Internationally renowned sexologist and sex therapist Dr. Susan Block counsels “Lauren” about her “How to Orgasm with Your Husband” in this clip.

Questions answered include: Why is it that so many women can climax with ease through solo sex, but not via intercourse with their partners? How can you integrate masturbation into lovemaking? How do you stop worrying about what society or your parents might think of you masturbating? Why do we often hold our breath during sex? How does breathing deeply *into* your pelvis help you to experience orgasm? How do kegel or pubococcygeus (PC muscle) exercises help you to experience orgasm? Why is it easier for most women to experience orgasm from clitoral stimulation than vaginal penetration? Why is the clitoris called the “pearl of the oyster”?  What are “eargasms,” “toegasms,” and “nipplegasms”? Why is the clitoris involved in almost any female genital orgasm?

Other subjects of discussion include fear of losing control; being patient with yourself and taking the time that you need, masturbation embarrassment; sex as an art form, sex as a spiritual practice and sex as a team sport; “achieving” vs. experiencing orgasm; squeezing and releasing the pubococcygeus (kegel) muscles; why the idea that an orgasm from just penetration is somehow better than a clitoral orgasm just an “Old Husband’s Tale”; the importance of lubrication and cunnilingus for female orgasm;

“How to Orgasm with Your Husband” is a vintage clip from the “SEX CALLS” broadcast archives of The Dr. Susan Block Show (circa 1998). This is NOT a call with actual therapy clients; those are absolutely private and confidential. This is a caller on Dr. Block’s Saturday night live show. For more information, call us at 626.461.5950. For current shows and other events, visit us at http://drsusanblock.com.

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