention during the “act” itself? Consider the things that go along with having a “girlfriend,” both in and out of the bedroom: a romantic evening, good conversation, humor, understanding, compliments, kissing, cuddling, playful foreplay, sharing secrets, the give and take of pleasure, intimacy. Closeness like this makes the sex between you that much more special, as well as more deeply orgasmic.

If this sounds appealing, you may be looking for the Girlfriend Experience (or GFE), an encounter that provides as much emotional satisfaction as physical.  GFE is a term used by some escorts, call girls, prostitutes,etc., made famous in the film by that name starring Sasha Grey, directed by Steven Soderbergh.  But it's really about much more than hiring an escort. Who says that just because you pay for an erotic experience, it has to be sex without feeling, foreplay, afterplay, laughter, romance or intimacy? In The Girlfriend Experience, you can have it all.

So…why not just go for a real girlfriend? Lots of reasons! The Girlfriend Experience is not a play by play of the experience of having a girlfriend...otherwise it would just be a bad imitation of the real thing. The GFE is the skillfully roleplayed fantasy of a girlfriend—the best parts, including the sexual parts—and when it's over, there’s no grouchy, difficult, demanding, real girlfriend to contend with. Let’s face it: Having a real girlfriend can be a lot of work. In real life, many relationships are more trouble than they’re worth.  Even the best require commitment, sacrifice and responsibility, and they don't always last.  The worst break your heart and often your bank account. Like a delicious cake without the calories, The Girlfriend Experience gives you the deep pleasure and warm feeling of intimacy without the work and wear-and-tear.

There are many reasons you might benefit from a GFE.  Maybe you don’t feel ready to settle down with a real girlfriend yet.   You might be between relationships, or working hard on your career without the time and attention that a real girlfriend requires.  That doesn’t mean you don’t deserve pleasure, positive attention, seduction and intimacy. For some, a GFE can even be good practice for the real thing, helping you to develop your game, build confidence and learn more about how women think.  Then again, maybe you already have a real girlfriend, or a real wife, but you need a little GFE that’s just for you, lovingly focused on your feelings, your desires, your fantasies, your needs.

If you feel the Girlfriend Experience could help you, the next question is how to go about experiencing it.  You have several choices.  The most straightforward path would be to contract with an escort or mistress whose webpage says she provides GFE service.  Then again, escorts and mistresses aren’t for everybody, maybe not for most people.  Even if you don't mind spending money on your GFE (a real girlfriend is always going to cost you something anyway—often much more!), there may be some very good reasons why you don’t want to actually go out and pay for a pro to give it to you “in the flesh.” This includes the risk of getting caught (especially if you’re married and/or running for office), the general stigma associated with prostitution which is still illegal in most locales, the danger of STDs, the inconvenience, the possibility of getting stuck with a real dud, a psycho or someone who is a lot less attractive than her photo, the danger of meeting someone in a strange place or letting them into your place, the high hourly rate, and the list goes on.

If you want all the pleasure and intimacy of The Girlfriend Experience without the headache of hiring an escort or mistress, you might consider picking up your phone and calling for a telephone sex therapy session with the Dr. Susan Block Institute.  We’re therapists—some of us with PhD’s, Master’s, nursing and other degrees—but we’re also some of the best girlfriends you’ll ever have.  We have some great guys here too, as well as transsexuals, but this page is about girlfriends, and we’ve got girlfriends of all ages who will talk with you, listen and help you with your problems, roleplay for you, share your fetishes and fantasies, come with you, commune with you, relax you, play with you and just generally give you the care and attention you need—body, mind and soul.

We do much of this over the phone.  But we can also chat with you via webcam, email or text—any of which can be as PG or X-rated as you like.  You can also visit us in person.  Yes, though TGFE might be a pure fantasy, we’re very real and down-to-earth and you can see that for yourself if and when you come to our center in LA.  But since we’re an international institute and most of our clients don’t live in LA, our most popular medium for TFGE is the telephone.  Why the telephone?  Because it’s so intimate, so very convenient, less expensive, and virtually pressure-free, allowing you to really relax and let your imagination go, sharing your thoughts, feelings, memories and fantasies with someone who can understand you. Whether you want to explore The Girlfriend Experience with us or discuss some of the pros and cons of doing it with one of our experts, you can give us a call right now or anytime that’s good for you.  Unlike most therapists—or girlfriends—we’re here for you whenever you need us, 24 hours a day, seven days a week.  Call [callus]

The other side of the coin of the Girlfriend Experience is sometimes referred to as the "Porn Star Experience" (PSE).  You want PSE if you’re seeking a partner that’s more lusty than friendly for an experience that’s more physical than emotional, sizzling hot athletic sex in a variety of positions, dirty talk, large breasts, shaved genitalia, loud “performance” moaning and multiple orgasms.  We offer both the Porn Star Experience—with several real-life porn stars—via phone or webcam, as well as the Girlfriend Experience, and a whole lot more.  Call us now to find out more (no charge for information!): [callus].

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You can talk with the telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute about anything you want to talk about.  No topic is too "taboo." Look over the lists of topics below under "Sexual Issues" and "Erotic Pleasures," if you need some ideas. As you can see, there is quite a bit of overlap among all the subjects we deal with. And we deal with more subjects than we could possibly list.

You may want to talk about several subjects in one session. You may want to discuss some serious sexual issues in your life as well as enjoy a hot phone sex fantasy. That’s fine. There are no limits on what you discuss or how you and your therapist talk in your private telephone session. Not all of our therapists can handle every kind of subject, of course, but we have a large team working with the Institute, and we can always find a therapist suited to your specific needs and desires.

And yes, you can masturbate, if you want, during telephone sex therapy sessions. And no, there is no other phone sex or phone therapy service quite like ours.

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The DrSusanBlock.TV Awards 2012 Comments Off on The DrSusanBlock.TV Awards 2012

Honoring Excellence in Broadcast Artistry and Exhibitionism

This Saturday’s live broadcast of The Dr. Susan Block Show will reflect upon this extraordinary year’s journey down the path of peace-through-pleasure and honor those that made it orgasmic! Join international sexologist Dr. Susan Block, Capt’n Max, Tasia Sutor, Master Liam and other member of the DrSusanBlock.tv staff as we remember 2012 and bestow awards upon our most memorable guests for “Most Sex Revolutionary Author,” “Most Intelligent-Sounding Porn Star,” “Sexiest Mainstream Performer,” “Best Female Ejaculator,” “Sexiest Poet,” “Best Spanking,”  “Best-Dressed Guest,” “Best Boob Job,” “Scariest Dominant,” “Cutest Sub,” “Sexiest Promoter,” “Most Erotic Artist,” “Horniest Comedian,” “Wildest Committed Couple,” “Most Arousing Writer,” “Most Enthusiastic First Timer,” “Most Orgasmic Sybian Rider,” “Most Fanatic Foot Fetishist,” “Most Mesmerizing Pole Dancer,” “Best Exhibitionist,” “Most Blasphemous,” “Most Bonobo,” “Most Intoxicated” and more.

The DrSusanBlock.TV Awards will air live December 29th, 2012, 10:30pm-Midnight PST on The Dr. Susan Block Show. Listen FREE at http://tinyurl.com/RadioSex.  Call-In Free: 1.866.289.7068.

Watch the LIVE BROADCAST & See All the Pix and Past Shows at http://drsusanblock.com/TV.html.

To join our exclusive live in-studio audience and the after-party at Dr. Suzy’s Speakeasy in the Soul of Downtown LA, aka BonoboVille, call or go to http://tinyurl.com/DrSuzyRSVP.

Sex toys provided by Sybian, Divine Interventions.   CalExotics, ScreamingO, Stockroom, JuxLeather and Condomania condoms. The Dr. Susan Block Show beverages of choice are Hennessy and Absinthe among the many fine libations and gourmet hors d’oeuvres featured at the always-popular Speakeasy Open Bar and Aphrodisiac Buffet.  Proceeds from donations go to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure around the world.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA.  Founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials, the Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure.

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