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 Ah, the Golden Water of Life, water that flows freely, shoots majestically and trickles daintily, sun-colored waters that sparkle in the light, tinkle in the porcelain bowl and melt in the mouth of the thirsty connoisseur. Water that heals, arouses, disgusts, excites, offends and humiliates. Water that can feel truly orgasmic in its release, especially after you’ve held it in a little while.

We all do it, and yet it is something special and secretive, something we almost always do in private. We do it in a closet, in a stall, in a sanctuary or behind a tree.  Some say it’s just waste. Others long to take a taste.

But what do we call it? “Peeing” sounds childish, but “pissing” is rather crude. “Taking a whiz” is so casual, but “urophilia,” “urolagnia” and even “urination” are so coldly clinical. Kinky terms are more playful: “Golden Showers,” “Water Sports,” “Wetting,” “Sprinkles.” Then there are more the elegant phrases, like “Sexual Champagne” and “Water of Life.” To differentiate it from its cousin,  Female Ejaculation (Holy Water), we sometimes call it the Golden Water of Life.

Whatever you call it, if you need to talk about it, you can talk to us….
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Unlike squirting, peeing is not at all esoteric. Everybody does it. There is no special technique to learn except, perhaps, how to relax so you can piss in front of, or on someone. And, of course, it’s nothing “new.” People have been looking at, touching and drinking urine (uraphagia)  probably for almost as long as people have been urinating. Urine has proven healing properties. The yellower your nectar, the more vitamins reside within it. Yogis and other health nuts drink a glass of their own “juice” every morning for that extra vitamin-rich boost. And no less of an authority than Madonna has confirmed that peeing on the feet heals athlete’s foot.

Yet there is tremendous, almost phobic misunderstanding about the essentially healthy, happy hobby of piss play.  With such a cultural stigma against this natural form of pleasure, introducing your golden shower fetish to a new lover, or even a regular partner, can be a daunting task.  Fortunately, here at the Block Institute, we offer private, confidential phone sex therapy for those who love golden showers to safely and nonjudgementally discuss their fantasies and real life situations.

Need to Talk About Golden Showers? Want to learn how to safely incorporate water sports into your sex life?  Would you like to better understand where your erotic interest in urination came from? Want to role-play a Golden Shower Fantasy–whether you’d like to pee or be peed on? Call us now or anytime 24/7. We’re here for you. 213.291.9497

Are you aroused by your lover baptizing you in golden nectar, peeing all over your genitals, your chest or directly into your mouth?

You may or may not enjoy the actual taste of the urine. If you have submissive tendencies, you may not like the taste at all, but you crave the humiliation of being pissed on or “forced” to imbibe by a beautiful, powerful mistress or strong, well-hung master. One avid male pee drinker describes the thrill of “empowering women” as his main reason for allowing himself to be completely subjugated by inviting a woman’s sacred sprinkles into his mouth.  Some golden shower fetishists revel in the degradation of being drenched by a Dom’s piss or made to swallow it like a human toilet.

Then again, maybe you don’t find receiving a golden shower to be degrading at all; you just enjoy the warm wet intimacy of sharing your lover’s living waters. Of course, sex itself is fluid-intensive; it’s full of warm wetness that is shared intimately, swapped and savored. Golden shower lovers can enjoy the sexual closeness that wetness suggests with added power play and copiously flowing fluid. Some like the taboo nature of indulging in the Yellow Peril, the rush of playing with what most authorities tell you never to touch or taste. Some feel it is an elixir of health and sensuality, others a symbol of enticing shame and mystery.

Do you like to watch others pee?  Perhaps, like the famous British sexologist Havelock Ellis, you are a Golden Shower Voyeur who enjoys catching a glimpse of someone sexy engaged in this ever-so-natural yet publicly forbidden act.

Do you enjoy that feeling of urination desperation when you urgently need to pee, but you’re not allowed…yet?  Do you like to watch someone else going experiencing urination desperation, then finally releasing right before your eyes, or onto your hand?

If you’re a Golden Shower Exhibitionist, then you like to pee in front of people, or on people, or into their mouths, or into a flute for them to drink like champagne, or to release your golden juice like a rocket shooting off into space, preferably in front of an appreciative audience. Or maybe you just enjoy the power of dominating your partner with the gushing power of your piss.

What about the tinkle? Everyone knows that listening to someone pee often makes you feel like peeing.  It can also get you excited.  Some Golden Shower Fetishists get extremely aroused by the mellifluous sound of that telltale tinkle, which can be especially delightful during phone sex. If you’re wearing earphones, it can seem like your lover, mistress or the phone sex operator is actually piddling all over your head.

Want to Listen to the Tinkle Now? Our golden shower phone sex therapists are “holding it” for you…. Call 213.291.9497

Some peeing fetishists enjoy “peeing themselves,” “bed wetting,” “panty wetting,” or being “made” to pee by a dominant partner, sometimes while in panties or adult diapers.  This may involve various forms of erotic fantasy role-play and infantilism, most commonly when a mistress plays the role of a nurse, mother or governess to the submissive who acts like a helpless “child” who can’t help but “mess” his or her panties or diapers. Do you like that liberating, warm, wet, forbidden sensation when you can’t hold back anymore, and the pee fills up your diaper, stains your pants or trickles down your leg?

There many different kinds of water sports, fantasies and activities, not all of which appeal to all peeing fetishists.  But whatever your golden desires, questions, cravings, problems or pleasures, you can share them with the telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute. Call Us When You Need to Talk: 213.291.9497