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Secret Orgies

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Should Jessica Open Up to Her Next BF about Her Sex Soirées or Lead a Double Life?

 

by Dr. Susan Block

Jessica calls into DrSuzy.Tv with the quintessential “lifestyle” issue.

“I’ve had a couple of orgies,” she explains. Wow, 26-years-old and quite the sex party hostess!

The problem, Jessica continues, is that every time she tells a new boyfriend about the orgies, he breaks up with her.

So, she asks me, should she keep her orgiastic exploits a “secret” or find someone who will accept this somewhat taboo part of her?

To Tell or Not to Tell…

That is the question! As I see it, Jessica needs to choose between two schools of sexual adventurism, the European and the American, which break down – more or less – like this:

1) The European Way: You lead a double life and keep your extracurricular secret from your significant other. This is sometimes referred to as cheating, but with the caveat that you will do your utmost to ensure that your partner will never be confronted with the truth.  If and when they are, all bets are off. That’s the downside of doing it Euro-style; learning the truth of your partner’s lust can destroy your trust.

2) The American Way: You’re honest about your sexuality, even if it means alienating a potential partner. This might involve engaging in the extracurricular sex with them or just being open about it, even if they don’t join in. I realize that honesty isn’t all that “American” – at least not in politics – but this is how many kinky sex experts differentiate stealthy sex parties (Euro) from honest orgies (USA).

There are probably Asian and African Ways as well, but these seem to break down the basic choices open to Jessica’s conundrum.

Though I choose the “American Way” for myself and generally recommend it to others, I understand and even respect the European “double” lifestyle, despite its inherent dangers. Regardless of the way we choose to mix the flavors of our sex lives with the palate of our day to day, there will always be benefits and pitfalls.

To help her make her own choice, I ask Jessica: Are you the kind of person who likes to share what’s going on in your life with the person you love?

What do you think Jessica says? What way does she choose – European or American? Watch and find out!

“Secret Orgies” is a vintage clip from the “SEX CALLS” broadcast archives of The Dr. Susan Block Show (circa 1998) broadcast live from Dr. Suzy’s Speakasy at the Villa Piacere in the Hollywood Hills. This is NOT a call with actual therapy clients; those are absolutely private and confidential. This is a caller on one of my Saturday night live shows. For more information, call us at 626.461.5950. For shows and other events, visit us at http://drsusanblock.com.

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“POLY on WRY” this Saturday on DrSuzy.Tv with Wry, Wicked & Nova!

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This Saturday night, August 22nd,  The Dr. Susan Block Show will explore polyamory, open relationships and other non-conventional sexual arrangements. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block live in-studio will be popular non-monogamy and alt relationship educator Wry Mantione and his multi-talented “girlfriends,” concert violinist Wicked (who will play for us!) and sideshow performer Nova Lux (specializing in fire-eating, glass-walking and whipped cream wrestling!)along with DrSuzy.Tv show producer Biz Bonobo, Institute therapists Chelsea Demoiselle, Aaliyah Corsets, Jack Nice, Del Rey, and Snake Eve in the Bonoboville Garden of Eden.

POLY on WRYwill broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, August 22nd, 2015, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville.com. Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 626.461.5950. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv . Chat live in the Bonoboville.com Studio.

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Wry, Wicked and Nova will give a talk at Stockroom Saturday, August 29th, 2-5 pm.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

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