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M Month Climax & Pride Live This Saturday Night on The Dr. Susan Block Show

This Saturday night, May 26th, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show talks sex, politics, art, & more with performances both erotic and musical. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block. and her husband Capt’n Max are sex worker, activist, and online organizer Liara Roux, gay pornstar Jesse Prather, nude wrestler Mistress Kara, newbie pornstar Chloe Jay, genderfluid kinkster Chynna Doll, comedian Anthony Davis, and sensual mind, body, and soul healer Shana Lay. Plus, Dr. Suzy’s sexy nympho assistant Phoenix Dawn and Bonoboville’s star hip-hop artist Ikkor the Wolf.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“M-Month Climax & Pride” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, May 26th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. 

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Enjoy a BONOBO SPRING

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Post-DomCon Recovery Show this Saturday Night Live from Bonoboville on the Dr. Susan Block Show

This Saturday night, May 19th, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show is back after taking a wild and eventful break for DomCon. We’re kicking it back in gear with erotic performances, discussions on art and politics, live music, and as always unpredictable surprises. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block. and her husband Capt’n Max are sexpert and Playboy TV host Lola Bastinado, fit and funny Pornstar/Comedian Silvia Saige, Camgirl and Pornstarlet Lexi Mansfield, Dr. Suzy’s sexy and raunchy assistant Phoenix Dawn, and Bonoboville’s star hip-hop artist Ikkor the Wolf.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“Post-DomCon Recovery Show” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, May 19th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Enjoy a BONOBO SPRING

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Celebrate Phoenix’s Bday & Get Set for Masturbation Month this Saturday Night Live from Bonoboville on the Dr. Susan Block Show

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This Saturday night, April 28th, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show will get set for the merry Masturbation Month of May with jack ‘n’ jill-off tips and demos, plus more sex, sex toys, art, politics, live music, a birthday and the Bonobo Way. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block. Capt’n Max and the Birthday Girl, Dr. Suzy’s sexy assistant Phoenix Dawn, will be hot new porn star Lexi Lore & BF Bryan Jameson, professional nude wrestler Mistress Kara & her partners Jack Friday & Surka Noelle, the always kinky GasMaskGirl Lettisia and sultry singers Jezebel Sweet, Elena Rayne, Ikkor the Wolf plus who-knows-what sexy surprises.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“Phoenix’s Bday & Masturbation Month Kick-Off” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, April 28th, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Get Set for a BONOBO SPRING

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Domcon Bound, 4/20, Earth Day + More this Saturday Night Live from Bonoboville on the Dr. Susan Block Show

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This Saturday night, April 21st, 2018, The Dr. Susan Block Show mixes sex, art, politics, 4/20, Earth Day, BDSM and the Bonobo Way. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be the founder and director of DomconMistress Cyan, along with Domcon Opening Night Hostess and Pro-Domme Goddess Phoenix, & Lady Remedy Ann; plus 2017’s “Most Bonobo Couple,” Daniele Watts, Chef Be*Live, + kinkster/artist Zivu A’balam; with porn star Alix Lovell, musician/artist Innocent Mind, & Bonoboville’s photographer extraordinaire (who shot the main photo in the banner above), Jux Lii, celebrating his birthday & 4/20 After-Party with bluntmaster Ikkor the Wolf,  Dr. Suzy’s fabulous assistant, Phoenix Dawn,  and (as always) unpredictable surprises.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“Domcon Bound” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, April 21st, 2018, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions to @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

Get Set for a BONOBO SPRING

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Bedroom Bondage this Saturday Night on DrSuzy.Tv

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This Saturday night, December 2nd, The Dr. Susan Block Show will ski into December with a little Bedroom Bondage and Hot Wax for the Holidays. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block and Capt’n Max will be Professor Oni, a Lifestyle Dominant, former university professor, Kinbaku artist and photographer; and kinky fetish model, Lola Fae; plus our new bonobo Phoenix Dawn, Christine Dupree, Bangs Black, Ikkor the Wolf and more TBA.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“Bedroom Bondage” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, December 2, 2017, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

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The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

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Summer Power Plays & Ikkor Bday this Saturday on DrSuzy.Tv

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This Saturday night, July 8th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will explore sexual power play and celebrate another Bonoboville birthday. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block will be Sanctuary pro-Domme, exhibitionist and fetishist Madame Rose and professional “switch,” Switch Em, plus Bonoboville’s beloved Ikkor the Wolf, continuing his “Life Day” (aka birthday) celebrations (that started on last Saturday’s show), along with porn star Rachael Cavalli, plus Gypsy Bonobo, Capt’n Max, and more TBA.  This show is associate-produced by Jacquie Blu.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience this Saturday, or call 310.568.0066 (you can call anytime; someone is always here). Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

“Summer Power Plays & Ikkor Bday” will broadcast LiVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, July 8th, 2017, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio. This show and all past shows can be viewed in archives on DrSuzy.Tv and can be heard free on DrSusanBlock.com.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv.

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Motorbunny, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum Cannabelly & JuxLeather.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

GET THE BONOBO WAY

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The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure is the ultimate antidote to the fear and hatred that is driving us apart. Give it to someone you love, even if that someone is you.

Brooke

Hello, I’m Brooke. I’m a former pornstar into group sex, cuckolding, BDSM, domination and humiliation, spanking, tickling, role playing, and much more. I’m very open minded and dirty minded 😉

Call me today for phone sex therapy at 310-568-0066 to live out your deepest desires.

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Chloe

Hello, I’m Chloe. I’m a college professor and a highly sexual woman of many interests.  I can talk about practically anything, from sports to theatre to politics to sex.  I’m a switch who loves cuckolding, the girlfriend experience, teen play, mommy play, pee play, medical fetish, and BDSM.

Call me today for phone sex therapy at 310-568-0066

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Angelique

“Hello I’m a very sexy dominatrix, and I LOVE talking about fetishes and role-play. Need a mature conversation? Call me.”

Angelique is available for phone sex therapy at (213) 291-9497

Brandy

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Hi, I’m Brandy, and I love talking about wild fantasies and fetishes.
Want to role play with me? Or how about some guided masturbation? Give me a call and let’s get kinky 😉
Available for phone sex therapy at (213) 291-9497

Cassidy

Kneel Slave! You are in the presence of Cassidy–professional Dominatrix & Hypnotherapist. I’m into edging spanking/discipline, CBT, crossdressing, mummification, medical fetish, foot/shoe worship, chastity training, pegging, toys, and all sorts of fantasies and role playing.
Call  me today at (213) 291-9497 for phone sex therapy  😈

Domcon Afterparty on DrSuzy.Tv with U.S. Presidential Candidate Tara Indiana, Goddess LeeAnn & Jacquie Blu this Saturday!

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This Memorial Day Weekend Saturday night, May 28th, The Dr. Susan Block Show will hold a DomCon LA 2016 afterparty fit for a FemDom Queen. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block live in-studio will be one of the leading Dommes of DomCon, Den of Iniquity director and 2016 United States Presidential candidate Mistress Tara Indiana (last seen on DrSuzy.Tv celebrating Den of Iniquity’s 20th anniversary and her own 25th year as a Pro-Domme who started out as a “Daddy’s Little Girl”), as well as Goddess LeeAnn and Jacquie Blu, plus Dayton Rainsporn star, therapist and associate producer for DrSuzy.Tv.

Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 310.568.0066. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures. 
Domcon Afterpartywill broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show Saturday night, May 28th, 2016, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville where you can also chat live in the Bonoboville Studio.

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068. Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1 and @DrSuzy. Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv. This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Sybian, Condomania, Glyde America ALL-VEGAN Condoms, Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum, JuxLeather and Wein-Erotik-Edition.

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

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“Freedom is the greatest aphrodisiac, but restraint is a close second.”
Susan M. Block, Ph.D.

Do you like to be tied up by a Dominant Mistress or Master? Do you enjoy erotic bondage, handcuffs, shackles, ropes, collars, straightjackets, spreader bars, harnesses or four of “Christian’s” grey silk ties fastened securely around your wrists and ankles? How about being blindfolded, hooded, muzzled, dominated, restrained by a ball gag, locked up in a chastity belt, strapped down to a medical examination table, put into a posture collar, led around on a leash, shut up in a cage, zipped into a sleep sack, suspended from the ceiling, put into a sling, turned into a piece of human art with beautiful Japanese Shibari rope work, tied spread-eagle to a four-poster bed or latched onto a St. Andrews’s Cross while being spanked or flogged?  Do you get aroused by bondage—in fantasy or reality… or perhaps a bit of both?

Sexy consensual bondage games are not unusual. People have been incorporating erotic restraint into sexual play since before there were people! Non-human animals, like bonobos, indulge in consensual erotic bondage games when they playfully hold each other down during sex, a fairly frequent occurrence. We know it’s “consensual” since sometimes it’s the smaller bonobo “holding down” the bigger, stronger bonobo. Humans practice consensual bondage play even more, partly because our great ingenuity has enabled us to create so many elaborate and effective bondage devices.

Though many erotica and bondage experts don’t appreciate the superficial and sometimes wrongheaded style of 50 Shades of Grey, the huge worldwide popularity of the 50 Shades books and films, has given bondage a new level of acceptance and respectability, both in mainstream society and in the media.

Nevertheless, bondage or “BDSM” (Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & submission and Sadomasochism) is still controversial and quite taboo in most human communities, making it a very difficult world to navigate or even talk about for many people.

Whatever your bondage fantasy or reality, the world-famous telephone sex therapists at the Dr. Susan Block Institute, including several BDSM specialists and experienced FemDoms, Dominant males and submissives, are just a phone call away. Anytime you need to talk, 24 hours a day, we’re here for you. Call us now at 213.291.9497.

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Exploring fantasies is a great way to start your BDSM adventures. The safe, consensual exploration of domination fantasies can be a fantastic, peaceful channel for some people’s violent impulses, preventing them from actually hurting anyone, including themselves. It can involve sexual psychodrama, safely releasing aggressive forces that lurk deep in our subconscious where they can be more destructive. BDSM can even help to reduce domestic violence. If it can help keep bonobos from killing each other, maybe it can even help humans to create peace on Earth.

While “surrender” means defeat in war or business, in LOVE or sex, surrender can be sweet, and the ultimate expression of intimate fulfillment. Since society puts such pressure on all of us–male and female–to be powerful, to achieve and to succeed, deep in our erotic imaginations, many of us may long to surrender.

In bondage (even consensual bondage), the submissive is “forced” to surrender.

This creates some very interesting sexual dynamics. The ancient Taoist masters say, “In yielding, there is strength.” In surrender, there can be power. Many strong men fantasize about surrender, about being a sex object–being seduced, spanked, pegged, ravished, even raped–“forced” to perform various sexual acts, often while in some sort of restraint.

Considering how many ladies balk at being considered sex objects (though many enjoy it too), this may sound silly to some women, but lots of men crave it, within certain boundaries, of course. Some men find that being dominated, especially when tied up, actually removes performance anxiety. After all, if you can’t move, you can’t perform, so what’s there to be anxious about?

Some guys love to struggle against their restraints, building a rush of adrenaline, then surrendering to ecstasy. It’s a form of athletic eroticism that many great athletes adore. After a big win on the football field or basketball court, they relax by “losing” to a sexy Mistress or Master who puts them in bondage and dominates them into blissfulness.

Of course, many women (and men) are frightened by a man’s submissive desires. They are afraid that because he craves surrender, he is not much of a man. They think he must be some kind of wimp or weirdo, which is one reason that many men find it difficult, if not impossible to talk about their desires for bondage or submission with the women they love.

In reality, it’s mostly high-powered men who yearn to surrender sexually.  Perhaps this is because nature seeks a balance, but many successful businessmen, weary of their responsibilities and stresses, long to be infantilized, objectified, taken advantage of, to surrender control for a brief period in their day or heavy work week, a vacation from responsibility, a chance to be a little boy again, or maybe a girl.

Many submissives just want someone sexy to push them into doing things they’re afraid to do on their own. Some find that fear increases arousal. A little fear enhances sex like a little seasoning spices your meal, but remember… too much spice spoils the meat.

Some men long to surrender to an exciting woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to ask for it–or even demand it–from them. Many enjoy anal penetration, the body’s ultimate surrender, often combined with a form of bondage. Some respond to humiliation fantasies, being “forced” to do embarrassing things, to atone for their “sin” of arousal.

Some like to be spanked. Sometimes, though not always, this is because they were spanked as children. Partly because our society is so negative about sex, many people—men and women–fantasize about being punished, or forced against their will to have sex, often involving some kind of bondage. That way, they don’t feel so responsible and can just relax and enjoy the sensations. Now, of course, just because someone has a rape fantasy does not mean they really want to be raped. Nobody really wants to be raped. But lots of people fantasize about it. And consensual bondage provides a plausible, relatively safe “setting” for such a fantasy.

A word to the wise: Learn what you’re doing before you do too much! Read books on the subject of your interest, take a class and/or study under a knowledgeable Master or Mistress.

BDSM, like mountain climbing, skydiving and driving a car, can be dangerous if not done properly. Be careful about what you do and with whom you do it.

What if your desires are more dominant? As long as your real-life activity is “safe, sane and consensual,” there’s nothing wrong with expressing your Dominant desires. But the requirement to learn what you’re doing–whether you’re putting your slave in bondage or getting her or him out of it very quickly in an emergency–is even more important when you want to dominate.Keep in mind that it may seem like the dominant partner is in control, but it should be that the submissive’s threshold of pain that is the determining factor.

In fantasy, where we use our brains and words to live out these desires in the erotic theater of the mind, these safety rules do not apply; the sky’s the limit, and you don’t even have to know how to tie a knot.

Then again, there are also different types of “emotional bondage” or “mind control,” sometimes involving erotic hypnosis, which can be just as restraining in fantasy as reality.

It can be very confusing… and arousing! So if you need to talk about it privately, whatever your bondage fantasy or reality might be, the world-famous telephone sex therapists at the Dr. Susan Block Institute, including several BDSM specialists, experienced Dominants and submissives, are just a phone call away. Anytime you need to talk or webcam, 24 hours a day, we’re here for you, and you can call us at 213.291.9497.

Del Rey

 

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Del Rey

A cyclist, swimmer and sapiosexual kinkster, this open-minded book-hound has an ever expanding repertoire of sexual knowledge and experiences– from LGBTQA matters, to intimacy and role play; from BDSM relationships to fetishes, and relationship counseling. Happy to talk about anything from spanking, to bondage, cross-dressing to pet play and more.

Superstar BDSM THEATER on DrSuzy.Tv this Saturday!

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This Saturday night, July 25th, The Dr. Susan Block Show presents Superstars of BDSM Theater. Joining international sexologist and Bonobo Way author Dr. Susan Block live in-studio will be renowned BDSM master Orpheus Black and cast members from his new theatrical triology, Mènage Á Trois. This show will also feature our favorite domina and Domination Directory International (DDI) editor/publisher Goddess Soma Snakeoil and punk rock superstar/composer and BDSM connoisseur Mike Burkett, a.k.a., Fat Mike of NoFX, now in production for their critically acclaimed, Broadway-bound punk rock musical Home Street Home. Rounding out the guest roster will be kinky newcomer Audrey Holiday, along with show producer Biz Bonobo and sexy surprises.

BDSM THEATER” will broadcast LIVE from Bonoboville on The Dr. Susan Block Show this Saturday night, July 25th, 2015, 10:30pm-Midnight PST. It can be viewed on DrSuzy.Tv or in Bonoboville.com.  Click Here to RSVP to attend this show in the “Speakeasy” studio audience or call 310.568.0066. Studio doors open at 9:30 pm. Studio Members FREE. Membership Has Its Pleasures.

MORE about our featured guests:

Listen to the amazing soundtrack of “Home Street Home” – music by Mike Burkett with some lyrics by Goddess Soman! 

Orpheus Black will be the keynote speaker this Saturday, July 25th at Sex-Positive World’s “Sexual Health Series Kick Off: Redefining Sexuality for the 21st Century” in UCLA’s Northwest Campus Auditorium.

Orpheus Black’s “Mènage Á Troisan Erotic Trilogy” will perform at the Poet’s Jazz House & Theatre Theatre this Tuesday, July 28th. Click here for more info & Mènage Á Trois tickets.

Goddess Soma’s next issue of DDI features “The Bonobo Way of Female Power” by Dr. Suzy!

Call-In During the Live Broadcast: 1.866.289.7068.

Tweet comments and questions @RadioSUZY1and @DrSuzy.

Listen Free or Watch the live show at DrSusanBlock.Tv .

Chat live in the Bonoboville.com Studio

Want to “define our terms”? Dr. Suzy wrote the definitive definitions of “fetish” and “spanking” for the new Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality

This week’s live broadcast sponsored by Agwa Cocoa Leaf Liqueur, Ron de Jeremy Rum, Dirty Tequila, Condomani, Glyde America condoms, Stockroom and JuxLeather

The Dr. Susan Block Show is produced by The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, an international center for sexual expression, therapy and education, based in LA, founded in 1991 by Susan M. Block, PhD, world-renowned Yale-educated sexologist, best-selling author and host of HBO specials. The Institute’s mission is to help individuals, couples and communities enhance their sexuality and improve their lives based upon Dr. Block’s philosophy of Ethical Hedonism and The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure. A portion of all proceeds goes to help save the highly endangered “make love not war” bonobos from extinction in the Congo and to promote the Bonobo Way around the world.

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