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How to Spank & Get Spanked Your First Time

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10 Steps to Receiving Your First Erotic Adult Spanking

  • Make Sure You Want to Get Spanked
    Ask yourself: Am I getting spanked because I really want to, or is somebody talking me into it? It’s okay if someone you trust respectfully encourages you to experience spanking, but if you feel coerced into something you don’t want, stop right there, get off your hands and knees, grab your keys and go home. Even if it turns you on to be very submissive, you should only receive a spanking because YOU want to get spanked.
  • Make Sure Your Partner Wants to Spank You
    In any BDSM play, it’s mostly about what the subbie wants, but the dominant partner’s needs and capabilities are important too. Does your potential spanker really want to give you the spanking you crave? They should be as excited about it as you—or at least, happy to give it a go, since it’s what you want. On the other hand, if they are wary or fearful, due to the past trauma of being spanked as a child, or if they just can’t get past the idea that spanking is “hitting,” and that even if it’s consensual, it’s “wrong”… then maybe this isn’t the perfect spanker for you. To learn how your potential spanker really feels about spanking, communication is key. Body language speaks volumes, but nothing beats (pun intended) asking “How do you feel about erotic adult spanking?”—perhaps in reference to an Internet post, our magazine or a “dream” you just had. Really listen to what they have to say, whether you like it or not. Be patient. Stay positive! You will find the happy spanker of your naughty dreams, or they will find you.
  • Who Are You? Want to Roleplay?
    Now that you know you’re happy and your partner’s happy, ask yourself: “Would I rather make believe that I’m unhappy?” That is, do you want your spanking to be a pretend punishment for being “bad” or “naughty,” or are you simply interested in exploring percussive posterior sensations? Do you imagine that you are a pouting brat, a tearful hostage, a naughty student, a disciplined slave, a tantric initiate, a cosplay superhero getting smacked by the villain, or are you “just you” being spanked erotically for the first time? Sometimes it’s easier to enjoy yourself when you “let your self go” and “play” an imaginary “role.”  Then again, it might be better to just be yourself or, if you trust your partner and they’ve got creative roleplay ideas that excite you, go with their flow.
  • Prepare Yourself & Your Gear
    Whatever your spanking role in this play, it’s time to clean up your act! Unless your spanker requests a dirty spankee (literally), make sure your tushy and all surrounding areas are clean and fresh. This is a good idea, even if you plan to keep your pants on, since sometimes a sound spanking can bring out the body fluids, which is a good thing… unless you didn’t wash. What about wardrobe? Wear something you find sexy and spankable, perhaps a costume that fits your roleplay. A skirt to pull up and/or panties to pull down are all-time favorites. Some first-time spankees want the security of full coverage pants or pantyhose; others enjoy being stripped and shaved bare for maximum feeling and exposure. Whatever you prefer, prepare yourself accordingly. Though it’s usually the spanker’s responsibility to provide props for this play, if you have a certain special paddle, hairbrush or book (Bonobo Way, anyone?) with which you’d like to be spanked, bring it.
  • What’s Your Safe Word & What are Your Ground
    How far do you want to go? Think and talk about your “ground rules” before you start. Your spanking may happen spontaneously, and there’s nothing wrong with that as long as it’s consensual. Isn’t it great when it “just happens”? Of course, but that doesn’t make a planned spanking inferior. In fact, in many ways, it can be better. Think about what kind of spanking you’d like and what you definitely wouldn’t like and tell your partner. Now’s also the time to establish boundaries and confess any medical conditions that could be affected by a sound spanking. Pick a safeword, and don’t be afraid to use it. A safeword should make it clear that you want the spanking to stop and stop now. Of course, you could say “stop,” but you might prefer a different word, so you can enjoy moaning “stop!” in character, but your spanker won’t stop… until you use that safeword. One popular choice is “red,” though lately, a lot of submissives are choosing the safeword “Donald Trump” to indicate that they’ve had enough.
  • Assume the Position
    There’s no rule that says you can’t change position, mid-spanking, and a degree of discomfort can make your spanking pleasantly kinky. However, this being your First Spanking, you should start out as comfortable as possible. After all, this should be a pain in the butt, not the neck. Consider both physical and emotional comfort, as well as roleplay factors, when choosing whether to go Over the Knee (OTK), over a piece of furniture (bed, couch, chair, desk or table, to name a few), up against the wall or standing spread-eagled tied to a St. Andrew’s Cross. You might also consider your spanker’s comfort, especially if they are older, smaller than you or physically challenged. But this is your First Spanking, so mainly consider your comforts. Once you’ve chosen a position, assume it as fully as possible, showing off that derriere, arching that back, maybe twerk that ass or keep it perfectly still—whatever arouses you and your spanker.
  • Start Soft
    Let your spanker know you’d like to start nice and easy, rather than hard and crazy. You can always go harder later, but you need a “warm-up” both physically (like with any form of exertion that “hurts so good”) and emotionally (spanking can bring up very deep feelings). This is mostly your spanker’s responsibility, but it’s your ass, so if you’re not sure they know how to start, tell them: Start softly, and go harder if and when you ask for it…. maybe even beg for it! This should be one of your Ground Rules, so you don’t have to “break character” once you get spanking. And if your spanker starts off too hard anyway, use that safeword.
  • If You Like It, Be Encouraging. If You Don’t, Communicate.
    Now that your spanking is underway, enjoy it! If all is going well, take a deep breath, and let yourself really fully experience that amazing spanking feeling all through your body. Don’t neglect to share the good news with your partner who, if they’re any good at this, is paying close attention to your responses as they spank. If you like it, don’t be too shy to moan, sigh or squeal in a positive way, or just say “I like it.” What if you don’t like it? Use your safe word and communicate this to your partner. Don’t suffer in silence (that’s the wrong kind of suffering!). If your spanker complains that you are “topping from the bottom,” you might want to politely get up off their lap and find another spanker who will respect you.
  • Enjoy Sub Space
    Are you enjoying your spanking? Congratulations! If you’d like more and harder, you can encourage your spanker to give it to you through your moans, squeals and saying “Oh yes!” You could even “beg” them for it. As the spanking heats up, if you feel you can trust your partner, you might relax and go into “sub space,” an altered state of bliss induced by submission to skillfully administered spanking, your endorphins rising to counteract the pain. Be careful, don’t fall off that lap now, but do enjoy your spanking experience. It can be a therapeutic treatment that’s as healing as a good massage. You might even have an orgasm, a “spankgasm.”
  • Take After-Care
    Whether you think you need it or not, after a good spanking—or especially after a bad one—you need after-care. Make sure your spanker understands this, so they will tend your wounded butt, get you a drink or a snack or just hold you and let you talk about your feelings. Or maybe you want them to admire your reddened ass as your show off their handiwork. If it’s a good spanking, you’ll definitely want after-care from your spanker, building trust and intimacy so that the next spanking will be even better. If it’s not so good, you might need to get away and get after-care from someone else. After-care is mostly for the spankee, but very often, the spanker also needs a form of “after-care,” in that they want and need to know that you’re okay, that the “terrible” spanking they just gave you was actually very nice. So give thanks for their good spanking in some way! If not right then and there because you’re just too overcome with emotion, then later. If you’re really not okay, let them know, with love, so they can improve their spanking sensitivity and abilities, with you or their next partner. Whether it was good or bad, don’t make any sudden moves after a spanking. Certainly don’t get spanked and drive; your blood count may be alcohol-free, but you might still be “drunk” on sub space.

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10 Steps to GIVING Your First Erotic Adult Spanking

  • Make Sure You’re Ready to Give a Spanking
    You’re in charge, right? Well, yes, you’re the one doing the spanking, but if this is your First Time, you need to be in the right frame of mind. Even if you’re not sure if you’ll like it, you should want to give it a try. Nobody can physically make you spank them, but a wily submissive might manipulate you into giving a spanking you don’t want to give. This could trigger bad memories of being spanked or otherwise abused as a child, making it traumatic for you, making you feel fearful or angry. Do NOT spank someone in anger. If you’re angry, you need to cool off or talk, not spank. Erotic adult spanking should not be an outlet for your anger or a real punishment for so-called wrongdoing, and it certainly shouldn’t be abusive or disrespectful. It should be a mutual recreational pleasure… with a little bit of pain.
  • Make Sure Your Partner Wants You to Spank Them
    Now that you know you want to give a spanking, make sure your intended spankee wants to receive one… from you! This is a little trickier than Step 1, so you’ll need to communicate, usually with words, though not necessarily. For instance, if you’re already in a sexual relationship, you can try adding a little spank or two to your usual repertoire of caresses and squeezes, and see how your partner reacts. If they squeal or moan in a positive way or, better yet, if they say, “I like that!” you know you can go farther. You don’t have to draw up a spanking contract; if you’re already having sex, you can just add spanking slowly and organically. On the other hand, if you’d like to spank a friend, co-worker or acquaintance, you may need a contract. Seriously, make sure to get full, sober consent for whatever you want to do, for both of your sakes. Don’t skimp on this step! Consent is sexy.
  • Who Are You? Just Yourself or Roleplaying?
    Having confirmed consent, consider how you envision yourself giving a spanking. As a classic spanking master or mistress in leather or latex? Or are you more of a domestic disciplinarian, a CIA interrogator, an avenging superhero, a demanding boss, a paddle-wielding gym teacher or Stormy Daniels spanking Trump’s rump with a Forbes? Then again, you might just rather be your simple spanking hot self. When in doubt, ask your spankee what they’d like you to be, and try that role on for size. Do a little research, such as reading spanking erotica or watching videos in your spankee’s preferred genre, and let their desires mix with your imagination.
  • Prepare Yourself & Your Stuff
    You might like to be a dirty Dom, but you should clean your body, if not your mind, for the occasion. A manicure is a nice touch; nobody wants to be spanked by filthy, unkempt fingernails. Dress or undress according to your character and your spankee’s preference. You want them to submit to your spanking, and the right outfit—whether leather, latex, lingerie, suit, costume or uniform—can be an essential ingredient. Part of your preparation should be to learn how to spank properly. Ideally, you will have received a few spankings before giving one so you know what it’s like. You could also take spanking lessons so you learn where the “sweet spots” are (the lower, fleshy parts of the butt) and what to avoid (the kidneys). Have a medical kit nearby, just in case. Prepare some spanking implements, a paddle, crop, whip or flogger. Test your tools on yourself before using them on anyone else. Even if you plan to just use your hand, your partner might have a tougher hide than you realize, and your palm or wrist may give out before their derrière does. Make plans as best you can, but the best laid plans may not get you laid the way you planned. Be flexible, and always have a Plan B.
  • Establish the Ground Rules & “Safe Word”
    Giving your regular partner a few spanks on the butt during sex doesn’t require too many “rules” except to start light and pay close attention to their reactions. Doggystyle or Cowgirl are great positions for the penetrator to spank the penetratee, as the butt is most accessible to the penetrator. On the other hand, Missionary is the optimal position for the penetratee to spank the penetrator, spurring them on to thrust harder. If you do it spontaneously without formally asking, don’t neglect to ask later how your partner felt about it. If you aren’t in a sexual relationship, you’ll need more ground rules. Most of these should come from the spankee, but you might have a few rules yourself. If your partner is shy, draw them out and help them to establish sound boundaries. Find out if they have any medical conditions that might affect your spanking. Make sure your partner has a safe word; “Red,” “Blue,” “Trump,” “Popcorn”—whatever it is, note it, respect it and stop everything if they say it.
  • Assume the Position
    Now you’re ready to spank. Woohoo! Help your spankee find a comfortable position that is also good for you. This could be Over-the-Knee (OTK), bent across the desk (or any sturdy piece of furniture) or standing up against the wall, legs spread, back arched. Consider how you will get the best leverage for maximum impact control. Size could be a factor; if your spankee is considerably bigger than you, OTK might be awkward, and over the couch a better “fit.” After confirming consent, you might adjust their position or outfit more to your liking and for easy accessibility. As you do this, you can heighten the anticipation by explaining how or why you are going to give the spankee a good spanking. Little by little, you are taking charge of their ass.
  • Start Soft, Explore, Pay Attention
    Do NOT come on swinging like a slugger in a boxing match. Start with soft taps, especially if you are bigger and stronger than the spankee. Accept the possibility that you may not know your own strength and take it slow. You can always go harder as they “beg for it.” Be sure to start with the buns. There are many parts of the body that could respond well to a spanking—the boobs, the genitals, the backs of the legs—but it’s best to begin with the bottom. God, the Goddess or Natural Selection seems to have “made” the lower, meatier part of the buttocks for spanking. Cup your hand as you spank for more resounding but less painful impact. In between smacks, caress and fondle the butt. You can even kiss that ass. You might also play with the spankee’s genitals or pull their hair—very lightly, to begin—if they like that. Spank lightly, explore and pay close attention to their vocalizations and body language. Let them be your guide
  • Go Harder & Faster… Gradually
    Congrats! If you’ve gotten to this Step, you’re doing pretty well as a first-time spanker. Now you have the challenge of upping the impact play without overdoing it. When in doubt, go back to light and soft, and for many first timers, that’s enough. But if both of you are enjoying it, you can rev things up, perhaps spanking harder, with implements, smacking body parts other than the butt or doing other things, like hair-pulling or nipple-pinching, while spanking. You might also rev up the roleplay, teasing and pleasing as you move into more dramatic, emotional areas, if it feels right. Even as you crank it up, keep it erotic by interspersing caresses and squeezes with hard spanks. Be careful not to hit the kidneys, other vital organs or the spine, and certainly don’t do anything that could cause real physical damage. And don’t worry about breaking character, if you feel you need to “check in” with your spankee’s physical or emotional state just to make sure they’re okay, even if they haven’t used their safe word. Better to be safe than so sorry you’ll never spank again!
  • Take Feedback
    As the spanker, you should frequently request feedback from your spankee, There may come a point, maybe after several spankings, where you know your spankee really well and you don’t need much feedback. Until that point, do not assume that you know how they are feeling—ever, and certainly not on your first time spanking them. If your spankee is shy and doesn’t give feedback easily, make an effort to draw them out. Whatever you do, don’t gag your spankee on your or their first foray into the wonderful, whacky world of spanking. You need to hear their feedback. If some of the feedback is critical of your spanking skills, try not to take offense or tell them they’re not submissive enough. Instead, consider it a learning experience, and your spankee is your teacher, even if they’re the one in the cheerleading skirt.
  • Give After-Care
    Always provide after-care to your spankee, whether you think they need it or not. This might entail talking—or more likely listening to them talk about how being spanked made them feel. It’s an important therapeutic release for them, but it’s also good feedback for you. After-care might also involve hugging, though if your spankee would rather not be hugged, don’t make them hug you. One fun part of after-care is checking out your handiwork on your spankee’s well-spanked bottom. Don’t skimp on the compliments if you want to spank them again. You might feel you need after-care too, after all that physical, mental and emotional exertion, so hopefully the after-care love will flow both ways. Nevertheless, it’s your responsibility as the spanker to make sure the spankee feels good and cared for, post-spanking. If you can do that, congratulations on giving your first consensual erotic adult spanking! With hopefully, more to come….

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Dr. Suzy to take “Inner Journey” #3 with Greg Friedman on KX 93.5 this Sunday

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This Sunday night, July 29th, international sexologist, director of the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block will be the featured guest on another sure-to-be fascinating Inner Journey on KX 93.5 FM with spiritual guide and veteran talk show host Greg Friedman in beautiful balmy Laguna Beach, California.

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Tune in Sunday evening, July 28th, 7 pm – 9 pm PST (click “LISTEN LIVE” in the green box in the upper right to listen live) and call in: 949-715-5936.

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“Greg Friedman is a great radio shaman and spiritual guide,” says Dr. Block.

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“On this show, I expect that he and I will get into another deep sapiosexual two-hour conversation about ‘taking the BOO out of taboo,” sexual healing, our new Speakeasy Journal, “Splosh ‘n’ Art” edition, as well as our upcoming “Spanking” issue, #MeToo and The Bonobo Way, Incel Sex Therapy, Stormy Daniels, “12 Steps to Releasing Your Inner Bonobo; “Peace Through Pleasure” in Bonoboville; sex therapy with the Dr. Susan Block Institute; how to help save the highly endangered real bonobos from #extinction in the wild (donate to Lola ya Bonobo, Bonobo Conservation Initiative and The Bonobo Project, among other ways to help!); effects of sexual abuse on sexuality; kinky erotica on the Dr. Susan Block Show; hoka-hoka among bisexual bonobos and bonobo sapiens; monogamy, polyamory and being monogamish; ethical hedonism, Post-Trump Sex Disorder; war and peace; kegel yoga and the Holy Water of Female Ejaculation & much more! After the show, Capt’n Max and I will go to Mozambique (or maybe some place else) for drinks, food and fun. Come join us if you’re in Laguna Beach (for info, call our office anytime at 310-568-0066 & ask for Harry Sapien) or just tune in this Sunday to KX radio.”

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It’s all about the orgasm.

Well, maybe not all. There are other important aspects to good sex: sensuality, intimacy, humor, consent, creativity, openness, communication, love. But for many people, orgasm—yours and your lover(s)—tends to be the high point of a sexual experience.

Orgasm might just be the peak of our very existence. That’s why we also call it a “climax.” It’s certainly considered by many to be the most pleasurable thing we can enjoy. That thrumming rush of endorphins as it builds via foreplay, teasing and erotic tension, the electric thrill, the ultimate eruption and release, accompanied by intensely pleasurable, rhythmic muscle contractions in the pelvis and sometimes throughout the body, as well as in the mind, ecstasy enveloping your entire being, sometimes making you feel that you “lose” your body… or your mind. You might also feel like you’re floating through space or hurtling through time into infinity, a shattering of the “ego,” blending into a deep “cosmic” awareness of your cellular connection with everyone and everything in the universe, along with a marvelous sense of well-being.

Oh, what a feeling.

Yet, for some of us, orgasms are elusive, “over-rated” and almost mythical. Some people, usually women, have never experienced sexual climax in their lives. Other women or men, due to the aging process, or physical and/or mental trauma, may have once climaxed easily and often, but not anymore.

Orgasms aren’t everything, but not having them—for whatever reason—can certainly take the wind out of your sexual sails. What to do?

Need to talk about your orgasms?

Private and absolutely confidential, you can call the orgasm experts of the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime: 213-291-9497. Whatever your question, desire or orgasmic issue, we’re here for you.

Orgasm Education

Could you benefit from a little orgasm education? It’s not a subject they teach in school… at least not in the classroom. Yet most of us would greatly benefit from learning a thing or two about orgasms, as well as why and how we have them… or don’t have them.

Not everyone just instinctively “knows” how to climax in a way that is satisfying for themselves and their partners. Many women have to learn to “achieve” or release orgasm, and many men greatly benefit from learning to control the timing of their orgasms. Most people of all genders can achieve greater, stronger orgasms through experience, education and just sharing information.

What kinds of orgasms do you experience? What would you like to try?

Orgasms are like flowers; there are many different varieties.  All are beautiful in their own way, but some may not be your cup of love juice.  There are quickie orgasms, deep slow orgasms, clitoral orgasms and G-spot orgasms (for women), C-spot orgasms (also for women, involving the cervix), P-spot orgasms (for men), blended orgasms, extended orgasms, oral sex orgasms, masturbatory orgasms, woman-on-top orgasms, missionary orgasms, doggy-style orgasms, reverse-cowgirl orgasms, spoon-style orgasms, yabyum orgasms, first-time orgasms, multiple orgasms, simultaneous orgasms, orgasms that seem to come from parts of the body other than the genitals (i.e., nipplegasms, toegasms, eargasms), anal orgasms, emotional orgasms, no-touch orgasms, fantasy-powered orgasms, fetish-oriented orgasms, vibrator orgasms, dildo orgasms, sadomasochistic orgasms, orgy orgasms, bondage orgasms, pain-killer orgasms, sinus-clearing orgasms, “Sperm Wars” orgasms, tantric-style non-ejaculatory orgasms for men, male ejaculatory orgasms that shoot versus the kind that just dribble, and female ejaculatory orgasms (squirting). There are even so-called “forced orgasms” where the Dominant partner restrains the submissive (consensually, of course) until they climax, seemingly against their will. There are mini-orgasms that last a half-second and orgasms that go on for days—or feel like they do.

Got questions about any type of orgasm? Give us a call anytime at 213-291-9497.

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“Oh God!”

In a very real sense, coming or “cumming” is sacred. Maybe that’s why so many of us call out to “God” when we cum. Climaxing launches us into a higher state of being—one many of us yearn to experience on a regular basis. However, while frequent orgasming is good and good for you, there are some practical limits. After all, you’ve got a life to live, maybe a job to work, relationships to foster, issues to deal with. Sacrificing everything else for the sake of the ultimate O isn’t necessarily desirable or even feasible.

For instance, you may be a “demisexual” who can only climax via intimacy with a meaningful partner, which might sound very nice but means that you freeze up during first-time encounters. On the other hand, you might have stronger orgasms via self-pleasure—or, even more problematic, during an affair—than with your regular partner, the person you love.

Orgasms, though fabulous, can be fickle.

Are your orgasmic needs at odds with your other needs, desires and goals? Need to sort it out with someone knowledgeable?

Or do you feel like you just need to “cum” in a safe, confidential context that doesn’t interfere with your other priorities and just lets you enjoy your strongest solo-sex orgasm possible?

To kick that Big O into overdrive, call the Therapists Without Borders of the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime 24/7. And yes, of course, you can masturbate during sessions. And no, there is no sex therapy center or phone sex service quite like ours. Call us: 213-291-9497.

Orgasm Yoga

Many people practice yoga, meditation and martial arts to reach that “higher” level of being, but an orgasm instantly blasts you past anything those disciplines can achieve—and (usually) with a lot less effort. It might not last long or grant deep wisdom, but there’s no denying the physical and mental bliss that occurs in that explosive moment and in the lingering after-glow.

How about orgasm yoga? Perhaps a class like Dr. Betty Dodson teaches featuring lessons in arousal and orgasm control, climaxing with a naked, orgiastic group release. Talk about Hot Yoga… wow! Sounds titillating—and it sure is—but unless you are an exhibitionist, for most people, having an orgasm is a private affair.

How about a private orgasm yoga class one-on-one with just you and your orgasm yoga teacher? We can make it happen via phone, webcam or sext therapy.

To get started, call us anytime at 213-291-9497.

A Glorious Gift

Climaxing yourself is one thing (and it’s a very important thing!), but being able to give someone else body-shaking orgasms is also a wonderful skill well worth cultivating. It’s a glorious gift to your partner, not to mention a self-esteem boost for yourself. While it’s certainly true that you are not “responsible” for your partner’s orgasm, there’s no denying how good you both feel when you can help someone you care about “cum.”

Whether you’re rubbing their button, stroking their shaft, fingering their g-spot (or p-spot), grinding against their pubic bone as you penetrate their depths, squeezing their stick, whispering fantasies in their ear, or going up and down as they go in and out, the power to give pleasure is the greatest power you have.

Do you have trouble helping your lover climax? Is your partner unable to orgasm when you have sex? Do you want to improve your ability to give your lover(s) pleasure? Need some advice or inspiration? Call our Pleasure Counselors anytime at 213-291-9497.

Orgasm Issues

We believe that everyone—male, female or however you identify—can experience some kind of orgasm. Furthermore, we all have a “right” to have orgasms (though we don’t have rights to have orgasms with others, unless they consent, of course).

For various reasons, not all of us can achieve orgasm as “freely” and easily as we’d like to, and some of us have a more difficult time of it than others. This may be due to a physical problem; a relationship issue; emotional trauma from past sexual abuse; a strict, religious, anti-sex upbringing or just a lot of really bad sex.

Some women suffer from “anorgasmia,” the inability to climax. The good news is that many anorgasmic learn to have fantastic orgasms, if they really want to, with sex therapy (especially if the anorgasmia is due to trauma from past experiences), sex education, relaxation and kegel exercises, perhaps a good vibrator or, if the anaorgasmia is very severe, the help of medications and hormone treatments.

Though anorgasmia is more common among women than men, some guys, especially older males or men taking antidepressants and other medications, are anorgasmic or just have difficulties climaxing.

Sometimes it might take a long period of stimulation, more than your partner enjoys, for you to climax. You might need or desire more consistent, lengthier or more intense stimulation than your partner can even tolerate. This discrepancy in orgasmic needs can turn pleasure (orgasm) into pain and frustration for both of you.

If that sounds like your situation, maybe we can help, as we’ve helped thousands of men, women and couples every day for over 25 years. Give us a call at 213.291.9497. We’re here for you.

Many men, especially younger men, suffer from so-called “premature” ejaculation. The suffering is not in the orgasm itself, but in the shame and embarrassment often felt with a partner hoping for more. The good news is that most men naturally slow down as they age. Moreover, if you really want to learn how to keep from blowing your load before your partner is ready for it, even when you’re young, you can do it! Read “Pre-Mature Ejaculation Combat Tips & Techniques,” and try the stop-start or squeeze techniques and other suggestions. Then, if you have questions or need some personal guidance for great orgasm control—which ultimately leads to stronger, more satisfying orgasms—give us a call anytime at 213.291-9497.

Benefits of Orgasm

As if the pure pleasure of orgasm isn’t enough to make you want to cum right now, get this: climaxing is good for your health.

It’s common knowledge that orgasms relieve stress, but they also benefit your health in numerous other ways. The big O raises your heart rate—even if you do it lying down! Exercising your heart is great cardio. It’s just what the doctor ordered (though most doctors wouldn’t dare to order it). Orgasms can also reduce inflammation and sometimes completely eliminate the pain of a headache, cramps or even sinus congestion. The sexual hormones released during an orgasm are linked to lower rates of anxiety, depression, and suicide. A good climax can help you fall into that deliciously deep sleep that eludes so many of us in today’s 24/7 society—and its much better for you than taking a Xanax or even a Melatonin. Regularly orgasming keeps your skin healthy and younger looking. An orgasm a day reduces the risk of prostate cancer in men. There’s even evidence that women who climax regularly during sex live longer than women who don’t.

Can more orgasms create peace on earth? Who knows, but it’s the Bonobo Way, and hey, it’s worth a try! Like the old saying goes: You can’t fight a war while you’re having an orgasm.

Orgasm is a great equalizer. Not everyone in this unfortunately unequal world of ours can be rich, powerful, beautiful (in the conventional sense) or “successful.” But everyone alive can experience an orgasm of some sort, and that’s a very valuable kind of “success” of its own.

Orgasms are amazing, maybe the most amazing life-affirming moments we living creatures can experience, but they can be tricky. There’s any number of issues that can pop up when dealing with them, just a few of which we’ve mentioned above. Whatever your issue, the orgasm experts of the Dr. Susan Block Institute are here for you. You can call us anytime for a totally confidential conversation about orgasm or any aspect of sex, anytime you need to talk. Don’t miss out on the better, stronger, easier, healthier orgasms that you deserve.

Call us now at 213-291-9497.

Dr. Susan Block’s Bonobo Way returns to DomCon LA!

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Contact:
David Rossi Phone: 310.568.0066 Email: Bonoboville@gmail.com

Los Angeles, California: May 7, 2018 — Susan M. Block, Ph.D., a.k.a., “Dr. Suzy,” internationally renowned sexologist, talk show host and best-selling author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure, will deliver an updated reprise of her acclaimed talk, FemDoms of the Wild: The Bonobo Way, at DOMCON LA 2018 on Saturday, May 12, 2018 at High Noon in Room A1 of the LAX Airport Hilton.

Founded by Mistress Cyan, DOMCON LA is “the world’s largest professional and lifestyle domination convention.” DomCon LA 2018 will be held May 10-13. In addition to giving her presentation, Dr. Block will also serve as a judge at the DomCon LA Pet Awards, a talent showcase and competition among the BDSM community’s most well-trained and creatively costumed “human pets,” hosted by Mistress Ellen and Madame Margherite, in Room B2 on Saturday, May 12 at 1:30 PM, right after her Bonobo Way talk.

“I’m looking forward to returning to the wonderful world of DomCon,” says Block, “and so excited to share more about how bonobos, the amazing peace-through-pleasure-loving FemDoms of the Wild, can empower human kinksters and humanity in general.” Inspired by the real-life bonobo apes, our closest living primate relatives, Block will deliver her popular, practical, sapiosexual, multi-media DomCon presentation with an updated outlook on current events and trends, from Trumpanzee politics to Bonobo BDSM, #MeToo (bonobo-style), the SESTA/FOSTA challenge. bisexuality/pansexuality revelations and “incel” therapy in a natural femocracy, illustrating some points with Commedia Erotica dramatization and topping it all off with a Bonobo Way book-spanking (Block wrote the definition of “erotic spanking,” as well as “cuckolding,” “sexual fetishes,” “phone sex” and “striptease” for the Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality). “Adult consensual impact play and other forms of BDSM play have tremendous healing power for bonobos as well as humans,” observes Block. “Consider how the brief Forbes Magazine-spanking that Stormy Daniels gave a certain exceptionally narcissistic future president made him stop bragging about himself long enough to have an almost normal conversation.”

“Dr. Suzy is phenomenal!” declared Goddess Soma Snakeoil after attending Block’s packed DomCon 2017 presentation. “I loved this class. It was such a joy, and I learned so much!”

In this year’s Commedia Erotic dramatizations, Block will be assisted by her assistant, Dr. Susan Block Show associate producer Phoenix Dawn, and champion wrestler Mistress Kara, demonstrating bonobo play, conflict resolution,”hoka hoka” and the “Trust Game,” as well as Rhiannon Aarons in the role of Ms. Daniels using The Bonobo Way (and that telltale Forbes) to discipline her pet ferret/Trump.

“Animal play is a great release from human stress and folly, and bonobo culture is especially timely in 2018,” Block continues. “Many fear women taking power, but bonobos show us that female empowerment and male well-being are not at odds in nature, and together, they create sustainable peace through pleasure. Unlike humans and all the other Great Apes, bonobos have never been seen killing each other in the wild or captivity. “How do they do this, and can we humans learn to make like bonobos (not baboons)? Can we release our ‘inner bonobos’ before it’s too late? At this especially tempestuous point in human history, it’s worth a try.”

Times are also tempestuous for the highly endangered wild bonobos, now in critical danger of extinction, thanks to human degradation of their natural habitat in the Congolese Rainforest, especially bushmeat hunting. “Bonobo conservation is integral to the Bonobo Way,” asserts Block. “If we lose the bonobos, then we will lose a key to peace through pleasure that we can never find again.”

Besides DomCon 2017, 2016 and 2015, Block has presented The Bonobo Way of Ecosexuality as the keynote speech at the University of Puerto Rico, Mayagüez, for the world’s first Ecosexuality Symposium at an academic institution, and at UC Berkeley for the 5th Conference on Monogamy & Nonmonogamy, as well as The Bonobo Way of Inclusivity at AASECT, the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors & Therapists. Recently, she spoke on writing The Bonobo Way at Yale University (her alma mater), and she presented The Bonobo Way of Great Sex at Adultcon LA. These presentations and others are made possible thanks, in part, to Malcolm Jones and the Bonobo Way Female Empowerment Outreach Project.

FemDoms of the Wild: The Bonobo Way is scheduled for High Noon on Saturday, May 12, 2018. Get tickets here.

Throughout DomCon, Dr. Block will wear latex outfits designed by Demask Latex, The Latex Store and BlackLikorish Latex.

For a taste of what’s to come, watch last year’s The Bonobo Way at DomCon LA. For information about Dr. Block’s appearances at DomCon 2018 or to arrange an interview, please call 310-568-0066.

Contact: David Rossi Phone: 310.568.0066 Email: Bonoboville@gmail.com www.thebonoboway.com

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WHAT PEOPLE SAY about THE BONOBO WAY

“Impactful, often hilarious… wildly entertaining… The Bonobo Way just might hold the key to world peace.”
—HUFFINGTON POST book review by Steve Karras

The Bonobo Way is sexy and fun… damn smart too.”
—”TANGENTIALLY SPEAKING” Podcast with Sex at Dawn author Chris Ryan, Ph.D.

“The Bonobo Way is a pleasure on all counts… and especially significant at this time.”
—Dr. SerenaGaia Anderlini D’Onofrio, co-editor of Ecosexuality

The Bonobo Way is a refreshing must-read for our times.”
—Dr. Patti Britton, American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists (AASECT) Past President

“Bravo Dr. Block for paving the way to a hopefully more bonobo future.”
—Vanessa Woods, Duke University primatologist and author of Bonobo Handshake

“Brilliant… A great book about human sexuality.”
—Sherry Rehman, Sr. VP of Pakistan People’s Party & former Ambassador to the U.S.

“Amazing! Dr. Susan Block is an ecosexual visionary.”
—Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D., ecosexual artist and filmmaker

“The Bonobo Way is marvelous! A happy book for a happy life in a happier world.”
—Xaviera Hollander, author of The Happy Hooker

“Awesome book… Excellently written and transformative.”
—Dorion Sagan, science writer and author of Death & Sex

“Dr. Susan Block has a new understanding of how to enhance our intimate relationships!”
—Progressive News Network interview with Dr. Diana Wiley

“Adventure, optimism, and love is what Dr. Susan Block is all about… Patients become fans, and fans become evangelists.”
—CITIZEN LA Inside the Pleasure Compound with Dr. Susan Block

“AMAZING… The Bonobo Way shines a light on humanity’s capacity for peace.”
—Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman, author of Wired to Create

“I love every page of The Bonobo Way!”
—Christian Bruyère, producer of Champions of the Wild

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The Bonobo Way is available in kindle and paperback on Amazon or direct from the publisher. A portion of all proceeds from book sales goes to Lola ya Bonobo and the Bonobo Conservation Initiative, as well as other organizations actively helping to protect and save the highly endangered wild bonobos from extinction.

Tired of conventional sexuality experts? Dr. Block is available for comment or interview. Want to review The Bonobo Way? Contact us today.

David Rossi
Phone: 310.568.0066 Email: Bonoboville@gmail.com Web: thebonoboway.com Social Media: bonoboville.com

Watch the Video: http://j.mp/TBWyouTubeTrailer

Dr. Suzy & Pr. Max’s 26th Wedding Anniversary

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Saturday night, April 14th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will celebrate international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and publisher/producer Pr. Maximillian R. Leblovic di Lobkowicz di Filangieri‘s 26th Wedding Anniversary. Joining the couple live in-studio will be a star-studded special guests, friends and lovers, including Lexi Lore, Bryan JamesonChristina Hepburn, Kristen Kraves, Chef Be*Live, Daniele Watts, Rhiannon Aarons, GasMaskGirl, Jezebel Sweet, Goddess Lilith, Mistress Porcelain Midnight, Elena Rayn, Lexi Mansfield, Tammie Parrot, Professor Oni, Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman, Barry Fisher, Janelle Hopkins, Del Rey Bonobo, Alex More, Laira Roux, Mistress Kara, Jack Friday, Surka Noelle, Mistress Mina, Goddess Mpenzi, Bratty Wolfie, Monica RavenChristina Dupree, Madame Mina, Vanessa Block, Jil Chrissie, Danni Dawson, Goddess Soma, Moushumi Ghose, Ikkor the Wolf, John Barrymore, Jux Lii, Madame Margherite and of course, Phoenix Dawn, plus more TBA.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

Dr. Suzy & Pr. Max’s 26th Wedding Anniversarywill broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, April 14th, 2017, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

 

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

GET THE BONOBO WAY

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

ErotiqueTV with D.A.D. + more this Saturday Night Live from Bonoboville on the Dr. Susan Block Show

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This Saturday night, April 7th, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show mixes sex, politics, BDSM and the Bonobo Way. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be D.A.D..(Dominatrixes Against Donald Trump) founder and director Mistress Tara Indiana (2017 SUZY award winner for “Best FemDom of the Resistance”), Rhiannon Aarons (2017 SUZY award winner for “Most Well-Rounded Kinkster”) and other D.A.D. members, including Michael Q. Schmidt as tRUMP; ErotiqueTV CEO Eric John (2016 SUZY award winner for “Best Male Ejaculator”) with his hot new partner Lexi Lore; plus Goddess Lilith Audrey Noir, as well as our own Ikkor the Wolf, Phoenix Dawn,  and (as always) surprises.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“ErotiqueTv with D.A.D.” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, April 7th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Get Set for a BONOBO SPRING

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Heavenly Bodies & Divine Minds this Saturday on DrSuzy.Tv

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This Saturday night, March 24th, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show welcomes Spring 2018, the Bonobo Way, with heavenly bodies and divine minds. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be renowned street artist Plastic Jesus, up and coming porn stars Athena Rayne and Xavior Steele, FemDom Bettie Bondage, plus hiphop artist Ikkor the Wolf, Phoenix Dawn, Mia Amore and (as always) surprises.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“Heavenly Bodies & Divine Minds” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, March 24th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Get Set for a BONOBO SPRING

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Get Lucky this St. Paddy’s Day, the Bonobo Way, on DrSuzy.Tv, this Saturday, March 17th!

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Erin Go Bragh! This Saturday night, March 17th, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show celebrates St. Paddy’s Day, the Bonobo Way. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be porn stars, Gas Mask Girl, Metaphysical, Shawn Goth, comedians, musicians. sexperts and sexpots, plus hiphop artist Ikkor the Wolf, Phoenix Dawn, Mia Amore and (as always) surprises,.as we go for the luck, the charm, the green (oh the green!) and the general good vibes of a St. Paddy’s-style Bacchanal, as only happens in Dr. Suzy’s world-famous Womb Room in Bonoboville, LA.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“St. Paddy’s Day, the Bonobo Way” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, March 17th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Get Set for a BONOBO SPRING

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Celebrate Women’s History Month with Women’s Wrestling, Comedy & SEX this Saturday on DrSuzy.Tv

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This Saturday night, March 10th, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show celebrates Women’s History Month with women’s nude wrestling, comedy and sex! Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be professional nude wrestler Mistress Kara, comedienne Fizaa Dosani, porn stars Meow Misti DawnMonica Raven & Lillith Lustt, plus hiphop artist Ikkor the Wolf, Phoenix Dawn, Mia Amore and (as always) surprises. Dr. Suzy, Phoenix and Mia will wear lingerie from Adult Warehouse Outlet in Los Angeles.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“D,/A.D. III: Purim 2018” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, March 10th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Get Set for a BONOBO SPRING

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

D.A.D. III: Dominatrixes Against Donald Trump return for Purim, Porn & Comedy this Saturday on DrSuzy.Tv

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This Saturday night, March 3rd, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show welcomes back Dominatrixes Against Donald Trump (D.A.D.) and celebrates Purim, 2018. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be D.A.D.. founder and director Mistress Tara Indiana (2017 SUZY award winner for “Best FemDom of the Resistance”), Rhiannon Aarons (2017 SUZY award winner for “Most Well-Rounded Kinkster”) and other D.A.D. members; plus comic Lamar D. Sol, porn stars Emilia Song, Megyn Mason & Judith Brown, hiphop artist Ikkor the Wolf, Phoenix Dawn, Mia Amore and (as always) surprises.

D.A.D. is “a place for Dominatrixes and their allies to exchange ideas and organize political action against Donald Trump.” One of their projects involves Mistress Tara Indiana, who ran for U.S. President in 2016, performing an erotic art installation at the Trump Towers public space in which she urinates on a willing Trump surrogate/submissive. On Trump’s inaugural weekend, Mistress Tara, Rhiannon Aarons, Dr. Suzy, Jacquie Blu and others did a dry run… well, actually it was a very wet run.

Watch “Trump’s Golden Shower: Therapy for the Trumpocalypse” now playing uncensored on Clip-O-Rama. A censored promo is on YouTube.

Enjoy The Dr. Susan Block Show‘s Commedia Erotica production of the Story of Esther in Purim 2017

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“D,/A.D. III: Purim 2018” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, March 3rd, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Get Set for a BONOBO SPRING

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Lupey Recovery this Saturday with Guadalajara Joe, Sexperts & Sexpots on DrSuzy.Tv

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This Saturday night, February 24th, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show will be a Lupercalia recovery show. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be the return of  “Best Subbie” 2017 SUZY award winner, Mpenzie Barbie, Mother TinkMadame Mina Nietzsche, Guadalajara Joe, Danni Dawson, Feli Fury, Ikkor the Wolf, Phoenix Dawn, Mia Amore and (as always) surprises.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“Lupey Recovery” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, February 24th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Get Ready for a BONOBO WAY SPRING

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Whip It Up for LUPERCALIA 2018 this Saturday on DrSuzy.Tv with a Galaxy of Kinky Stars!

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This Saturday night, February 17th, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show will celebrate LUPERCALIA, the Original Valentine’s Day. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be Rhiannon Aarons (as the Luper), Mistress Porcelain, Mistress Jennifer, Mistress Elle Zelana, Elena Rayn, Daniel Flohr, Chef BeLive, Daniele Watts, Christine Dupree, Bratty Wolfie + Phoenix Dawn, Mia Amore and surprises. Februa provided by JuxLeather

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

LUPERCALIA 2018will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, February 17th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

GIVE THE BONOBO WAY FOR VALENTINE’S DAY

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Valentines in the #MeToo Trumpocalypse

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This Saturday night, February 10th, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show will get ready for Valentine’s Day, the High Holiday of Love, in the midst of the “#MeToo Trumpocalypse,” with some interesting couples, trouples, singles, pansexualists and “it’s complicated” guests. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be a FemDom/Comedian couple, pro-Domme Mistress Mina and ALT987 talk show host/comedian Jake Dill, kinkster couple Mistress Bella Bathory and Adult Performer Advocacy Committee (APAC) member Siouxsie Q James, plus erotic performers  Michael Vegas, Queerella Fistalot, Candy Candaver, Free Speech Coalition science and regulatory affairs director Ian O’Brien, Phoenix Dawn and surprises.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“Valentines in the #MeToo Trumpocalypse” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, February 10th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

Join Us Next Saturday, February 17th for Our Sure-to-be-Amazing Celebration of LUPERCALIA, the Original Valentine’s Day! RSVP: Call 310-568-0066.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

GIVE THE BONOBO WAY FOR VALENTINE’S DAY

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Dominatrixes Against Donald Trump (D.A.D.) Redux on DrSuzy.Tv

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This Saturday night, February 3rd, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show welcomes back Dominatrixes Against Donald Trump (D.A.D.). Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be D.A.D.. founder and director Mistress Tara Indiana (2017 SUZY award winner for “Best FemDom of the Resistance”), Rhiannon Aarons (2017 SUZY award winner for “Most Well-Rounded Kinkster”) and other D.A.D. members; plus Mistress Sterling, Comedian  Alfonso Caballero,  Phoenix Dawn, Ikkor the Wolf  and surprises.

D.A.D. is “a place for Dominatrixes and their allies to exchange ideas and organize political action against Donald Trump.” One of their projects involves Mistress Tara Indiana, who ran for U.S. President in 2016, performing an erotic art installation at the Trump Towers public space in which she urinates on a willing Trump surrogate/submissive. On Trump’s inaugural weekend, Mistress Tara, Rhiannon Aarons, Dr. Suzy, Jacquie Blu and others did a dry run… well, actually it was a very wet run.

Watch “Trump’s Golden Shower: Therapy for the Trumpocalypse” now playing uncensored on Clip-O-Rama. A censored promo is on YouTube.


Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“D,/A.D. Redux” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, February 3rd, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

GIVE THE BONOBO WAY FOR VALENTINE’S DAY

ValentinesDay_TheBonoboWay

The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Levitation & Domination on DrSuzy.Tv

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This Saturday night, January 27th, 2018, joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max live from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show will be pro-Domme Mistress Damiana Chi, levitation magician Danny Wolverton, and the witty, sexy scribes of UCLA’s Satyr magazine, ((2017 SUZY award winner for “Best Trump Satire”) including sultry Satyr Editor-in-Chief Sarah Crosthwaite (check out her articles), as well as Phoenix Dawn, Ikkor the Wolf and who-knows-what bonoboesque surprises

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“Levitation & Domination” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, January 27, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

GIVE THE BONOBO WAY FOR VALENTINE’S DAY

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

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