The Dr. Susan Block Institute is looking for people who are knowledgeable about various disciplines of sexology and are good listeners – empathetic, creative, perceptive and caring – to work with us as tele-therapists in the fields of telephone sex therapy, video therapy and sext therapy.

Prior experience helpful, but not necessary. We’re here to help you succeed in helping our clients.

If you are looking for work that is meaningful, creative and rewarding, but doesn’t require that you commute, this could be a dream position for you.

The Block Institute has been helping men, women, couples and groups from all over the world with sex, love and relationships, as well as what we call “The Bonobo Way” of peace through sharing pleasures, for over 35 years. Though our sex therapy services are totally private and confidential, the Institute also sponsors The Dr. Susan Block Show, featuring many of our techniques and philosophies, which you may have seen on HBO, Vice, cable TV, or heard on broadcast radio, currently on FDRradio.com and DrSusanBlock.Tv.

In your position as a therapist with the Institute, you will be helping a wide variety of people from around the world – from world leaders to truck drivers – most of whom want to talk about something that they can’t talk about anywhere else.

You’ll be helping people, and you’ll learn a lot about people and how they “tic.” It’s like a post-doctorate level course, but you get paid instead of paying for it.

You might not “get rich quick,” but you will earn extra income. How much you earn depends on the time you can work.

You must pass a background check. You must be over 18 years old. You must have a good phone with excellent reception and a quiet, private, work space to talk over the phone or webcam.

• For further information and an interview, please call us at 213.670.0066.  Ask for Harry.

Looking forward to working with you!

Warm regards,

Susan M. Block, Ph.D.

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This Saturday night, December 2nd, The Dr. Susan Block Show will ski into December with a little Bedroom Bondage and Hot Wax for the Holidays. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be Professor Oni, a Lifestyle Dominant, former university professor, Kinbaku artist and photographer; and kinky fetish model, Lola Fae; plus our new bonobo Phoenix Dawn, Christine Dupree, Bangs Black, Ikkor the Wolf and more TBA.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

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This Saturday night, July 8th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will explore sexual power play and celebrate another Bonoboville birthday. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block will be Sanctuary pro-Domme, exhibitionist and fetishist Madame Rose and professional “switch,” Switch Em, plus Bonoboville’s beloved Ikkor the Wolf, continuing his “Life Day” (aka birthday) celebrations (that started on last Saturday’s show), along with porn star Rachael Cavalli, plus Gypsy Bonobo, Capt’n Max, and more TBA.  This show is associate-produced by Jacquie Blu.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

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This Saturday night, June 24th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will celebrate the Summer Solstice with a little magic. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block will be magician and sleight-of-hand artist Jack Murdock, as well as the return of Sanctuary pro-Domme and Lifestyle FemDom Mistress Liz plus submissive/model Mpenzi who will test-drive Dr. Suzy’s brand new Motorbunny, plus Gypsy Bonobo, Jacquie Blu, Capt’n Max, of course, and more TBA. This show is associate-produced by Clemmy Cockatoo.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

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This Saturday night, August 20th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will enjoy a sure-to-be-HOT summer night of fetish fun. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block live in-studio will be fabulous Domina & DomConLA 2016 Mistress of Ceremonies Madam Raven Rae, last seen engaging in intense foot fetish play on Elvis in Bonoboville, voluptuous ProDomme Humiliatrix Miss Freudian Slit, (last seen on Ms. Tara for President & FemDom Politics the Bonobo Way), Jay Toriko (last seen performing auto-fellatio on the ErotiqueTv Olympics) and lovely Speakeasy bartendress Shannon Coronado, plus the return of Handsome Hollywood Jake… and more (always more!) TBA.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience and share pleasures under the palms of Bonoboville this Saturday, or call 626.461.5950 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

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Los Angeles, California: June 1, 2016 — Susan M. Block, Ph.D., a.k.a., “Dr. Suzy,” internationally renowned sexologist and best-selling author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure (Gardner & Daughters Publishers), will present “The Bonobo Way: An Alternative Great Ape Paradigm for Human Sexuality” at the 48^th Annual Conference of The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists (AASECT), to be held June 8-12 in San Juan, Puerto Rico.

“I look forward to sharing this very special portion of the ‘Bonobo Sutra’ with my fellow sex educators and therapists,” says Dr. Block who has been presenting various aspects of the Bonobo Way, locally and abroad, at different academic and lifestyle conferences over the past few months, including the keynote address to the world’s first “ecosexuality” symposium in an academic institution, convened at the University of Puerto Rico, Mayagüez by UPRM Humanities Professor SerenaGaia Anderlini D’Onofrio. She also gave a talk on nonmonogamy among bonobos at the 5^th International Conference on Monogamy & Nonmonogamy at UC Berkeley; and she just delivered a rousing presentation at DomCon LA 2016 on bonobos as the “Most FemDom Apes on Earth.”

Next, on Saturday, June 11, she will speak at AASECT 2016 where “Putting the Pieces Together: Inclusivity in Practice” will be the conference theme. “A vital piece of the human sexuality puzzle is our interconnected Great Ape nature,” says Block, an AASECT member since 2005. “Bonobos are the most inclusive apes on Earth. They love to share food and sex with friends and strangers. This is deeply linked to another “piece” of the puzzle that bonobos “put together”: peace through pleasure. Bonobos are the only great apes who have never been seen killing each other. We humans can learn a lot from our bonobo cousins about our own sexual diversity, erotic inclusivity, gender equality and inherent potential for harmony. As sex therapists, we can help our clients to release their ‘inner bonobos’ consensually, relatively safely and enjoyably. And speaking of joy, I am overjoyed to return to Puerto Rico, the ecosexual ‘Island of Enchantment’ and a wonderful place to learn about love.”

A consistent message in all of Block’s Bonobo Way talks is the critical importance of saving the highly endangered wild bonobos from imminent extinction, and she encourages her audiences to “adopt a bonobo” with Lola ya Bonobo or the Bonobo Conservation Initiative, among others. “Bonobo conservation is integral to the Bonobo Way,” says Block. “If we lose the bonobos, then we lose a key to understanding human sexuality that we can never find again.”

AASECT 2016 will be held June 8-12, 2016 at the Condado Plaza Hilton in San Juan, Puerto Rico. “The Bonobo Way: An Alternative Great Ape Paradigm for Human Sexuality” is scheduled for 4:15-5:45 pm on June 11, 2016. For information about the Bonobo Way at AASECT 2016 or to arrange an interview with Dr. Susan Block, please call 626-461-5950.

Contact: David Rossi Phone: 626.461.5950 Email: Bonoboville@gmail.com
Web: thebonoboway.com Watch the Video: http://j.mp/TBWyouTubeTrailer

HUMANS ARE LOVING THE BONOBO WAY

“The Bonobo Way is a refreshing must-read for our times.”
—Dr. Patti Britton, American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) Past President

“Impactful, often hilarious… wildly entertaining… The Bonobo Way just might hold the key to world peace.”
—HUFFINGTON POST book review by Steve Karras

“The Bonobo Way is sexy and fun… damn smart too.”
—Sex at Dawn, author Christopher Ryan, Ph.D.

“The Bonobo Way is a pleasure on all counts… and especially significant at this time.”
—Dr. SerenaGaia Anderlini D’Onofrio, co-editor of Ecosexuality

“Bravo Dr. Block for paving the way to a hopefully more bonobo future.”
—Vanessa Woods, Duke University primatologist and author of Bonobo Handshake

“Brilliant… A great book about human sexuality.”
—Sherry Rehman, Sr. VP of Pakistan People’s Party & former Ambassador to the U.S.

“Amazing! Dr. Susan Block is an ecosexual visionary.”
—Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D., ecosexual artist and filmmaker

“The Bonobo Way is marvelous! A happy book for a happy life in a happier world.”
—Xaviera Hollander, author of The Happy Hooker

“Awesome book… Excellently written and transformative”
—Dorion Sagan, science writer and author of Death & Sex

“Dr. Susan Block has a new understanding of how to enhance our intimate relationships!”
—Progressive News Network interview with Dr. Diana Wiley

“Adventure, optimism, and love is what Dr. Susan Block is all about… Patients become fans, and fans become evangelists.”
—CITIZEN LA Inside the Pleasure Compound with Dr. Susan Block

“AMAZING… The Bonobo Way shines a light on humanity’s capacity for peace.”
—Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman, author of Wired to Create

“The Bonobo Way will save our planet! Dr. Susan’s insight into sexuality is not only incredible…it is also the sexual revolution, easily mapped out, that we have been waiting for.”
–Tracy Vanity, blogger

“I love every page of The Bonobo Way!”
—Christian Bruyère, producer of Champions of the Wild

The Bonobo Way is available in kindle and paperback on Amazon or direct from the publisher. A portion of all proceeds from book sales goes to Lola ya Bonobo and the Bonobo Conservation Initiative, as well as other organizations actively helping to protect and save the highly endangered wild bonobos from extinction.

Tired of conventional sexuality experts? Dr. Block is available for comment or interview. Would you like to review The Bonobo Way? Contact us today.

David Rossi
Phone: 626.461.5950 Email: Bonoboville@gmail.com Web:thebonoboway.com
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This Saturday night, March 26th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will celebrate Easter Eve with a scintillating “SEX ROCK RES-ERECTION.” Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block live in-studio will be sensational glam/punk/sex-rock band extraordinaire The DTEASE, accompanied by the super sexy, funny and fun DTEASERS (aka the Unlicensed Professionals), that dynamic duo of Punk Rock Renaissance Woman Catherine Imperio and Punk Princess Samantha Fairley.

The DTEASE, featuring the dashing, guitar-smashing Wilson Gil (lead vocals), wowed us at the old Downtown Speakeasy in Stagebrother and the DTease, winning the 2012 SUZY Award for “Sexiest Musical Performance,” and they are sure to RES-ERECT our excitement this Easter Eve.

Any serious DrSuzy.Tv fan knows the fabulous Unlicensed Professionals, two of Santa Barbara’s finest artists, models and comediennes, winners of many Bonoboville awards and accolades over the years, including 2015 SUZYS for “Most Artistic Anus” ( Cate) and “Best Funny Faces” (Sam). We can’t wait to see them!

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 626.461.5950. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“EASTER EVE SEX ROCK RES-ERECTION with The DTEASE on DrSuzy.Tv” will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show Saturday night, March 26h, 2016, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. 

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv. This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum, JuxLeather and Wein-Erotik-Edition.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

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This Saturday night, March 19th,  international sexologist, Bonobo Way author and talk show host Dr. Susan Block will celebrate the birthday of the fabulous Dayton Rains—award-winning porn star (now represented by 360 Model Agency) webcam and phone therapist with the Dr. Susan Block Institute, and associate producer for DrSuzy.Tv—live from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show.  Joining the Block Party to celebrate Dayton’s birthday will be some of Dayton’s friends and fellow performers TBA. Dayton is expected to attend at least some of her on-air birthday celebration in her birthday suit. Plus Bonobo Way Bday Book–Spankings, Goddess Venus Cannabis offerings, St. Paddy’s weekend festivities and much more.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 626.461.5950. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“Dayton Rains’ Birthday” will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show Saturday night, March 19th, 2016, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv. This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum, JuxLeather, Wein-Erotik-Edition and H.B. Edibles.

 The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

GIVE THE BONOBO WAY! CLICK HERE TO READ OUR RECENT RAVE REVIEWS & INTERVIEWS

Make 2016 your Year of the Bonobo and get your copy of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure.

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This Saturday night, February 27th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will explore polyamory. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block live in-studio for the last Saturday of “Black History Month” will be stars of BRAVO‘s popular “Newlyweds” show, Dwayne Mooney and Billie Jordan (husband and wife), plus their polyamorous partner Melissa Luna, as well as the fabulous Dayton Rains—award-winning porn star, webcam and phone therapist with the Institute, and associate producer for DrSuzy.Tv—and more TBA. Dwayne Mooney, the son of renowned comedian Paul Mooney (best-known for his appearances on Chappelle’s Show and writing for Richard Pryor), is a stand-up comedian and author of Sacred Man: A Man’s Guide to Successful Polyamory Relationships: How to Openly Love, Heal and Manage Multiple Women.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 626.461.5950. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“BRAVO Polyamory” will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, February 27th, 2016, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv. This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum,  JuxLeather  and organic wine from the vineyards of Tuscany, Wein-Erotik-Edition.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

GIVE THE BONOBO WAY! CLICK HERE TO READ OUR RECENT RAVE REVIEWS & INTERVIEWS

Make 2016 your Year of the Bonobo and get your copy of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure.

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This Saturday night, October 17th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will continue our Halloween season celebration of “Kink Month” with Kink Month III. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block live in-studio will be a sparkling array of kinksters, kink stars and sex experts: Mistress Helly Hellfire, Amelea Dark, Raquel Devine and Pastor Jon, a.k.a., “the Preacher & the Porn Star,”  will be on the show for the first time. Seattle sex therapist and Progressive Radio Network talk show host Dr. Diana Wiley, who is conducting a multi-part Bonobo Way interview series with Dr. Block and was last seen by DrSuzy.Tv viewers on our SSSS show. will also be joining us in-studio. And continuing the scary-sexy Kink Month festivities will be kinky sexpot Dayton Rains—also a webcam and phone therapist with the Institute—plus DrSuzy.Tv producer Biz Bonobo. 

“Kink Month: Part III” will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, October 17, 2015, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 626.461.5950. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv. This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum, Condomania, Glyde America Condoms and JuxLeather

DON’T MISS HALLOWEEN in BONOBOVILLE – Saturday, October 31st, 2015! RSVP Now: Call 626-461-5950.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

FALL INTO THE BONOBO WAY! CLICK HERE TO READ OUR RECENT RAVE REVIEWS & INTERVIEWS

Make 2015 your Year of the Bonobo and get your copy of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure.

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This Saturday night, October 10th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will continue our Halloween season celebration of “Kink Month” with Kink Month II: Kinkstar. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block live in-studio will be “Kinkstar” Simon Blaise and kinky subbie Audrey Holiday, who made her DrSuzy.Tv debut in BDSM Theater.  Also continuing the scary-sexy Kink Month festivities will be kinky sexpot Dayton Rains—now a webcam and phone therapist with the Institute—plus DrSuzy.Tv producer Biz Bonobo.

“Kink Month: Part II” will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, October 10, 2015, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 626.461.5950. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv. This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum, Condomania, Glyde America Condoms and JuxLeather

DON’T MISS HALLOWEEN in BONOBOVILLE – Saturday, October 31st, 2015! RSVP Now: Call 626-461-5950.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

FALL INTO THE BONOBO WAY! CLICK HERE TO READ OUR RECENT RAVE REVIEWS & INTERVIEWS

Make 2015 your Year of the Bonobo and get your copy of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure.

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This Saturday night, August 1st, The Dr. Susan Block Show presents an exploration of the evolution of seduction since the dawn of agriculture. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block live in-studio will be Dr. Christopher Ryan, co-author of the groundbreaking New York Times best-selling book Sex at Dawn, host of “Tangentially Speaking,” and “shame-exorcist.” Arden Leigh, author of The New Rules of Attraction and founder of the Sirens Seduction Forum;  sex & relationship coach and sensual touch healer Tal OM; erotic performers Stefani Special and Natasha Juja, and porn auteur Jack the Zipper, along with show producer Biz Bonobo, Institute therapist Chelsea Demoiselle, Snake Eve in the Bonoboville Garden of Eden and sexy surprises.

August 1st is also the pagan holiday of Lammas, the harvest festival. “Since agriculture is probably the ‘root of all evil’ in human culture, our Lammas celebration will have a hunter-gatherer edge,” says Dr. Suzy.

More on the Dawn of Agriculture from Sex at Dawn:  “Agriculture, one might say, has involved the domestication of the human being as much as of any plant or other animal… The shift to agriculture is normally spun as a great leap forward, despite the fact that it was actually a disaster for most of the individuals who endured it. Skeletal remains taken from various regions of the world dating to the transition from foraging to farming all tell the same story: increased famine, vitamin deficiency, stunted growth, radical reduction in life span, increased violence… little cause for celebration. For most people, we’ll see that the shift from foraging to farming was less a giant leap forward than a dizzying fall from grace.” (Sex at Dawn, page 83)

“Dawn of Seduction” will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, August 1st, 2015, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville.com. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 626.461.5950. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068.  Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1and @DrSuzy.  Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv .  Chat live in the Bonoboville.com Studio

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum, Dirty Tequila, Condomania, Glyde America condoms, Stockroom and JuxLeather

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

It’s the Bonobo Summer of Love! Make 2015 your Year of the Bonobo and get your copy of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure.

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“A slut is a person of any gender who celebrates sexuality according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you.”
The Ethical Slut

This Saturday night, July 18th, The Dr. Susan Block Show presents “Ethical Sluts & Elvis.” Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block live via webcam from Eugene, Oregon will be Janet Hardy, world-renowned sex educator, writer, publisher and co-author of the classic sex-positive, poly-friendly manifesto The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures. Janet W. Hardy (a.k.a., Catherine A. Liszt, a.k.a., Lady Green), who will be the keynote speaker next Saturday, July 25th at SexPositive World’s “Sexual Health Series Kick Off: Redefining Sexuality for the 21st Century” in UCLA’s Northwest Campus Auditorium, appeared on The Dr. Susan Block Show back in 1998 when The Ethical Slut was first published.

“We are proud to reclaim the word “slut” as a term of approval, even endearment… As proud sluts, we believe that sex and sexual love are fundamental forces for good, activities with the potential to strengthen intimate bonds, enhance lives, open spiritual awareness, even change the world.”
The Ethical Slut

Joining Dr. Suzy live in-studio in Bonoboville, L.A. will be Elvis Presley tribute artist, Smokey Binion, Jr., and adult entertainers (and “ethical sluts”), Haley Sweet and Trixie Plenty, as well as show producer Biz Bonobo and Institute therapist Chelsea Demoiselle.

“Ethical Sluts & Elvis” on The Dr. Susan Block Show will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville Saturday night, July 18th, 2015, 10:30pm-Midnight PST on DrSuzy.Tv. It can also be viewed live in Bonoboville.com.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 626.461.5950. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068.

Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1and @DrSuzy.

Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv .

Chat live in the Bonoboville.com Studio

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum, Dirty Tequila, Condomania and JuxLeather

Want to “define our terms”? Dr. Suzy wrote the definitive definitions of “striptease” for the new Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

It’s the Bonobo Summer of Love! Make 2015 your Year of the Bonobo and get your copy of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure.

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This Saturday night, June 27th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will explore Comicon cosplay and webcam performance artistry. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block in-studio live on the air will be Comicon “Model and Provocateur” Ari Dee.

“Comicon Provocateur Ari Dee” on The Dr. Susan Block Show will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville Saturday night, June 27th, 2015, 10:30pm-Midnight PDT on DrSuzy.Tv.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 626.461.5950. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

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This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Dirty Tequila, Cold Cock Whiskey, Condomania and JuxLeather

Want to “define our terms”? Dr. Suzy wrote the definitive definition of “striptease” for the new Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

It’s the Bonobo Summer of Love! Make 2015 your Year of the Bonobo and get your copy of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure.

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Saturday night, June 13th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will explore the burgeoning field of ecosexuality Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block in-studio live on the air will be Ecosexuality Movement Leader and co-editor of the forthcoming collection, Ecosexuality: When Nature Inspires the Arts of Love, Dr. SerenaGaia Anderlini D’Onofrio. Ecosexuality‘s other co-editor Lindsay Hagamen, will join us remotely.

“Ecosexuality with Dr. SerenaGaia” on The Dr. Susan Block Show will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville Saturday night, May 30th, 2015, 10:30pm-Midnight PDT on DrSuzy.Tv.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 626.461.5950. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068.

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Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv .

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This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Condomania, JuxLeather, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur and Dirty Tequila

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Spring has sprung! Bonobos just want to have fun! Make 2015 your Year of the Bonobo and get your copy of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure.

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 Los Angeles, California: May 21, 2015—The Dr. Susan Block Institute is proud to announce that its director, Susan M. Block, Ph.D., is among the top contributors to a historic work on sex and culture that sets a new standard in knowledge-based academic publishing: The Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality.

Like the Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedias of Human Evolution, Health, Political Thought, Literature, Sociology, Social and Political Movements, Globalization and many more, the new Human Sexuality Encyclopedia is a “comprehensive A-Z reference” that will be utilized in schools, universities, libraries, research centers and other learning institutions around the world. An online version of the Encyclopedia is available, as well as the three-volume print set.

Edited by distinguished Professors of Anthropology, Patricia Whelehan and Anne Bolin, with contributions from an international team of top scholars and practitioners, the Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality contains “over 500 entries that define sexuality from a broad biocultural perspective and show the diversity of human sexual behavior and belief systems… ranging from short definitions of scientific, clinical, cultural, and colloquial terms to extended explorations of major concepts…[covering] 13 key areas of content, from clinical medicine and body modification to the language of sexuality and the history of sexology.”

Dr. Susan Block wrote three of the Human Sexuality Encyclopedia’s “extended explorations” on “Sexual Fetishes,” “Phone Sex” and “Striptease.” She also wrote two shorter entries on “Spanking” and “Cuckolding.”

“These subjects are close to my heart and work as a sex therapist,” says Dr. Block, a graduate of Yale University with a Ph.D. from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. “They’re rarely defined in an academic framework, so I’m honored to be able to present them to students, scholars and researchers in this great compilation. Sex education takes a leap forward with the publication of the Wiley-Blackwell Encyclopedia.”

Susan M. Block, Ph.D., a.k.a. “Dr. Suzy,” best-known for her groundbreaking HBO specials, is a leading international champion of sexual freedom and sex education, as well as a pioneering advocate for the preservation of the inspirational and highly endangered bonobos. An award-winning author, her latest, highly acclaimed book is The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure. Every Saturday night, she hosts The Dr. Susan Block Show live, and she is the founder of the new social media site Bonoboville.com, as well as one of the founders of Sex Week at Yale in 2002.But she’ll never quit her “day job” as a sex therapist in private practice. As director of the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, she is advisor, educator and therapist to thousands of men, women and couples around the world, from the CEOs of Silicon Valley to the sheiks of Riyadh, Hollywood stars, Washington politicians and the folks-next-door, helping people to express, explore, enjoy and take responsibility for their sexual lives.

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Tired of conventional sexuality experts? Dr. Block is available for comment or interview by contacting:
David L. Rossi    
Phone: 626.461.5950  
Email: Bonoboville@gmail.com
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http://thebonoboway.com

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What is it about a pair of beautiful breasts that makes most men and a lot of women go gaga with desire?

Many an otherwise reasonable gentleman’s life virtually revolves around his pursuit of the perfect breasts (big or small, but usually big)…the supreme bazoombahs!  Gazangas!  Tatas!  Mammas!  The typical “breast man” will probably snort with denial if anyone suggests that his intense interest in a lady’s ample mammaries have anything to do with his desire to suckle up to Mama, but what does he know?  After all, the glorification of the female breast as a sex symbol, as opposed to a maternal image, is so pervasive in the West, especially in America, most of us forget that boobs are not genitalia.

Indeed, the most acceptable all-American fetish is the one so many good old boys have for ladies’ chests.  Though for some men, the adoration of the feminine bust is nothing less than the Holy Grail, it is, of course, a fetish, along the same lines as a foot or bun fetish, since the female rack is no more involved with sexual reproduction than the feet or buns.  Breasts are far more essential to nurturing than to sexual intercourse. And therein lays the infantile origin of the breast fetish.  That deep need we all have for deep nurturance.  Sustenance.  Comfort.  Food.  The breast is food, after all.  It is that unique part of a lady’s body that actually creates food—the ultimate comfort food—the milk of life and love…and fetishes.  Mmmmm….No wonder nipples are so suckable, even for grown-ups with no serious “Mommy issues”!

So what do you like about breasts (everything)?  Hard nipples? Mesmerizing areolas? Do you prefer a nice, soft, squeezable, all-natural bosom?  Or do you go for surgically enhanced “porn star boobs”?  Do you like them small, medium or large? How about XXXtra large?  Are you more turned on by bare breasts, or boobies in bras? Or do you just love the slow sensuous reveal, the tease of the striptease?  How about devastating cleavage? Pierced nipples? Lactating moo-moos? Wet T-shirt? Tied up torpedoes? Bouncing bazooms? Teenage Lewinskies or a mature MiLF’s mamaloogas? Girlfriend goombas? Do you like perky titties that seem to reach for the sky or flapdoodle boobies that swing back and forth like baby seals at play?

When you encounter a “nice pair,” what do you like to do with them?  Cuddle, suckle, tweak or kiss? Do you long to rest your weary head against a sumptuous dairy pillow?  Would you rather worship a set of sexy  breasts or slap them (consensually, of course)?  Do you enjoy intermammary intercourse, or as the Latins call it, coitus a mammalia, the act of ejaculating between the boobs?  The lady generally leans backward as the gentleman places his penis between her jugs and thrusts, the lady controlling the pressure by pushing her soft mounds together, squeezing his shaft until he gives her a  “pearl necklace.”  Or do you just like to watch a busty lady show off her assets?

One of the most famous American breast fetishists was the notably eccentric, hugely wealthy Howard Hughes. Hughes was an only child and very attached to his doting mama Allene who died when he was sixteen (fertile ground for mother issues and a breast fetish).  Hughes used his extensive power and money to seduce hundreds of big-busted showgirls and movie stars, including the famously voluptuous Jane Russell (pictured above in Outlaw), in his passionate search for the perfect pillowy bosom against which to rest his weary, mother-issue-ridden head.  After viewing rushes of Russell in Macao, Hughes wrote a three-page memo detailing what kind of bra she should wear to enhance her sumptuous bazooms.

Send us a memo on the perfect pair for you, and give us a call anytime for webcam, sext or phone sex therapy.  Whether you need help with a serious sexual problem or you’d just like to roleplay a fantasy, we’re here for you, anytime you need to talk (or webcam) 24/7.  Whatever your pleasure or concern, if you need to talk about it, you can call the breast fetish specialist  sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute at 626.461.5949.

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Next Saturday, April 13^th 2013, The Dr. Susan Block Show will commemorate the 21^th wedding anniversary of our host, international sexologist Dr. Susan Block, and her charming Prince, Captain Max (aka Prince Maximillian Rudolph Leblovic di Lobkowicz di Filangieri), including the true romance of how they met and fell in love, and somehow stayed in love and in lust despite (or because of) countless people, police and forces of nature seemingly hell-bent on tearing them apart, lo these 21 years. The celebration will be attended by a bevy of celebrities, socialites, artists, art patrons, comedians, authors, doctors, lawyers, poets, pundits, philosophers and porn stars, including Amor Hilton, Chris Gore, Sinn Sage, Malaika Millions, Vicky Vixen, Natassia Dreams, Jesse Flores, Eva Linn, Ana Foxx, Isiah King James, Charity Bangs, Jessi Palmer, Barry Fisher and Dr. Hernando Chaves.

Dr. Suzy & Pr. Max’s 21^st Wedding Anniversary will air live April 13^th 2013, 10:30pm-Midnight PST on The Dr. Susan Block Show. Listen FREE at http://tinyurl.com/RadioSex. Call-In Free: 1.866.289.7068

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Coming Up Soon on DrSuzy.tv… (click here to RSVP or call 626.461.5949)
04/20/13 – “Prostate Pleasure & Health” Author Dr. Charlie Glickman
05/04/13 – “Sex & God: How Religion Distorts Sexuality” Author Dr. Darryl Ray
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The Dr. Susan Block Show beverages of choice are Absinthe and Hennessy, among the many fine libations and gourmet hors d’oeuvres featured at the always-popular Speakeasy Open Bar and Aphrodisiac Buffet. Sex toys provided by Sybian, CalExotics, ScreamingO, Divine Interventions, Stockroom, JuxLeather, Pipedream Products and Condomania condoms. Proceeds from donations go to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure around the world.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA. Founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials, the Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure.

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Do you long for an erotic experience that is more than just physical, but doesn’t require a major long-term commitment? Many of us, probably most of us, feel that there is much more to sex than just the carnal act…that goes for women and men.  So, what about you?  Do you feel that a physical encounter is heightened by what goes on before and after, not to mention during the “act” itself? Consider the things that go along with having a “girlfriend,” both in and out of the bedroom: a romantic evening, good conversation, humor, understanding, compliments, kissing, cuddling, playful foreplay, sharing secrets, the give and take of pleasure, intimacy. Closeness like this makes the sex between you that much more special, as well as more deeply orgasmic.

If this sounds appealing, you may be looking for the Girlfriend Experience (or GFE), an encounter that provides as much emotional satisfaction as physical.  GFE is a term used by some escorts, call girls, prostitutes,etc., made famous in the film by that name starring Sasha Grey, directed by Steven Soderbergh.  But it’s really about much more than hiring an escort. Who says that just because you pay for an erotic experience, it has to be sex without feeling, foreplay, afterplay, laughter, romance or intimacy? In The Girlfriend Experience, you can have it all.

So…why not just go for a real girlfriend? Lots of reasons! The Girlfriend Experience is not a play by play of the experience of having a girlfriend…otherwise it would just be a bad imitation of the real thing. The GFE is the skillfully roleplayed fantasy of a girlfriend—the best parts, including the sexual parts—and when it’s over, there’s no grouchy, difficult, demanding, real girlfriend to contend with. Let’s face it: Having a real girlfriend can be a lot of work. In real life, many relationships are more trouble than they’re worth.  Even the best require commitment, sacrifice and responsibility, and they don’t always last.  The worst break your heart and often your bank account. Like a delicious cake without the calories, The Girlfriend Experience gives you the deep pleasure and warm feeling of intimacy without the work and wear-and-tear.

There are many reasons you might benefit from a GFE.  Maybe you don’t feel ready to settle down with a real girlfriend yet.   You might be between relationships, or working hard on your career without the time and attention that a real girlfriend requires.  That doesn’t mean you don’t deserve pleasure, positive attention, seduction and intimacy. For some, a GFE can even be good practice for the real thing, helping you to develop your game, build confidence and learn more about how women think.  Then again, maybe you already have a real girlfriend, or a real wife, but you need a little GFE that’s just for you, lovingly focused on your feelings, your desires, your fantasies, your needs.

If you feel the Girlfriend Experience could help you, the next question is how to go about experiencing it.  You have several choices.  The most straightforward path would be to contract with an escort or mistress whose webpage says she provides GFE service.  Then again, escorts and mistresses aren’t for everybody, maybe not for most people.  Even if you don’t mind spending money on your GFE (a real girlfriend is always going to cost you something anyway—often much more!), there may be some very good reasons why you don’t want to actually go out and pay for a pro to give it to you “in the flesh.” This includes the risk of getting caught (especially if you’re married and/or running for office), the general stigma associated with prostitution which is still illegal in most locales, the danger of STDs, the inconvenience, the possibility of getting stuck with a real dud, a psycho or someone who is a lot less attractive than her photo, the danger of meeting someone in a strange place or letting them into your place, the high hourly rate, and the list goes on.

If you want all the pleasure and intimacy of The Girlfriend Experience without the headache of hiring an escort or mistress, you might consider picking up your phone and calling for a telephone sex therapy session with the Dr. Susan Block Institute.  We’re therapists—some of us with PhD’s, Master’s, nursing and other degrees—but we’re also some of the best girlfriends you’ll ever have.  We have some great guys here too, as well as transsexuals, but this page is about girlfriends, and we’ve got girlfriends of all ages who will talk with you, listen and help you with your problems, roleplay for you, share your fetishes and fantasies, come with you, commune with you, relax you, play with you and just generally give you the care and attention you need—body, mind and soul.

We do much of this over the phone.  But we can also chat with you via webcam, email or text—any of which can be as PG or X-rated as you like.  You can also visit us in person.  Yes, though TGFE might be a pure fantasy, we’re very real and down-to-earth and you can see that for yourself if and when you come to our center in LA.  But since we’re an international institute and most of our clients don’t live in LA, our most popular medium for TFGE is the telephone.  Why the telephone?  Because it’s so intimate, so very convenient, less expensive, and virtually pressure-free, allowing you to really relax and let your imagination go, sharing your thoughts, feelings, memories and fantasies with someone who can understand you. Whether you want to explore The Girlfriend Experience with us or discuss some of the pros and cons of doing it with one of our experts, you can give us a call right now or anytime that’s good for you.  Unlike most therapists—or girlfriends—we’re here for you whenever you need us, 24 hours a day, seven days a week.  Call 626.461.5949

The other side of the coin of the Girlfriend Experience is sometimes referred to as the “Porn Star Experience” (PSE).  You want PSE if you’re seeking a partner that’s more lusty than friendly for an experience that’s more physical than emotional, sizzling hot athletic sex in a variety of positions, dirty talk, large breasts, shaved genitalia, loud “performance” moaning and multiple orgasms.  We offer both the Porn Star Experience—with several real-life porn stars—via phone or webcam, as well as the Girlfriend Experience, and a whole lot more.  Call us now to find out more (no charge for information!): 626.461.5949.

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 People are going bonobos.  It sounds like a hot new dance and, in a way, it is.  But if you don’t know a bonobo from a banana, you really should read Dr. Block’s new book The Bonobo Way to learn the basics about our “Make Love Not War” Great Ape close cousins who swing through the trees as well as with each other.

  Then, when you’re ready to liberate your inner bonobo and be all you can be—in the bedroom and everywhere else—call the therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute at 626-461-5950.

 The Dr. Susan Block Institute and Block Bonobo Foundation are dedicated to protecting, promoting and researching bonobo chimpanzees, as well as educating people in The Bonobo Way; that is, how these great apes use sex to maintain peace, playfulness and gender equality in their societies, and how we can learn something from them about sex, love and peace on earth.

Whether or not you liberate your inner bonobo, we urge you to help save the real bonobos in the rainforest from imminent extinction.  Here are some places where you can donate:

Lola ya Bonobo
Bonobo Conservation Initiative
The Great Ape Trust
Block Bonobo Foundation

The BONOBO WAY
Peace through Pleasure

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Hi! My name is William.

I love to dish out a good spanking to naughty boys…big or small.

my fun laid back attitude makes me easy to talk to. Let’s explore all of your fantasies.

I am open to both men and women, just give me a call at 1-626-461-5950

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Are you a victim of religious sexual abuse?

Were you raised in a strict religious environment?

Call Us 24/7 at 626.461.5949

Has your sexuality has been hurt, warped or excessively restricted by a harsh, authoritarian, “divinely” inspired, anti-sex  upbringing?

Are you concerned that an unhealthy, fundamentalist, orthodox and/or hypocritical religious approach to life is repressing, oppressing, distorting or destroying your sexuality, your marriage, or your life in general?

The Dr. Susan Block Institute specializes in treating victims of religious sexual abuse and others whose sex lives have been damaged by strict, religious, anti-sex indoctrination.    Institute Director Dr. Susan Block, a Yale University graduate with a PhD from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality,  is one of the world’s foremost experts in issues pertaining to sex and religion.  If you need help, or if you just need to talk, give us a call anytime 24/7 at 626.461.5949.  You can talk to Dr. Block herself or one of our many other telephone sex therapists.  Someone is always here for you.

Of course, there are important differences between the many religions of the world and their specific rules governing sexual conduct.  But whether you were raised Christian, Catholic, Sunni, Sufi or Shi’ite Muslim, Jewish (ethnic or Orthodox), Hindu, Mormon, Coptic, Buddhist, Born Again, Scientologist or any other faith worshipping a heavenly higher power, clergy and other authority figures may have used unreasonable, anti-sex and/or self-serving interpretations of scripture or religious law to control your sexuality and  inflict deep, long-lasting damage.

Religious Sexual Abuse can take many forms.  It may be physical, mental, emotional or spiritual.  Most often, it begins in early childhood.  The scars may be lasting, but the pain can be healed with a little bit of reason and a lot of love.

Religion is a powerful, yet easily manipulated force in many people’s lives.

Were you abused by a misuse of the power of religion?

Were you taught as a child to fear sex, your naked body, your genitalia, your feelings, fantasies or desires?

Were you beaten as a child for being bad?  Were you threatened with eternal damnation, told that God would punish you for your natural erotic curiosity?

Were you ever pressured or forced to do sexual things by a member of the clergy or other trusted adult authority figure who coerced you in the name of God?

Were you ever pressured to not do sexual things by a member of the clergy or other trusted adult authority figure who coerced you in the name of God?

Were you pressured to accept things that didn’t make sense just because they were in the Bible, Koran or other Holy Book or scripture?

Were you told that masturbation was a mortal sin?

Do you feel controlled by your religion?

Do you feel that you can’t “be yourself,” sexually speaking, for fear of how God, your family or your religious community might react?

Are you tired of the heavenly lies and clergy-serving fairy tales?

Is excessive religiosity driving you in the opposite direction, toward what some people call “sex addiction,” an obsession with porn or other types of illicit sex?

Are you aroused by breaking taboos?  Do you find yourself fantasizing about engaging in sexual activities that go against your moral code?

Are you attracted to people of other faiths or ethnic groups, even though your family would disapprove?  Are you turned on by  “extreme” ethnic Muslims, Christians, Jews, Hindus, Atheists or others–partly because your religious community considers them to be the forbidden “other”?

Do you find yourself obsessed with humiliating your own or other religions, like the “Innocence of Muslims,” the “Protocols of the Elders of Zion” or “Christian-bashing?”  Do you have sexual fantasies about Christian Crusaders, Arab-Israeli Conflicts, Jihad, martyrs or other types of eroticized Holy Wars?

Do you find yourself getting aroused by fantasies of violent sex or violence against people of *other* religions? Or do you imagine them committing violence against you?

Have you developed sexual “hang-ups” or unwanted fetishes that might stem from your religious upbringing?

Do you find you are unable to “perform” or enjoy sex because of deep feelings of guilt and/or shame?

Do you feel that your sexual desires might condemn you to burn in hell for eternity?

Do you ever fantasize about erotic acts of blasphemy?

Have you done or fantasized about doing kinky things in church, temple, mosque or synagogue?  Have you ever had or fantasized about having sex with nuns, priests, imams, ayatollahs, mullahs, rabbis, yogis, monks or other clergy?

Or are you, perhaps, a member of the clergy leading a double life?  Preaching a strict abstinence-only doctrine by day and practicing your secret sexual fetish by night?

Do you feel alone, confused and/or concerned about this?

Would you like to talk about it with someone who understands, who won’t *judge* you, but will listen and talk to you, in complete privacy and confidentiality?

Need to talk to someone about something you can’t talk about with anyone else?
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Perhaps you’d like a fresh perspective on the relationship of sex and God, or sexuality and spirituality.  Maybe you need help with processing religiously inspired, sex-negative messages in yourself or in your loved one.  Perhaps you need the strength to stand up for your personal sexual “rights” against unreasonable religious dogma.

Then again, maybe you just need some help from a real “sexpert” in finding ways to explore, express and satisfy your sexual desires without breaking the rules of your religion or compromising your faith.

For information about our telephone sex therapy, webcam and sext therapy services, call 626.461.5949.

You won’t go to hell for it.  But you just might feel a whole lot better.

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I have no limits to what I fantasize about.  So, call me now at the Dr. Susan Block Institute at () 670-006.

Explore all of you dirtiest fantasies with me.  Kisses 

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This Saturday night’s live broadcast of The Dr. Susan Block Show will be Up All Night FAUX SHO, telling freaky tales and dropping it low like it’s Money on the Floor!

Joining international sexologist Dr. Susan Block in her Womb Room broadcast studios will be legendary player and rap superstar Too Short along with his nephew Lil Uno of The Pack and Yung Gee, plus their finest “bitches and hoes,” including Joslyn James, Stevie Shae, Bonnie Rotten, Vicki Chase,  Shay Morgan, Maya Hills, Porsha Carerra and probably a few more or less.

Gangsters and Strippers will air live January 28th, 2012, 10:30pm-Midnight PST on The Dr. Susan Block Show. Listen FREE at http://tinyurl.com/RadioSUZY1  Call-In Free: 1.866.289.7068.

Watch the LIVE BROADCAST and View All the Pix, Clips and Past Shows at http://tinyurl.com/DrSuzyTV.

Limited audience–reserve now! To join our exclusive live in-studio audience and the after-party at Dr. Suzy’s Speakeasy in the Soul of Downtown LA, call or go to http://tinyurl.com/DrSuzyRSVP .

Proceeds from donations go to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobo chimpanzees from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way of peace through pleasure around the world.

Dr. Block and guests will enjoy sex toys provided by AdultPlayParlor.com, Stockroom and ScreamingO, Condomania condoms, plus a fine art exhibit featuring Anthony Winn’s Stripperella artwork and the classical erotic paintings of Scott Siedman. The Dr. Susan Block Show beverage of choice is Agwa di Bolivia Coca Leaf Liqueur, among the many fine libations featured at the always popular Speakeasy Open Bar and Aphrodisiac Buffet.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education based in LA.  Founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials, the Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure.

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Do you like sexy boots?  Do you lust for a lady in shiny, spike-heeled latex thigh-highs?  Or do you prefer to worship a mistress’ feet in deliciously strong-smelling leather boots?  Maybe you’d prefer a hot master in cowboy boots or tough, scuffed army boots.  Would you rather wear the boots yourself, or do you want to be “forced” to spit-shine those boots and play with them—or let them play with you—in other kinky ways?  Do you ever find yourself going under the sexual spell of a pair of sexy boots?

Whatever your personal interest, fantasy, question or desire, our Boot Fetish Phone Sex Therapists have got “boots on the ground” and we’re here to help you talk about, understand, explore, cope with—and indulge in—your fantasies as well as deal with your reality.  For information, call 626.461.5949

 Perhaps you like a bit of pain with your pleasure.  As Nancy Sinatra sang, “These boots are made for walking, and that’s just what they’ll do. One of these days, these boots are gonna walk all over you!”  Do you like when sexy boots step on you or even kick you when you’re down?   Maybe you just like to rub yourself against the instep, take the heel anally or ride the toe of that sexy boot into boot fetish ecstasy.

To talk to a Boot Fetish Phone Sex Therapist with the Dr. Susan Block Institute right now, call 626.461.5949.

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 Don’t you love the way a pair of fine, silky-smooth nylons accentuates the length and shape of a gorgeous pair of legs ending in a hot set of high heels—or maybe just sexy “stocking feet”? Do you like naughty garters and old-fashioned, back-seamed stockings or lace-trimmed thigh highs? Perhaps you prefer the fuller coverage of classic pantyhose completely encasing legs, crotch and buns in a tight but ever-so-flexible “second skin” of sheer nylon.

 Do you need to talk about your feelings about nylons, stockings or pantyhose?  Call the Block Institute at 626.461.5949.  Several of our telephone sex therapists are experts in this area of fashion and fetish.

 There are so many ways to enjoy the sensual, sartorial magic of fine hosiery…

 Stockings incite our senses of sight, touch and smell.  Maybe you long to worship, touch, stroke, kiss or sniff feminine feet and legs wrapped like presents in silky nylon or teasing fishnets. Or is it the sight of a charmingly round rump peeking out from above a pair of saucy thigh-highs under a short skirt that arouses you?  A pair of sweet, innocent, white knee socks under a school uniform?  Or a slinky catsuit or bodystocking sheathing everything in translucent hosiery?

 Nude, black or multi-colored, pantyhose conceals as it reveals all that is forbidden below the belt.  Perhaps you enjoy the feeling of silky, ultra-sheer pantyhose on your own legs and crotch. Or maybe you just like to play with stockings, wrapping them around your most sensitive body parts for that ineffable, erotic sensation.

 Of course, ladies who like to wear nylons usually have no problem putting them on, showing them off and finding partners with whom to enjoy them.  Most men like ladies in nylons. But what about men who like to wear them?

 That wonderful feeling that so many men get from playing with or wearing “ladies’” hosiery can be tremendously arousing, extremely relaxing or an intensely pleasurable combination of arousal and relaxation.  Maybe you started playing as a child or teenager with your mother’s, sister’s or aunt’s stockings or pantyhose, or perhaps you were inspired by your first girlfriend, a special lover, lingerie catalogue or some other catalyst.

 Do you need to talk about it with someone who “gets” it?  Talking about the source of your feelings for nylons can help you to enjoy them in healthier ways.  It can also be very exciting.  Call our 24-hour Hosiery Help Hotline at 626.461.5949.

 It’s important to talk about this with someone who understands, because in addition to the pleasurable feelings, the stocking or pantyhose lover—or fetishist–may also have feelings of deep anxiety, confusion,  guilt or shame about his nylon desires.

One source of this anxiety lies in the fact that contemporary society considers fine hosiery to be for *women only* to wear.  It hasn’t always been so.  In the 18^th century, many very manly men (like George Washington, Thomas Jefferson and our other Founding Fathers) wore silk stockings and high heels on a regular basis without any fear of being considered effeminate. In the future, hosiery for men might well make a fashion comeback.

But at the moment, society tells men who enjoy wearing stockings and pantyhose that there is something too feminine or just plain *wrong* with them.  Sometimes that makes a man’s hosiery fetish even stronger, spicing up the natural pleasures of sheer nylon with the erotic zing of crossing the threshold of the taboo.

But it can also exacerbate anxiety, guilt and shame.  Many men are so ashamed of their stocking fetish that they feel they can’t or won’t share it with anyone, even their own wives.

 Everyone deserves privacy, especially in that most private of realms, the world of sexual desire.  But keeping strong fetish feelings all to yourself can be very stressful and confusing.  Of course, it can be dangerous to tell people you know, even—or perhaps especially–people who love you.  Talking to an understanding sex therapy professional is usually your best bet.  Call the Block Institute at 626.461.5949.

 We can help you grapple with the important questions.  “Why do I like this so much?“ you may wonder. “Am I a stocking fetishist or pantyhose addict? Can I stop or should I embrace my  fetish?  Does this mean I want to be a woman or just that I like to wear nylons?  Does this mean I want to be with men?  Or do I just want a woman to accept me for me nylon fetish?  Can I share this with someone I love or is this just a private indulgence?”

 Unlike most sex therapists, we can also help you to enjoy the sheer fun of your stocking or pantyhose fetish through fantasy exploration, role-play, guided masturbation, nylon play, stocking shopping therapy and erotic hypnosis.

 Call 626.461.5949, any time, day or night.

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Do you like tickling?  Do you relish tickling a lover until he or she is breathless with laughter and writhing in pain and joy? Or would you rather be tickled, forced to surrender, gasping for mercy, to the wild fingers of a hot lover, until you can’t help but orgasm in ticklish ecstasy?

Our Tickle Fetish Phone Sex Therapists are here to help you talk about, understand, explore, cope with—and indulge in—your tickling fantasies. For information, call 626.461.5949

What’s so special about the teasing, titillating touch of tickling?

Tickling can be a type of “horseplay,” torture, silly sexy fun, deep power exchange, sensual exploration, stimulation or humiliation.  Maybe you like to hold a sexy submissive down, take her by surprise, or tie her up and tickle-torture her until she laughs, shrieks, cries and begs for relief. Or perhaps you’d like to be subdued and tortured with tickles on the most sensitive, ticklish parts of your body.  Whether it’s the tempting curve of a waist, the soft tummy, inviting underarm, flirtatious feet, the vulnerable inner thighs, or the tantalizing nape of the neck, giving up power and being at the mercy of naughty fingers or devious feathers is a kind of physical and mental submission, as well as an intimate display of trust between partners.

 Unfortunately, some people can’t stand being tickled.  Others aren’t ticklish at all, and what fun is that?  Some think tickling is for kids, or they just don’t “get it.”  Naturally, this makes many tickle fetishists rather shy about sharing their fetish with others, fearing rejection or misunderstanding.

Here at the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, we “get it.”
We understand and love to explore the erotic pleasures of tickling.
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Childhood tickle games are usually the first times we experience that crazy “tickle high,” the endorphin-raising ecstasy of pleasure mixed with heightened tension bordering on pain that comes with being tickled, as well as the heady power rush of being the tickler.  Adult tickling can bring back those erotic memories as well as give both tickler and ticklee that wild and free feeling of being a child again (without involving any real-life children, of course).

Tickling has been an aspect of sex since prehistoric times.  Bonobos, dogs, cats and other mammals often tickle each other as they play, sometimes as a kind of foreplay for sex.  The ancient Indian Kama Sutra waxes eloquently about the sexual joys of tickling.   While the Chinese, Japanese and ancient Romans would use tickling as a form of genuine torture, the Victorians appreciated tickling for its erotic capacity; being tied up and tickled to a kind of ticklegasm was an extremely common fantasy, as well as a specialty of the better Victorian bordellos.  Famous tickle-lovers from history include the Egyptian Queen Hatshepsut and Russian Empress Catherine the Great who are said to have enjoyed having their royal feet tickled ritually before and during sex. It’s no wonder that a hot body writhing and wriggling uncontrollably under a barrage of tickles remains a steamy dream for many fetishists.

So…what about you?  Need to talk about ticking?  Want to get important, enlightening insight into your personal tickle fetish or learn how to introduce tickling games to your spouse or potential lover?  Need to work through your fears or shame about tickling?  Or perhaps you would like to experience a phone sex fantasy role-play tickle-torture session—giving or receiving.  Our tickle fetish phone sex therapists have their fingers ready! Call 626.461.5949 right now or anytime you’re ready to tickle or be tickled.

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 Are you thinking about cheating?

Are you currently engaged in a secret sexual affair? Or maybe you’re just curious, seriously considering having extra-marital sex, but it hasn’t happened… yet.  Then again, perhaps you’d never actually do it, but you can’t help fantasizing about it. Or is it the other way around: Do you think your spouse is cheating on you?  How do you feel about it? Devastated? Jealous? Enraged?  Excited? Aroused? Confused? Need to talk about your feelings?  Need help figuring out what to do, if anything?

The telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute understand the thrill and the guilt, the dread and desire, the fantastic excitement and real life repercussions of infidelity, adultery, betrayal, duplicity, cuckoldry and cheating. Let us give you the kind of help you need right now. We’re open 24/7.  Call us now or anytime you need to talk:

Need more information before you call? Keep reading to learn the different ways that “Cheating Phone Sex Therapy” with the Block Institute can help you.

 Are you currently cheating?

Are you now having an affair now and need to talk to someone about it? Are you sexually involved with a friend, co-worker or someone you met online, unbeknownst to your spouse?  Perhaps you’re secretly seeing a “professional,” such as an escort, mistress, masseuse or dominatrix. Are you committed to keeping your marriage (or other serious relationship) going, but driven by this insatiable urge to “cheat”? Is it the irresistible chemistry of your lover? Is it because your spouse will not have sex with you, or at least not in the way you want to have sex?  Or is it the taboo thrill of adultery itself that sexually excites you in ways your marriage alone never does?

Regardless of your reason for cheating, the burden of leading a double life is bound to cause you anxiety. Do you need to talk about it? We at the Block Institute are not here to judge you. We’re here to help. That might mean helping you to better understand and cope with your desire to cheat, whether it’s due to fixable problems with your spouse, your own natural promiscuity or something else. If you want to stop, we can help you to stop cheating. If you don’t, we can help you negotiate your secret life with your more public life. Then again, maybe you just need an understanding, open-minded ear to listen to your story with compassion and empathy. Whatever you need to talk about, we’re here for you.  Call us at 626.461.5949

 Do you think your spouse is cheating on you?

Are you suspicious that your spouse is having an affair? Are you wondering if the rumors of infidelity are true? Need help trying to determine if your suspicions are valid?  Are you unsure of the next step to take and want a plan of action? Your sense of betrayal, hurt, rage, excitement and confusion can be so overwhelming that it feels impossible to think, let alone act rationally. Experiencing a wide range of feelings–from fear to envy, anger to arousal, sadness to relief, aggression to depression, rage to lust–is entirely natural. If you need help dealing with these conflicted feelings, or figuring out what’s really going on and/or deciding what to do about your suspected cheating spouse, the telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute are here to help.  Call us at 626.461.5949

Are you considering having an affair?

Are you seriously thinking about looking outside your marriage for something you feel is missing: the thrill of sex with someone new? Are you desperately yearning for the kind of sex you can’t have with your spouse? Do you troll Ashley Madison, escorting websites or your Facebook friend list, on the verge of getting into an extramarital affair? Do you need to weigh the pros and cons of cheating with an experienced expert who won’t judge you, but will help you make some important decisions about your sex life? Of course, society frowns upon cheating—and for many good reasons. But sometimes having an affair is the “right” thing to do for various reasons, one of which might be that your sinking sex life is in serious need of a lifeboat. Sometimes, oddly enough, it can even save your marriage. Then again, maybe you’re open to the idea of re-igniting the spark in your marriage. Dr. Block is an expert at “making marriage feel like an affair.”  Whatever your personal concerns and desires are, if you are considering having an affair—or not—we can help.  Call us anytime you need to talk at 626.461.5949

 Do you fantasize about cheating?

Do you dream of having an affair, but want to steer clear of cheating in real life?  Does the fantasy of hot-blooded adultery turn you on, even though you’re pretty sure the reality of doing it would turn your stomach, not to mention destroy your marriage? Do you think about having hot sex with people other than your spouse when you make love or masturbate?  Fantasizing is not actually cheating, of course, but it can feel almost as exciting as cheating–and it’s a whole lot safer.

Have you ever used phone sex to role-play adulterous fantasies? Would you like to try?  Phone sex fantasy roleplay is an effective, exciting, discreet way to enjoy many of the erotic thrills of an affair without actually “having” one.  Phone sex is a relatively prudent expression of what Nathaniel Hawthorne called “lawless passion.” If you’re going to have an affair, it’s better (and safer) to do it on the phone than in the flesh. At least, you won’t get an STD. And at best, you’ll get inspiration and ideas to improve your love life with your spouse without entangling your body, not to mention your body fluids, with somebody else’s. In any case, you won’t get lipstick on your zipper, or semen on your dress.

The relative safety of phone sex often involves deeper, more complex feelings than concern over STDs. The phone is a stage upon which you can act out your wildest fantasies, a telephonic erotic “Theatre of the Mind” that allows you to safely explore dangerous, taboo desires. Whatever the nature of your adulterous fantasy, we’re here to help you to express it, enjoy, contain  and deal with it in as positive a way as possible with the least danger to your marriage, work, family or any aspect of your “real life.”

Is phone sex cheating?  Not inherently. Though if you keep your phone sex a secret from your partner, you feel like you’re cheating, and if you feel like you’re cheating, you probably are. But if you feel compelled to embark upon an affair, and you want to keep things as safe as possible, better to share your lawless passion chaperoned by your telephone.  For phone sex fantasy roleplay, call us anytime at 626.461.5949

 Do you fantasize about your wife—or future wife—cheating on you?

It goes against conventional wisdom that a married man–or even a divorced or single man—would be excited by the fantasy of his wife—or future wife, girlfriend or ex–cheating by “cuckolding” him.  But this type of cuckold fantasy is a lot more common than you might realize, and it is one of the areas in which the telephone sex therapists of the Block Institute specialize. So if you find yourself aroused by cuckold fantasies like this, rest assured you’re not alone.

Besides being about your wife having an affair with another man, this type of cuckold fantasy can be loving or wild, sensuous or kinky, or a combination.  It may involve domination, voyeurism, bisexuality, humiliation, interracial sex, feminization, penis size fetishes, striptease, bondage, teasing, oral, anal and many other types of sex that certainly do “spice up” that sacred marital bond—even if you never do any of it in real life. For more information about your cuckolding or hotwifing desires, see Dr. Block’s article on “sperm wars.”

Whether or not you act on these desires, it’s always a good idea to talk about them to someone knowledgeable.  Dr. Block can help you to understand your feelings in order to determine what you might want to “act out,” and what is better kept in the realm of fantasy. Sometimes you just want to leave reality for the moment and enter the magical erotic world of fantasy roleplay, and you can do that with Dr. Block or one of our cuckold phone sex therapists.

And yes, of course, you can masturbate (if you want), during sessions.  And no, there is no other phone sex or sex therapy service quite like ours.

Call us anytime at 626.461.5949.

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Have you been thinking about group sex? Do you dream of casting all rigid social boundaries aside and indulging in the orgiastic hedonism of a threesome, multiple partners, a swing party, a pansexual celebration, a polyamorous arrangement or a full-on orgy?

Perhaps you already enjoy the pleasures of sex with more than one partner at one time, but you need to talk about your experiences with someone open-minded, knowledgeable and discreet. Maybe you’re considering group sex or the swinging “lifestyle,” and you need to sort out the pros and cons.  Then again, you might believe that multiple partners, free love and orgies are best left in the realm of the imagination, but you’d love to share the fantasy with someone who understands, or maybe even more than one someone at one time; after all, we are talking about group phone sex therapy.

Do you want to make your group sex fantasies come true, at least partially? Do you need to talk about orgies, swinging, “designer relationships,” open marriage, polyamory, communal ecstasy?  Want to know the ins and outs of threesomes, foursomes, and more-somes? Need advice on how to bring these exciting but touchy subjects up to your spouse?  Would you like to experience group phone sex therapy?  Call the Block Institute at 626.461.5949.

Several of our telephone sex therapists are experts in group sex, polyamory, swinging and our world-renowned philosophy of ethical hedonism.  Group sex might sound very kinky for some, but it fulfills a very natural, human need to share erotic, orgasmic, loving experiences with multiple people, friends, loved ones and attractive strangers.  In a world that increasingly demands compartmentalization and isolation, there are few arenas left in which humans can share in this vital, life-affirming experience of communal ecstasy.

 Most of us are expected to meet all our sexual and erotic needs within one relationship, usually a marriage, that is supposed to last our entire adult lives.  Our sexual experiences are expected to be always private, “just the two of us,” usually in a locked bedroom, often in the dark.  There’s nothing wrong with that; in fact, private couple sex with someone you love is probably the most intimate, meaningful kind of sex there is.  But there is something very special and truly wonderful about the “collective joy” (with apologies to Barbara Ehrenreich) of group sex that partner sex simply cannot duplicate.

Many anthropologists agree that prehistoric humans often engaged in various forms of group sex–just as our closest genetic cousins, the bonobos, do–for tens of thousands of years before the advent of farming and “civilization” started pressuring people, especially women, to be sexually monogamous.

Just because human society changed and started trying to squeeze the square peg of our true polyamorous, orgiastic sexual nature into the round hole of traditional marriage and monogamy doesn’t mean human beings changed.  We are still inherently nonmonogamous, or even what Sex at Dawn authors Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethas, as well as sexpert Dan Savage, call “promiscuous.”  Some of us can “control” our desires for multiple partners and group sex experience better than others.

 Of course, despite society’s sanctions against it, some people have always found ways to enjoy various forms of group sex.  The famously decadent orgies of ancient Rome come to mind.  In the 18^th century, during the period known as The Enlightenment, European intellectuals commonly took pleasure in the delights of partner-swapping—including the proudly promiscuous and ingenious Mary Shelley, author of the classic Frankenstein. Of course, “cheating” has always been a popular option for those who can manage double lives, though often at great risk to the cheaters’ marriages and even their lives.  Swinging rose in popularity in the U.S. during World War II with the “Key Club” parties where married men would leave their house keys in a basket so that other men at the party could enter their homes and have sex with their wives.

As a result of the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 70s, and an increasing openness to nontraditional forms of sexual expression, swinging and other forms of group sex have become increasingly common in America and around the world.  Yet a cultural distrust of group sex still exists, and in many areas of society–especially those that are religious, conservative or very “politically correct”–this distrust and disapproval of any kind of erotic expression that goes beyond the married couple has risen and intensified.  Many normal, sexual people who have a basic human yearning for communal ecstasy are afraid to indulge in it, and even too ashamed to talk about it with their partners.  The repression of these natural desires can put the individual—and the marriage itself–under tremendous toxic stress.

What you do is up to you, of course.  But it always helps to talk about your feelings with someone who understands, someone you can trust with your secrets and desires.  The Block Institute offers conventional sex therapy as well as the opportunity to roleplay a group sex fantasy you may have over the phone through simulated swinging, guided masturbation or erotic hypnosis. Your group sex fantasy may involve orgies, threesomes, fetish play, bisexual activity, cuckolding, domination and submission,breaking taboos,or any number of other forms of erotic adventure.  You can even speak to multiple therapists at one time for group phone sex therapy. As always, your telephone sex therapy call is completely private and confidential.

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Addictions. Gotta love ’em. Gotta hate ’em too, sometimes. But first, we gotta love ’em, or we wouldn’t have ’em in the first place. Addictions are the spices of our lives. Of course, too much spice spoils the enchilada. But without a little salsa, it’s all just beans and dead meat.

Granted, addiction can certainly be a destructive force, wreaking havoc on your world, but it can also be the source of tremendous creative energy in human life. Sometimes, the only way to truly master something is to become passionately, obsessively addicted to it. Without the driving vigor of our addictions, we surrender to mediocrity, bureaucracy, and (shudder) mere functionality. The world’s greatest artists, many of our greatest statesmen, certainly our greatest lovers, and even some of our greatest scientists have been notoriously addictive personalities, all living and dying in overheated pursuits of pleasure, power, knowledge and love.

Our addictions give us a taste of paradise. It may be a temporary paradise, and it may be an artificial paradise, a dangerous, even doomed paradise, but the pursuit of paradise, ecstasy, bliss, nirvana, heaven-on-earth – also known as “the pursuit of happiness,” as written into the U.S. Declaration of Independence – is one of the great natural drives of humanity, maybe even of all so-called intelligent life on earth.

The Seven Deadly Addictions

Everybody’s addicted to something, even if it’s the philosophy of not getting addicted to anything. Some of us channel our addictive drives into stuff that society deems safe or constructive. For instance, work is a socially acceptable addiction, even though the heroes of our culture, the work-driven businessmen and traders, are more likely to die young of a heart attack (or jump out the window when the stocks crash) than the pot-smoking slackers among us. Shopping is another socially sanctioned narcotic, until all your credit cards are maxed out, and suddenly your favorite shopping outlets stop loving you back. Then there are prescription drugs, an all-American addiction with soothing celebrity-studded ads to make those mysterious little pills easier to swallow, and you don’t even have to worry about your credit cards if you’ve got the right insurance.

Other addictions are not generally treated with such compassion. Some are vilified and punished severely. The fact that you can be locked up and tortured for decades within the humongous U.S. prison system (a growth industry which thrives on addiction), over simply indulging your addiction to an “illegal substance” is bad enough. But it goes beyond questions of legality. Indeed, the very idea of addiction has assumed that mortifying place in our hearts and minds that a sense of sin used to occupy. To be a “sinner” is now cool, like sporting tattoos or playing in a band. Nobody’s ashamed to be a sinner anymore. But an addict? To be an addict is to be what a sinner used to be: weak, despised, disgraced and diseased. The concept of Original Sin is almost meaningless to the modern mind. But the Addictive Personality? We can all relate to that.

So, the Seven Deadly Sins have given way to the Seven Deadly Addictions: Alcoholism, Drug Addiction, Food Obsessions, Workaholism and Gambling Mania are the first five. I’d put Exercise Junkies into the category of Workaholism. After all, an obsession with working out is just a variation on overworking. I’d place Stock Trading and my own personal addiction to playing the CPCs on Google Adwords under Gambling Mania.

Love Junkies

Then there’s #6: Love Addiction. This one’s a mass attacker. Excepting the occasional sociopathic loner, everybody gets it. What normal, people-oriented person has not suffered from the deep, sweet agony and ecstasy of codependent love addiction? Since being identified as a disease, “codependency” has spread like the flu, because who can’t relate to the symptoms, who hasn’t yearned to hold and be held, to care and be cared for, to depend on someone who depends on you? Isn’t that what sharing your life is all about? Not according to many self-proclaimed gurus with troubled pasts who tell us we must–at any cost–break our addictions and squash our dependencies on the people who mean the most to us.

Constant avoidance of codependency leads to “addiction to perfection,” a phrase coined by Marion Woodman to describe chronic fear of involvement with others, a far more debilitating affliction than lovesickness. Of course, the experience of being in love can have negative consequences, ranging from separation anxiety to murder, if a toxic combination of character and circumstances comes into play. But codependency itself is not “dysfunctional.” There’s nothing wrong with being Addicted to Love. Just don’t get addicted to loving a jerk.

If you find yourself getting involved with jerk after jerk after jerk, okay, you win the prize label of “Love Junkie,” and would probably benefit from therapy, if for no other reason than the fact that a therapist will give you that full-focused attention you crave. That longing for attention is the very thing that keeps sending you head first into the arms of jerks in the first place! But if your paramour is a paragon, or at least a non -jerk, then why not give it all you’ve got? As the 18th century French playwright P.A.C. de Beaumarchais said long before there were Women Who Love Too Much, “Where love is concerned, too much is not even enough.”

And yes, you could make a mistake. You could find yourself deeply involved or addicted to someone or something that’s really hurting you. Then you must make the Herculean effort to extricate yourself from your many-pronged addiction as from the jaws of a many-headed hydra. If you defeat the hydra, you’ll be a hero. If the hydra defeats you, well…it happens to the best of us.

Why is it so tough to leave a jerk? Because being in love is like being on drugs. Hard drugs. True love, or even deluded love, is a natural high far finer and smoother than anything you could inject, smoke, snort, drink or swallow. Of course, love isn’t something you can pick up at the pharmacy or even on the black market. You can’t really even “find love.” Love finds you. It strikes you like a mystical gift from God, an arrow from Eros, or a practical joke from tricky, fickle old hot Mama Nature, the Original Drug Dealer.

The first Love Drug Stew that Mama stirs up is a fricassee of powerful chemicals: dopamine, norepinephrine, phenylethylamine (PEA) and other natural cousins of amphetamines, stimulants and painkillers that flow through your bloodstream and permeate your cells, creating a place within you where hormones meet holiness, angels dance, and the city never sleeps. This “hot love” eventually dies down, leading many to wonder: Where has the love gone? But often, the sizzling heat gives way to “warm love,” when opiate-like endorphins and sweet-feeling oxytocin flow in, sensitizing your nerves, stimulating muscle contraction, enhancing orgasm and making cuddling feel absolutely divine, bringing on that nice, warm sense of well-being you get when you’re really comfortable with someone. The thing about Warm Love is that, unlike Hot Love, it can last forever. In fact, it’s quite habit-forming. This is why breaking up is so hard to do. Even when you know someone is wrong for you, and you should move on, it often feels like you can’t. Why? Because you’re chemically addicted. Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on the wrong partner, can be tougher to quit than heroin. Sometimes you need a therapist, a whole support group or just a really good friend to help you kick the habit.

But if you’re with the right person, the cozy codependent compounds that concoct Warm Love create a “good addiction,” helping to keep you happy together long after your Hot Love peaks have petered out. Warm Love chemicals aren’t just a high; they’re a health benefit, naturally strengthening your heart and immune system, as well as your relationship.

Sex Addiction

Last but not at all least, we come to #7 of the newly revised Seven Deadly Sins, the deadliest, most demonized and glamorized sin of the pack: Sex Addiction.

Just about every horny person who calls me for sex therapy these days – male or female – asks me if I think they’re a “sex addict.” Often they come up with the notion they suffer from “sex addiction” while researching their favorite fetish online. All roads lead to Rome, and almost all sexual or fetishistic search words eventually take the seeker to articles deploring an interest in that fetish as a form of sex addiction. Then again, perhaps someone they know has called them a “sex addict” in a fit of righteous exasperation. Or maybe they identify with certain sexy but star-crossed superstars like David Duchovny, Charlie Sheen, Tiger Woods or Kanye West, or powerful former Presidents like Bill Clinton and John F. Kennedy, all of whom have been branded by the media and various “experts” with this most exciting, perverse, shame-riddled and downright sinful of labels. Then again, they might just be intoxicated by the idea of being utterly out of control, ruled by their libidinous desires, or by a seductress who takes advantage of their vulnerable, addictive sensibilities. Yes, the modern Scarlet Letter doesn’t stand for simple Adultery anymore, but for Addiction—Sex Addiction.

But what exactly is sex addiction? Is it even possible to come up with a definition that all the so-called experts can agree on? Probably not. According to some sex addiction specialists, an interest in any type of sex other than married-monogamous-missionary-position-sex-with-the-lights-off could qualify you. So, if you masturbate regularly, enjoy pornography, have an affair, go to swing parties, dance in strip clubs, like phone sex, see a dominatrix, work as a dominatrix, wear panties under your clothes (if you’re a guy) or over your clothes (if you’re a gal), own more than three pairs of stiletto heels (if you’re a guy or a gal) or if you fantasize about anyone or anything other than your beloved, you are at risk of being branded a sex addict. I guess if you host a show about sex in a bed wearing lingerie surrounded by dildos under a giant photo of a bonobo chimpanzee, you might as well have “Sex Addict” tattooed across your cleavage.

Not that sex addiction is just a joke.  But is it a real disease?  It is not an official psychiatric disorder, so the science isn’t there to back it up, and it doesn’t look like it ever will be.  Nevertheless, the people who call themselves or their loved ones “sex addicts” are usually experiencing real problems, and what we call “sex addiction” can involve very serious, complicated, deep-seated issues best treated with highly focused therapy. What we call “sex addiction” can take a variety of forms and can involve any sexual practice. It’s not the activity that makes the so-called addict, it’s the attitude:  compulsively engaging in unwanted behaviors that make his or her life unmanageable. The “unmanageable” part is the key, because we all, on occasion, have bad sex or do sexual things we’re not so proud of. Unmanageability could involve anything from failing college exams because Internet porn overtook studying, to spending the family savings on a blackmailing dominatrix, to engaging in bareback sex in public restrooms while your wife and kids sit at the dinner table watching the roast get cold. Someone who identifies with the label “sex addict” feels out of control.  He or she is not, in fact, as powerless as he or she feels.  Yet, he or she may wish to stop the unwanted behavior, yet repeatedly fails to do so, often ruining relationships and experiencing job loss, financial troubles, sickness, arrest, accidents, guilt, shame, low self-esteem, impotency and despair.

Sounds pretty bleak, but if you want to change, you can.  Whether you believe in the validity of the “sex addict” label or not, the first step is usually admitting that you have a problem and deciding that you want to make a change. The next step is reaching out for help, which can take many different forms. You might benefit from talking to a therapist who can help you understand the problem and put you on a program for positive change. You could join a group that can help you to voice those thoughts and feelings you’ve only been able to express through negative sex-addictive behaviors, and ultimately support your efforts to change for the better. You might be able to use a friend as a sounding board, though friends tend to have their own agendas in mind for you. Books, art and even snarky self-help advocates (who often quote the great thinkers of history, even if they personally have nothing original to say) can also be helpful when you want to tame the wild beasts of an obsessive-compulsive libido. Churches, synagogues, mosques, temples and other religious institutions can also assist certain types of addicts, though they generally have a very specific religious agenda, and have been known to commit religious sexual abuse upon their congregants.

Though sex in general can be a real problem for many of us, much of what is solemnly or sensationally labeled “sex addiction” is just normal erotic angst, sexual experimentation, fetishistic fun and relationship troubles. Ironically, these days, many people seem to grab the term like a designer label on sale, because even though it’s embarrassing and demeaning, calling yourself a “sex addict” is, well, sexy. Some long to wear a glittering Scarlet Letter “A” for Addict on their breast, and seem disappointed when I say “um, just because you masturbate three times a week does not make you a sex addict.” More and more people seem to like the idea of being sex addicts with no ability to control their prodigious desires. It’s become something of a fad, or at least a trend. Normal healthy people with sex problems, frustration, fetishes, questions and fantasies do often benefit from sex therapy and fantasy roleplay. But they don’t require the intensive treatment the true addict needs.

Treatment for addiction can be as hazardous to humanity as the addiction itself. Just look at the murders committed on antidepressants, the innocents thrown into prison for nothing more than smoking a joint, the decent people branded as sex addicts, dysfunctional or even criminal just because they pursue unusual, albeit consensual sex practices. Addiction can be awful. But far worse than a society that harbors a few crazed addicts is one that reduces our sexuality – or the rest of our lives – to merely being functional.

~Susan M Block, Ph.D.

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Exploring Your Erotic Fantasies
How to Find the Lover of Your Dreams
Understanding Your Partner’s Fantasies
Dealing with Your Fears and Desires
How to Express Your Erotic Nature
How to Explore Your Sexual Fetish Erotically and Safely
How to Share Your Fantasies with Your Partner
How to Liberate Your Inner Bonobo

Childhood Influences on Your Sexuality
Relationships and Sex
Families and Sex
Work and Sex
Politics and Sex
Money and Sex
Religion and Sex
Art and Sex
Cuckold Therapy

Sperm Wars
Trust Issues
Sexual Wellness
Religious Sexual Abuse
How to Channel Erotic Inspiration
How to Get What You Want In Sex, Love, Life and Death
Orgasmic Fulfillment
Orgasm Difficulties
Masturbation Issues

Masturbation Technique
Mutual Masturbation
Safe Sex in Dan gerous Situations
Ejaculation Control
Erectile Dif ficulties
“Sex Addiction”
Body Image Issues
Shyness
Exploring the Clitoris

Low Sexual Desire
Dealing with Your Partner’s Low Sexual Desire
Penis Size Concerns
Enhancement of Arousal
Virginity Issues
Exploring Pain/Pleasure Dynamics
How to Find the Erotic Elements in Everyday Life
Understanding sexual Illness and Injury
Sex and Physical Handicaps

Trying “The Lifestyle” (Learning to Swing)
How to Increase the Passion in Your Marriage
Understanding
Eros and Thanatos
How to Develop Your Sexual Communication Skills
How to Give Great Oral Sex
What You Should Know About Dominatrixes
What You Should Know About Prostitutes
How to Seduce the Lover of Your Dreams

How to Lose Your Virginity
“Premature” Ejaculation
Different Sexual Positions for Different Pleasures
Sexual Anatomy Lesson
How to Deal with Extra-Marital Affairs
(Your Own or Your Partner’s)
How to Explore Your Feminine Side
How to Explore Your Masculine Side
Using Your Sexuality to Enhance Your Creativity

Why Women Should Explore Phone Sex
How to Explore Your Submissive Side
How to Explore Your Dominant Side
How to Find a Woman’s G-Spot
How to Find a Man’s P-Spot
How to Female Ejaculate
How to Help Your Partner Experience Female Ejaculation
Tantric Sex Techniques
Pornography Issues

How to Meet Mr. or Ms. Right
How to Deal with Your Sexual Feelings toward
Your Mother, Father, Sister, Brother, Children,
Next-Door-Neighbor, Co-Worker, Boss, Employee,
Student, Teacher, Sister-in-Law, Brother-in-Law,
Cousin, Aunt, Uncle or Other Inappropriate
Object of Your Desire
How to Recover from Incest Trauma
How to Recover from Rape, Molestation

and Other Negative Sexual Experiences
How to Use Sex Toys
How to Explore the Loss of Control
Sex and the Stock Market
Holiday Blues/Holiday Sex
How to Break Away from a Toxic Lover
How to Forget a Lost Love
Advertising for Love in the Classifieds and on the Internet
Gender Issues

Sex and Age
Bisexuality
Sex and Drugs
Sex and Anti-Depressants
Sex and Aphrodisiacs
Dressing for Sex
Undressing for Sex
Sexercise for Sexual Health
Circumcision Issues

How to Conquer Your Sexual Phobias
Finding the Pleasure in Your Life
How to Share Sex Toys with Your Partner
Sexual Meditation
Erotic Relaxation Techniques
How to be an Ethical Hedonist
How to Practice the Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure

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