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Do you like tickling?  Do you relish tickling a lover until he or she is breathless with laughter and writhing in pain and joy? Or would you rather be tickled, forced to surrender, gasping for mercy, to the wild fingers of a hot lover, until you can’t help but orgasm in ticklish ecstasy?

Our Tickle Fetish Phone Sex Therapists are here to help you talk about, understand, explore, cope with—and indulge in—your tickling fantasies. For information, call 213.291.9497

What’s so special about the teasing, titillating touch of tickling?

Tickling can be a type of “horseplay,” torture, silly sexy fun, deep power exchange, sensual exploration, stimulation or humiliation.  Maybe you like to hold a sexy submissive down, take her by surprise, or tie her up and tickle-torture her until she laughs, shrieks, cries and begs for relief. Or perhaps you’d like to be subdued and tortured with tickles on the most sensitive, ticklish parts of your body.  Whether it’s the tempting curve of a waist, the soft tummy, inviting underarm, flirtatious feet, the vulnerable inner thighs, or the tantalizing nape of the neck, giving up power and being at the mercy of naughty fingers or devious feathers is a kind of physical and mental submission, as well as an intimate display of trust between partners.

 Unfortunately, some people can’t stand being tickled.  Others aren’t ticklish at all, and what fun is that?  Some think tickling is for kids, or they just don’t “get it.”  Naturally, this makes many tickle fetishists rather shy about sharing their fetish with others, fearing rejection or misunderstanding.

Here at the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, we “get it.”
We understand and love to explore the erotic pleasures of tickling.
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Childhood tickle games are usually the first times we experience that crazy “tickle high,” the endorphin-raising ecstasy of pleasure mixed with heightened tension bordering on pain that comes with being tickled, as well as the heady power rush of being the tickler.  Adult tickling can bring back those erotic memories as well as give both tickler and ticklee that wild and free feeling of being a child again (without involving any real-life children, of course).

Tickling has been an aspect of sex since prehistoric times.  Bonobos, dogs, cats and other mammals often tickle each other as they play, sometimes as a kind of foreplay for sex.  The ancient Indian Kama Sutra waxes eloquently about the sexual joys of tickling.   While the Chinese, Japanese and ancient Romans would use tickling as a form of genuine torture, the Victorians appreciated tickling for its erotic capacity; being tied up and tickled to a kind of ticklegasm was an extremely common fantasy, as well as a specialty of the better Victorian bordellos.  Famous tickle-lovers from history include the Egyptian Queen Hatshepsut and Russian Empress Catherine the Great who are said to have enjoyed having their royal feet tickled ritually before and during sex. It’s no wonder that a hot body writhing and wriggling uncontrollably under a barrage of tickles remains a steamy dream for many fetishists.

So…what about you?  Need to talk about ticking?  Want to get important, enlightening insight into your personal tickle fetish or learn how to introduce tickling games to your spouse or potential lover?  Need to work through your fears or shame about tickling?  Or perhaps you would like to experience a phone sex fantasy role-play tickle-torture session—giving or receiving.  Our tickle fetish phone sex therapists have their fingers ready! Call 213.291.9497 right now or anytime you’re ready to tickle or be tickled.

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Cheating Phone Sex Therapy

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 Are you thinking about cheating?

Are you currently engaged in a secret sexual affair? Or maybe you’re just curious, seriously considering having extra-marital sex, but it hasn’t happened… yet.  Then again, perhaps you’d never actually do it, but you can’t help fantasizing about it. Or is it the other way around: Do you think your spouse is cheating on you?  How do you feel about it? Devastated? Jealous? Enraged?  Excited? Aroused? Confused? Need to talk about your feelings?  Need help figuring out what to do, if anything?

The telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute understand the thrill and the guilt, the dread and desire, the fantastic excitement and real life repercussions of infidelity, adultery, betrayal, duplicity, cuckoldry and cheating. Let us give you the kind of help you need right now. We’re open 24/7.  Call us now or anytime you need to talk:

Need more information before you call? Keep reading to learn the different ways that “Cheating Phone Sex Therapy” with the Block Institute can help you.

 Are you currently cheating?

Are you now having an affair now and need to talk to someone about it? Are you sexually involved with a friend, co-worker or someone you met online, unbeknownst to your spouse?  Perhaps you’re secretly seeing a “professional,” such as an escort, mistress, masseuse or dominatrix. Are you committed to keeping your marriage (or other serious relationship) going, but driven by this insatiable urge to “cheat”? Is it the irresistible chemistry of your lover? Is it because your spouse will not have sex with you, or at least not in the way you want to have sex?  Or is it the taboo thrill of adultery itself that sexually excites you in ways your marriage alone never does?

Regardless of your reason for cheating, the burden of leading a double life is bound to cause you anxiety. Do you need to talk about it? We at the Block Institute are not here to judge you. We’re here to help. That might mean helping you to better understand and cope with your desire to cheat, whether it’s due to fixable problems with your spouse, your own natural promiscuity or something else. If you want to stop, we can help you to stop cheating. If you don’t, we can help you negotiate your secret life with your more public life. Then again, maybe you just need an understanding, open-minded ear to listen to your story with compassion and empathy. Whatever you need to talk about, we’re here for you.  Call us at 213.291.9497

 Do you think your spouse is cheating on you?

Are you suspicious that your spouse is having an affair? Are you wondering if the rumors of infidelity are true? Need help trying to determine if your suspicions are valid?  Are you unsure of the next step to take and want a plan of action? Your sense of betrayal, hurt, rage, excitement and confusion can be so overwhelming that it feels impossible to think, let alone act rationally. Experiencing a wide range of feelings–from fear to envy, anger to arousal, sadness to relief, aggression to depression, rage to lust–is entirely natural. If you need help dealing with these conflicted feelings, or figuring out what’s really going on and/or deciding what to do about your suspected cheating spouse, the telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute are here to help.  Call us at 213.291.9497

Are you considering having an affair?

Are you seriously thinking about looking outside your marriage for something you feel is missing: the thrill of sex with someone new? Are you desperately yearning for the kind of sex you can’t have with your spouse? Do you troll Ashley Madison, escorting websites or your Facebook friend list, on the verge of getting into an extramarital affair? Do you need to weigh the pros and cons of cheating with an experienced expert who won’t judge you, but will help you make some important decisions about your sex life? Of course, society frowns upon cheating—and for many good reasons. But sometimes having an affair is the “right” thing to do for various reasons, one of which might be that your sinking sex life is in serious need of a lifeboat. Sometimes, oddly enough, it can even save your marriage. Then again, maybe you’re open to the idea of re-igniting the spark in your marriage. Dr. Block is an expert at “making marriage feel like an affair.”  Whatever your personal concerns and desires are, if you are considering having an affair—or not—we can help.  Call us anytime you need to talk at 213.291.9497

 Do you fantasize about cheating?

Do you dream of having an affair, but want to steer clear of cheating in real life?  Does the fantasy of hot-blooded adultery turn you on, even though you’re pretty sure the reality of doing it would turn your stomach, not to mention destroy your marriage? Do you think about having hot sex with people other than your spouse when you make love or masturbateFantasizing is not actually cheating, of course, but it can feel almost as exciting as cheating–and it’s a whole lot safer.

Have you ever used phone sex to role-play adulterous fantasies? Would you like to try?  Phone sex fantasy roleplay is an effective, exciting, discreet way to enjoy many of the erotic thrills of an affair without actually “having” one.  Phone sex is a relatively prudent expression of what Nathaniel Hawthorne called “lawless passion.” If you’re going to have an affair, it’s better (and safer) to do it on the phone than in the flesh. At least, you won’t get an STD. And at best, you’ll get inspiration and ideas to improve your love life with your spouse without entangling your body, not to mention your body fluids, with somebody else’s. In any case, you won’t get lipstick on your zipper, or semen on your dress.

The relative safety of phone sex often involves deeper, more complex feelings than concern over STDs. The phone is a stage upon which you can act out your wildest fantasies, a telephonic erotic “Theatre of the Mind” that allows you to safely explore dangerous, taboo desires. Whatever the nature of your adulterous fantasy, we’re here to help you to express it, enjoy, contain  and deal with it in as positive a way as possible with the least danger to your marriage, work, family or any aspect of your “real life.”

Is phone sex cheating?  Not inherently. Though if you keep your phone sex a secret from your partner, you feel like you’re cheating, and if you feel like you’re cheating, you probably are. But if you feel compelled to embark upon an affair, and you want to keep things as safe as possible, better to share your lawless passion chaperoned by your telephone.  For phone sex fantasy roleplay, call us anytime at 213.291.9497

 Do you fantasize about your wife—or future wife—cheating on you?

It goes against conventional wisdom that a married man–or even a divorced or single man—would be excited by the fantasy of his wife—or future wife, girlfriend or ex–cheating by “cuckolding” him.  But this type of cuckold fantasy is a lot more common than you might realize, and it is one of the areas in which the telephone sex therapists of the Block Institute specialize. So if you find yourself aroused by cuckold fantasies like this, rest assured you’re not alone.

Besides being about your wife having an affair with another man, this type of cuckold fantasy can be loving or wild, sensuous or kinky, or a combination.  It may involve domination, voyeurism, bisexuality, humiliation, interracial sex, feminization, penis size fetishes, striptease, bondage, teasing, oral, anal and many other types of sex that certainly do “spice up” that sacred marital bond—even if you never do any of it in real life. For more information about your cuckolding or hotwifing desires, see Dr. Block’s article on “sperm wars.

Whether or not you act on these desires, it’s always a good idea to talk about them to someone knowledgeable.  Dr. Block can help you to understand your feelings in order to determine what you might want to “act out,” and what is better kept in the realm of fantasy. Sometimes you just want to leave reality for the moment and enter the magical erotic world of fantasy roleplay, and you can do that with Dr. Block or one of our cuckold phone sex therapists.

And yes, of course, you can masturbate (if you want), during sessions.  And no, there is no other phone sex or sex therapy service quite like ours.

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Golden Shower Phone Sex Therapy

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 Ah, the Golden Water of Life, water that flows freely, shoots majestically and trickles daintily, sun-colored waters that sparkle in the light, tinkle in the porcelain bowl and melt in the mouth of the thirsty connoisseur. Water that heals, arouses, disgusts, excites, offends and humiliates. Water that can feel truly orgasmic in its release, especially after you’ve held it in a little while.

We all do it, and yet it is something special and secretive, something we almost always do in private. We do it in a closet, in a stall, in a sanctuary or behind a tree.  Some say it’s just waste. Others long to take a taste.

But what do we call it? “Peeing” sounds childish, but “pissing” is rather crude. “Taking a whiz” is so casual, but “urophilia,” “urolagnia” and even “urination” are so coldly clinical. Kinky terms are more playful: “Golden Showers,” “Water Sports,” “Wetting,” “Sprinkles.” Then there are more the elegant phrases, like “Sexual Champagne” and “Water of Life.” To differentiate it from its cousin,  Female Ejaculation (Holy Water), we sometimes call it the Golden Water of Life.

Whatever you call it, if you need to talk about it, you can talk to us….
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Unlike squirting, peeing is not at all esoteric. Everybody does it. There is no special technique to learn except, perhaps, how to relax so you can piss in front of, or on someone. And, of course, it’s nothing “new.” People have been looking at, touching and drinking urine (uraphagia)  probably for almost as long as people have been urinating. Urine has proven healing properties. The yellower your nectar, the more vitamins reside within it. Yogis and other health nuts drink a glass of their own “juice” every morning for that extra vitamin-rich boost. And no less of an authority than Madonna has confirmed that peeing on the feet heals athlete’s foot.

Yet there is tremendous, almost phobic misunderstanding about the essentially healthy, happy hobby of piss play.  With such a cultural stigma against this natural form of pleasure, introducing your golden shower fetish to a new lover, or even a regular partner, can be a daunting task.  Fortunately, here at the Block Institute, we offer private, confidential phone sex therapy for those who love golden showers to safely and nonjudgementally discuss their fantasies and real life situations.

Need to Talk About Golden Showers? Want to learn how to safely incorporate water sports into your sex life?  Would you like to better understand where your erotic interest in urination came from? Want to role-play a Golden Shower Fantasy–whether you’d like to pee or be peed on? Call us now or anytime 24/7. We’re here for you. 213.291.9497

Are you aroused by your lover baptizing you in golden nectar, peeing all over your genitals, your chest or directly into your mouth?

You may or may not enjoy the actual taste of the urine. If you have submissive tendencies, you may not like the taste at all, but you crave the humiliation of being pissed on or “forced” to imbibe by a beautiful, powerful mistress or strong, well-hung master. One avid male pee drinker describes the thrill of “empowering women” as his main reason for allowing himself to be completely subjugated by inviting a woman’s sacred sprinkles into his mouth.  Some golden shower fetishists revel in the degradation of being drenched by a Dom’s piss or made to swallow it like a human toilet.

Then again, maybe you don’t find receiving a golden shower to be degrading at all; you just enjoy the warm wet intimacy of sharing your lover’s living waters. Of course, sex itself is fluid-intensive; it’s full of warm wetness that is shared intimately, swapped and savored. Golden shower lovers can enjoy the sexual closeness that wetness suggests with added power play and copiously flowing fluid. Some like the taboo nature of indulging in the Yellow Peril, the rush of playing with what most authorities tell you never to touch or taste. Some feel it is an elixir of health and sensuality, others a symbol of enticing shame and mystery.

Do you like to watch others pee?  Perhaps, like the famous British sexologist Havelock Ellis, you are a Golden Shower Voyeur who enjoys catching a glimpse of someone sexy engaged in this ever-so-natural yet publicly forbidden act.

Do you enjoy that feeling of urination desperation when you urgently need to pee, but you’re not allowed…yet?  Do you like to watch someone else going experiencing urination desperation, then finally releasing right before your eyes, or onto your hand?

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If you’re a Golden Shower Exhibitionist, then you like to pee in front of people, or on people, or into their mouths, or into a flute for them to drink like champagne, or to release your golden juice like a rocket shooting off into space, preferably in front of an appreciative audience. Or maybe you just enjoy the power of dominating your partner with the gushing power of your piss.

What about the tinkle? Everyone knows that listening to someone pee often makes you feel like peeing.  It can also get you excited.  Some Golden Shower Fetishists get extremely aroused by the mellifluous sound of that telltale tinkle, which can be especially delightful during phone sex. If you’re wearing earphones, it can seem like your lover, mistress or the phone sex operator is actually piddling all over your head.

Want to Listen to the Tinkle Now? Our golden shower phone sex therapists are “holding it” for you…. Call 213.291.9497

Some peeing fetishists enjoy “peeing themselves,” “bed wetting,” “panty wetting,” or being “made” to pee by a dominant partner, sometimes while in panties or adult diapers.  This may involve various forms of erotic fantasy role-play and infantilism, most commonly when a mistress plays the role of a nurse, mother or governess to the submissive who acts like a helpless “child” who can’t help but “mess” his or her panties or diapers. Do you like that liberating, warm, wet, forbidden sensation when you can’t hold back anymore, and the pee fills up your diaper, stains your pants or trickles down your leg?

There many different kinds of water sports, fantasies and activities, not all of which appeal to all peeing fetishists.  But whatever your golden desires, questions, cravings, problems or pleasures, you can share them with the telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute. Call Us When You Need to Talk: 213.291.9497

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High Heel Phone Sex Therapy

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Looking for High Heel Heaven? You’ve come to the right place…
Do high heels get you hot?  Does your temperature rise when a sexy vixen approaches you in 5-inch stilettos?  Then again, maybe you prefer classic pumps or skyscraper sandals.  Do you love it when your lover keeps her heels on during sex?  Then again, perhaps you like to wear the heels yourself as you strut like a diva on the catwalk… Or do you have such a strong high heel fetish that you’d almost rather kiss, worship and play with the shoes themselves—with or without anybody wearing them?  Whatever your personal fetish or fashion preference, our High Heeled Phone Sex Therapists are here to help anytime you need to talk, 24 hours a day, every day. For information, call 213.291.9497

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What is it about high heels that drive you wild?  Is it the shape of the shoe that excites you, its striking, curvaceous form?  Is it the heel itself with a seductive spike, erect and titillating?  Is it the way a pair of heels set off a womanly figure that makes your heart start to race? Do you prefer petite feet in Cinderella heels, or do you like a large pair of platform pumps towering over you like a monument to your desires?    Do you feel that if “the clothes make the man, the shoe makes the woman?”    Ever notice how a woman in a pair of classic pumps radiates style and confidence whether she’s flaunting power plays in the boardroom or bending over backwards in the bedroom?  Maybe you’d even like to hump her pumps

Or would you rather kick classic to the curb and go for a long, tall pair of hooker heels (aka, stripper shoes)?  Or do you long to throw convention to the wind and rock those heels yourself?  Maybe you need a high-heeled mistress to “make” you wear high heels for her.  Perhaps you’d like her to walk all over you, tease and do kinky things to you with different parts of those high heels—from pointed toe to dagger stiletto.  Or would you rather dominate some sweet, vulnerable hottie in those teetering, fragile high heels?  Do you love to inhale the aromatic combination of foot smell and fine shoe leather?  Do you have difficulty communicating about your high-heeled desires with your partner or potential partners? Do you feel shame or anxiety over your shoe fetish?

 Whatever the nature of your interest in high heels, here at the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, we “get it,” and we’re here to talk with you about your high heeled pleasures and problems, answer your questions, advise you on your fetishes, and roleplay your fantasies.  To enter High-Heeled Heaven or just talk to a High Heel Phone Sex Therapist right now, call 213.291.9497.

 

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Interracial Phone Sex Therapy

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Are you interested in interracial sex?  Do you prefer sex with partners of different races than yours—or do you at least like to imagine it? Do you have decidedly politically incorrect fantasies about exotic damsels or hyper-sexual alpha males from backgrounds, cultures or races other than your own?  Our Interracial Phone Sex Therapists are here 24/7 to talk with you about your deepest, most taboo desires, problems, pleasures, fantasies and fetishes. We are compassionate, knowledgeable, sexy, caring, and totally discreet. And no, there is no other phone sex or sex therapy service quite like ours when it comes to talking about interracial sex.
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 In an era of “race-blind” PC culture, why does the thrill of interracial sex continue to captivate so many of us? Though most people don’t talk about it—at least in public—it’s deeply embedded in our cultural thinking to imagine, right or wrong, that some races as earthier, bigger and “better” at sex; some are imagined to be more physical, masculine, dominant, confident or perhaps more animalistic.  Conversely, stereotypes have encouraged us to consider some races as more submissive or feminine. Whether it’s true or not, racist or not, the fantasy of a big black cock or a tiny Asian girl certainly stirs a lot of libidinous imaginations. Do you have “yellow fever?” Or perhaps it’s the spicy latin flavor that makes you hot, hot, hot? Do you have a “thing” for natural blondes?  How about real redheads? Of course, “once you go black, you never go back”—not after a huge black mandingo, that is. Or a big beautiful black woman. Why are high-contrast images of blacks on blondes so popular?  Maybe you have bisexual interracial fantasies.  Or do you like to imagine your spouse or lover engaged in super steamy interracial sex, perhaps in a threesome, or with you as the cuckold?  Perhaps you eroticize the evil old master or mistress/slave relations of plantation days.  We don’t agree with nor do we want to encourage these stereotypes, which may be loving, but are all too often, racist.  After all, the most important fact is that we are all part of the human race.  But we do want to help you to understand your fantasies and decide whether or not to act on them in real life.  We also enjoy helping you to act out your interracial desires—no matter how outrageous, bizarre, politically incorrect or just plain wicked they might be—through phone sex fantasy roleplay.  And you can call us anytime at 213.291.9497

Interracial sex has had a long and fascinating history.  America’s third president and writer of our Declaration of Independence, Thomas Jefferson, is said to have had an intimate sexual relationship with his African-American slave Sally Hemings, siring several children with her.  Some of Jefferson’s writings express his hope that Caucasians and Native Americans would interbreed and form an integrated race of people rather than engage in violence—clearly, he preferred his “Indian Wars” to happen in the bedroom. Nevertheless, interracial sex was illegal as early as 1691. Anti-miscegenation laws remained intact for many years because, according to some historians, the slave class had to be neatly distinguishable from the free classes. Even after slavery was abolished, interracial sex remained socially unacceptable. Meanwhile, rumors and stereotypes circulated around black male sexuality, propagating the idea that African-American men have bigger penises and greater sexual stamina and appetite. Today, interracial porn is a best-selling genre, with the majority showing a black man having sex with a white woman. Is it the intriguing visual contrast of ivory and ebony, the implied conquest, the tortured history, the terrible racism or just the taboo quality of the interracial sex that turns some of us on so much?  If you need to talk about your interracial fantasies or desires, call us at 213.291.9497.

With so much interracial sex happening in the real world, Jefferson’s fantasy may come true on an even larger scale than he imagined.  More and more people are clicking the box that says “mixed” on those forms that ask for your race.  Despite the racists’ attempts at “purity,” eventually, even the idea of “race” will cease to exist, and we will all be mixed.  But right now, the contrast of the human races in terms of color, size and other features—real or imagined—captivates a great many people’s sexual fantasies.  Race is a subject that makes many people uncomfortable, but at the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, no subject is off limits for discussion, therapy or fantasy role-play. Maybe you can’t talk to anyone else about these things, but you can talk to us.  We are here for you right now. Call our Interracial Phone Sex Therapists at 213.291.9497.

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Group Phone Sex Therapy

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Have you been thinking about group sex? Do you dream of casting all rigid social boundaries aside and indulging in the orgiastic hedonism of a threesome, multiple partners, a swing party, a pansexual celebration, a polyamorous arrangement or a full-on orgy?

Perhaps you already enjoy the pleasures of sex with more than one partner at one time, but you need to talk about your experiences with someone open-minded, knowledgeable and discreet. Maybe you’re considering group sex or the swinginglifestyle,” and you need to sort out the pros and cons.  Then again, you might believe that multiple partners, free love and orgies are best left in the realm of the imagination, but you’d love to share the fantasy with someone who understands, or maybe even more than one someone at one time; after all, we are talking about group phone sex therapy.

Do you want to make your group sex fantasies come true, at least partially? Do you need to talk about orgies, swinging, “designer relationships,” open marriage, polyamory, communal ecstasy?  Want to know the ins and outs of threesomes, foursomes, and more-somes? Need advice on how to bring these exciting but touchy subjects up to your spouse?  Would you like to experience group phone sex therapy?  Call the Block Institute at 213.291.9497.

 

Several of our telephone sex therapists are experts in group sex, polyamory, swinging and our world-renowned philosophy of ethical hedonism.  Group sex might sound very kinky for some, but it fulfills a very natural, human need to share erotic, orgasmic, loving experiences with multiple people, friends, loved ones and attractive strangers.  In a world that increasingly demands compartmentalization and isolation, there are few arenas left in which humans can share in this vital, life-affirming experience of communal ecstasy.

 Most of us are expected to meet all our sexual and erotic needs within one relationship, usually a marriage, that is supposed to last our entire adult lives.  Our sexual experiences are expected to be always private, “just the two of us,” usually in a locked bedroom, often in the dark.  There’s nothing wrong with that; in fact, private couple sex with someone you love is probably the most intimate, meaningful kind of sex there is.  But there is something very special and truly wonderful about the “collective joy” (with apologies to Barbara Ehrenreich) of group sex that partner sex simply cannot duplicate.

Many anthropologists agree that prehistoric humans often engaged in various forms of group sex–just as our closest genetic cousins, the bonobos, do–for tens of thousands of years before the advent of farming and “civilization” started pressuring people, especially women, to be sexually monogamous.

Just because human society changed and started trying to squeeze the square peg of our true polyamorous, orgiastic sexual nature into the round hole of traditional marriage and monogamy doesn’t mean human beings changed.  We are still inherently nonmonogamous, or even what Sex at Dawn authors Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethas, as well as sexpert Dan Savage, call “promiscuous.”  Some of us can “control” our desires for multiple partners and group sex experience better than others.

 Of course, despite society’s sanctions against it, some people have always found ways to enjoy various forms of group sex.  The famously decadent orgies of ancient Rome come to mind.  In the 18th century, during the period known as The Enlightenment, European intellectuals commonly took pleasure in the delights of partner-swapping—including the proudly promiscuous and ingenious Mary Shelley, author of the classic Frankenstein. Of course, “cheating” has always been a popular option for those who can manage double lives, though often at great risk to the cheaters’ marriages and even their lives.  Swinging rose in popularity in the U.S. during World War II with the “Key Club” parties where married men would leave their house keys in a basket so that other men at the party could enter their homes and have sex with their wives.

As a result of the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 70s, and an increasing openness to nontraditional forms of sexual expression, swinging and other forms of group sex have become increasingly common in America and around the world.  Yet a cultural distrust of group sex still exists, and in many areas of society–especially those that are religious, conservative or very “politically correct”–this distrust and disapproval of any kind of erotic expression that goes beyond the married couple has risen and intensified.  Many normal, sexual people who have a basic human yearning for communal ecstasy are afraid to indulge in it, and even too ashamed to talk about it with their partners.  The repression of these natural desires can put the individual—and the marriage itself–under tremendous toxic stress.

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What you do is up to you, of course.  But it always helps to talk about your feelings with someone who understands, someone you can trust with your secrets and desires.  The Block Institute offers conventional sex therapy as well as the opportunity to roleplay a group sex fantasy you may have over the phone through simulated swinging, guided masturbation or erotic hypnosis. Your group sex fantasy may involve orgies, threesomes, fetish play, bisexual activity, cuckolding, domination and submission,breaking taboos,or any number of other forms of erotic adventure.  You can even speak to multiple therapists at one time for group phone sex therapy. As always, your telephone sex therapy call is completely private and confidential.

For more information or to arrange to talk to a therapist right now, call us anytime 24/7 at 213.291.9497.

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Do You Feel the Need to Submit to A Powerful Sexual Mistress?

Are you haunted by strong fetishes, the desire to be tied up, spanked, whipped, humiliated, trained, teased, disciplined, hypnotized, forced to commit taboo sex acts you’d never act out on your own, or other domination and submission (D/S) fantasies? Do you need help understanding, expressing, experiencing, exploring or just coping with these desires?  Is there a special domination fantasy you’d like to roleplay?

Do you long to be controlled by a beautiful “FemDom” ?

Institute Director Susan M Block, Ph.D.

Perhaps you are interested in bondage & discipline (B/D), sadomasochism (S/M), strap-on action, forced fellatio, forced feminization or sissy training), deprivation, queening, face-sitting, pegging, corporal punishment, toilet training, body worship, figging, cuckoldry, female supremacy or any other form of domination? Do you crave body worship or foot, stocking, high heel, boot or panty worship?

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Need To Talk With Someone About Something
You Can’t Talk to Anyone Else About?

You Can Talk To Us.

Anytime you need to talk, 24 hours a day, the world-famous telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences are just a phone call away. For more information, call 213.291.9497.

Overview of our Phone Sex Therapy services and practices.

  • Need to talk? The Telephone Sex Therapists of The Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences are here to help you with anything from impotence to exhibitionism, dating to mating, sex addiction to orgasmic fulfillment, male or female ejaculation to intimacy issues, power exchange to crossdressing, kinky fantasies to challenging realities, monogamy to pornography, sexual politics to religious perspectives, “talking dirty” to audio romance, fears to desires, fetishes to marriages, your sexual past to your erotic future, gay, straight, bi or try. And yes, of course, you can masturbate, if you want, during sessions. And no, there is no phone therapy or phone sex service quite like ours.
  • Phone Sex Therapy with the Block Institute is totally private and absolutely confidential We listen to you, explore with you, guide you, advise you, inspire you, educate you, roleplay for you, fantasize with you (no fantasy is too taboo). The sky is the limit, but we’re very down-to-earth.
  • We use a variety of different therapeutic techniques, including Kinsey-style client interviews and in-depth analysis, fantasy roleplay, G-spot, P-spot and PC muscle exercises, fetish exploration system, sexual confidence building, guided masturbation, compassionate S/M and bondage play, issue-focused phone sex, transgender facilitation, erotic hypnosis and many other pleasure sex techniques. Your therapy is tailor-made for you and your personal needs.
  • You can request Dr. Susan Block personally, or you can talk to one of the Institute’s other phone sex therapists or fantasy roleplay artists, each excellent in his or her specialties. We also provide the best “phone sex” you’ll find on the web, an elite, discreet, smart, compassionate, sex revolutionary and highly therapeutic approach to this most intimate of conversations.
  • For the privacy, discretion and convenience of our clients, most of our therapy, counseling, coaching and fantasy roleplay is conducted over the telephone. But we also provide in-person therapy and counseling to individuals, couples and groups at the Block Institute’s central location in downtown LA. To be eligible for in-person therapy, you must first have at least three telephone therapy sessions.

 

The Dr. Susan Block Institute Established 1991

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Foot Fetish Therapy

 

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 DO YOU LOVE FEET?
Need to Talk About Your Foot Fetish?
Call The Foot Sex Therapists of The Dr. Susan Block Institute. We have Phone Sex Therapists, Sext Therapists & WebCam Sex Therapists
Practicing Our Unique Technique of Foot Fetish Phone Sex Therapy, including Foot Play Philosophy, Podophiliac Psychology, Foot Fetishism, Foot Hedonism, Foot Worship, Foot Fantasy, Boots, High Heels, Nylons, Pantyhose, Stockings, Fishnets, Dominance & Submission, Foot Tickling, Foot Bondage, Toe Sucking, Arch Sniffing, Sole Licking, Giantess, Crush, Squish, Trampling, Foot Cuckolding, Foot Massage, Shrimping Cocktails, Grape Stomping, Tequila Toe Shots, French Pedicures & Footsie


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We’re Just a Phone Call Away Right Now or Anytime.
We’re Always Here For You 24/7.

Learn to seduce your lover “feet first” !
Explore the sexual nature of feet and foot fetishism
Learn the nature of your particular fetish for feet, toes, arches, ankle, legs, stockings, pantyhose, nylons, fishnets, shoes or boots.
Develop Foot Fetish Coping Mechanisms
Learn how to enjoy your foot fetish with your partner
Discover the pleasure of giving and receiving “toegasms”
Even if you don’t have a foot fetish, you’ll love our philosophy of feet!
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What Can You Talk About Telephone Sex Therapy

You can talk with the telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute about anything you want to talk about. No topic is too “taboo.” Look over the lists of topics to the right under “Sexual Issues” and to the left under “Erotic Pleasures,” if you need some ideas. As you can see, there is quite a bit of overlap among all the subjects we talk about. And we talk about more subjects than we could possibly list. For more information, call us anytime at 213.291.9497.

The Dr. Susan Block Institute Established 1991

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Telephone Sex Therapy For Women Only

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Good help is hard to come by, especially when it comes to female sexuality. Such issues are rarely discussed, let alone understood, by traditional therapists, counselors and clergy who are not often equipped or willing to deal with sex questions or problems, outside of pat “sweep-it-under-the-rug” solutions.

Fear of sex, fear of the inner erotic woman, fear of social, family and religious criticism can have a devastating effect on a woman’s physical, mental and spiritual well-being. Some sexual fears are based on facts, but millions of women around the world suffer under old myths and misinformation that can rob you not only of your personal satisfaction, but also your self-esteem, creativity, success, the pursuit of happiness and even love itself.

It’s not easy when the erotic woman inside has to deal with the outside world’s conventions of female, sexual discrimination. It’s not easy balancing your own needs with the needs of those you love. It’s not easy to find and cultivate what you desire. Sometimes you can use a little help…

Let Us Help You Now. Don’t Let Another Minute Go By.

Looking for Some Answers to Your Sexuality Questions? Make The Phone Call that Could Change Your Life… Really!  Call The Block Institute at 213-291-9497

For almost two decades, the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences has been helping women, as well as men, couples and groups, to explore their sexuality, conquer their fears and attain their desires.

Susan M. Block, Ph.D., director of the Institute, is an internationally renowned best-selling author, HBO personality, talk radio host, magna cum laude graduate of Yale University with a doctorate in psychology, and a professional member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), with one of the largest private and diverse sex therapy practices in the world.

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Find out why Women Fitness Magazine credits Dr. Susan Block with virtually inventing the now extremely popular practice of sex therapy via the telephone back in 1991.  “People have been treated using phone sex therapy and have experienced great success in their healing,”  writes Women Fitness. “Who is to thank for this new phenomenon? A wonderful woman by the name of Susan Block!”

Dr. Block has put together a fantastic international team of dedicated, creative and caring men and women with different areas of expertise who can guide or assist you in almost all aspects of sexuality. We can help you with anything from simple sex questions to complex issues to the more fun and exciting explorations of fantasy and role-playing with our male or female therapists. And we’re always here for you 24/7, 365 days a year. You can call us anytime you need to talk.

We’re As Close As Your Phone. That’s Pretty Close! Call Us Now:   You’re Worth It!

The Block Institute is the leader in sex therapy for women over the phone.  Some of our senior therapists have been researching, counseling and writing about women’s sexual issues for over three decades. With our experience, expertise, insight, creativity, openness, passion and compassion, we can help you to have an exciting and satisfying sex life, increase your self-esteem, guide you toward understanding and dealing with your own as well as your partner’s sexuality, enhance your erotic empowerment, explore your forbidden fantasies, improve your erotic technique and seductive style, reduce stress, cope with your or your partner’s fetishes or personal memories, overcome religious or familial oppression, as well as energize your entire life. We’ll help you open the doors to better orgasms – or first orgasms – as well as higher love, greater success and deeper joy.

Many reactionary cultures around the world are trying to repress the modern explosion in positive, fact-based sex information for women. But we believe it’s too late: The Pussycat is out of the bag! Women are sexual beings. Men aren’t the only ones with sex drives, though a woman’s needs can be more subtle and complex. This is why women often need to *learn* how to have an orgasm–both the “regular” and “squirting” kinds–something almost all men can do without instruction. And there are many other things women need to learn about our sexual bodies, minds and souls. The School of Life teaches you much of what you need to know, but sometimes you benefit greatly with a little help from an expert.

Never Done Anything Like This Before?

One of the benefits of talking to a therapist, instead of a friend or relative, is that friends and relatives, no matter how much they love you, tend to have a personal agenda with regard to you. Sometimes they have that agenda because they love you and want you to *be* a certain way. Thus you tend to censor what you say to a friend or relative because you care what they think of you. You’re worried more about how they judge you than really getting the help you need.

You might feel freer talking to someone who doesn’t know you so well, maybe someone you’ve just met at a bar or in the gym. But then, you have to wonder, are they really listening to you, or just waiting for their turn to talk?

The therapists at the Block Institute will not judge you. And we will really listen and respond according to your needs, using a powerful array of techniques (traditional, non-traditional and innovative) to break through walls of fear, repression and misinformation. We take a holistic approach and, depending on the client, use Kinsey-style questions and analysis, fantasy role-play, Kegel muscle exercises, Tantric breathing techniques, G-spot female ejaculation tips, fetish exploration, sexual confidence building, masturbation meditation, sensate focus exercises, intercourse and outercourse, issue-focused phone sex, erotic hypnosis, sex toy play and many other pleasure sex techniques which are not only pleasurable, but almost inevitably have a positive, rejuvenating effect upon your sexual health, as well as your general health, work, creativity, self-esteem, family and social relations and other aspects of life.

Our therapists excel in a wide variety of fields. Our on-duty staff will help you to select the therapist most suited to your personal needs. Above all, we are real human beings, and we’re here to help you. Of course, your complete privacy and confidentiality is absolutely guaranteed. You can talk with us about things you can’t talk about with anyone else. You’ll soon find that this can open new doors for you. It can change your life for the better.

The Cost of Change is Minimal

The cost of telephone sex therapy with the Institute is $3.95/minute to talk to Dr. Block and $3.50/minute to talk with one of our other therapists. It’s only $43 for our 12-minute minimum.

The Cost of Not Getting Help Can Be Disastrous

Though it’s pretty inexpensive for a few quick questions, if you need to talk for a long while, telephone sex therapy isn’t a cheap date. But the cost of not getting help can be much higher: broken marriages, toxic relationships, sex addiction, sex crimes, low self-esteem and depression are just some of the negative results from an inability to explore and express your sexuality in a healthy manner. Instead of letting your past fears fester and bring you down, let us help you take a proactive approach to life.

Open the doors to love and erotic fulfillment. Explore and learn to express your sexuality in a healthy, positive way, dress for sex, seduce your lover into being your love slave, get your marriage on the right track, have your first real orgasm, express your inner slut, explore your taboo fantasies safely and creatively, get some perspective on your love affair, use the power of sex in your professional life, bring the lust back into your long-term relationship, learn to squirt, learn to love again…the possibilities are endless. And the discoveries are priceless.

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The Dr. Susan Block Institute
213-291-9497

The Dr. Susan Block Institute Established 1991

For more information, call our recorded line.

213.291.9497

We’re available 24/7, including all holidays.

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Taboo Phone Sex Therapy

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Need to talk about a taboo subject?
Have a question about forbidden sex?
A politically incorrect fantasy you’d like to explore?
A socially unacceptable fetish you need to understand?
A taboo desire you want to release?
A disturbing sexual memory you need to process?
Need to talk to someone about something
you can’t talk with anyone else about?
You Can Talk To Us.
Anytime you need to talk, 24 hours a day, the world-famous telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences are just a phone call away, and you can call us at 213.291.9497.

Below are just a few of the taboo subjects we can talk about in your telephone sex therapy session (some things we talk about are too taboo to even list!):

 Incest
Age Play
Spanking
Cuckoldry
Dominance & Submission
Golden Showers
Brown Showers
Gay Sex for Straight People
Humiliation
Sexual Harassment

Cheating
Rape Fantasy
Interracial Sex
Cannibalism
Family Sex
Forced Sex
Anal Sex

Penis Size
Sissification
Bondage
Mom
Blackmail
Fetish

 We talk about these taboo subjects both in terms of 1) reality and its inherent problems, and 2) fantasy and its myriad pleasures. For more information, call 213.291.9497.

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The Dr. Susan Block Institute Established 1991

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213.291.9497

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Spanking Phone Sex Therapy

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Spanking is an activity heavy with erotic significance. Whether you’d like to spank or be spanked, there’s something so voluptuously yummy about the idea that you or your partner has been very naughty and needs to be punished.

What’s the best part? That all too familiar sound of a hand against a quivering bare bottom? The stinging redness left behind? Maybe it’s the moment of anticipation, hand poised in the air ready to come down and deliver, when the world seems to stop and the spankee braces him or herself in preparation for the inevitable.

Would you like to be the disciplinarian, to have that parental power of punishment over someone else?
Perhaps you would like to be the one bent over and reminded of just how bad of a boy or girl you’ve been…

Crops, whips, canes, belts, paddles and hands…

Need to talk to someone about something you can’t talk about with anyone else?
You Can Talk To Us.

Click Here to Read Dr. Susan Block’s Essay
Spankology 101: The Psychology, Physiology, Art, History, Politics and Eroticism of Spanking

Click Here to Read Dr. Block’s Definition of “Spanking” in
The Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality

We are the Spanking Experts.

Anytime you need to talk, 24 hours a day, the world-famous telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences are just a phone call away, and you can call us at 213.291.9497.

The Dr. Susan Block Institute Established 1991

For more information, call our recorded line.

213.291.9497

We’re available 24/7, including all holidays.

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Humiliation Phone Sex Therapy

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The humiliation fetish is very common, yet often rather difficult to handle in a healthy, safe, sex-positive manner.

The Dr. Susan Block Institute boasts some of the world’s foremost experts in the art and science of Humiliation Phone Sex Therapy.  We specialize in role-playing a variety of types of humiliation, including cuckold, small penis, loser, slut, slave, “forced” feminization or sissification, exhibitionist, creep, buffoon, blackmail games, cock control, public disgrace, money slavery and classic domination & submission (D&S), sadomaschism (S/M) as well as bondage & discipline (B&D) and other variations on this more and more popular, but usually misunderstood and mishandled fetish.

We understand that sometimes you need to feel a little bit bad in order to feel really good.  Our “Everybody is OK” society can pressure you so much to improve your self-esteem, that sometimes the only antidote is to be taken down a peg.

 

On the other hand, Dr. Susan Block is an expert in helping people to reduce dependence on humiliation as an erotic trigger, and she can help you too, if that is what you need and desire.

It’s not easy to balance a healthy sexuality with a fetish for being demeaned, denigrated, hurt, insulted, belittled, mocked, called names and/or turned into an object of public disgrace.

We will create a Personalized Humiliation Treatment Program just for you that involves therapy that gives you understanding of why you have this particular fetish, humiliation phone sex and/or fantasy roleplay sessions, self-esteem enhancement therapy, a personalized plan for your healthy sexual future and effective humiliation fetish coping mechanisms.

Please rest assured that Humiliation Phone Sex Therapy, as well as any kind of therapy with the Dr. Susan Block Institute, is absolutely private and confidential.

For more information about Telephone Sex Therapy of any kind with The Dr. Susan Block Institute, call 213.291.9497.

Need to talk about something you can’t talk about with anyone else?
You Can Talk To Us.
Anytime you need to talk, 24 hours a day, the world-famous telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences are just a phone call away, and you can call us at 213.291.9497.

The Dr. Susan Block Institute Established 1991

For more information, call our recorded line.

213.291.9497

We’re available 24/7, including all holidays.

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Guided Masturbation

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“Make love to someone you love tonight, even if that someone is you.”
Susan Block, PhD

Masturbation is the most primary activity of our sexual lives. Yet it is shrouded in secrecy and shame. There are many reasons to masturbate, and not just in the merry Masturbation Month of May. Here are eight of them.

 Guided Masturbation Phone Sex Therapy with the Block Institute incorporates various techniques such as erotic hypnosis, deep relaxation, tantric breathing and fantasy roleplay to help you to achieve stronger orgasms, last longer, become a better lover, get to know your body, break through hangups and inhibitions, enter a special fantasy or fetish world, and/or experience a state of higher arousal and deeper relaxation than you’ve ever experienced before.

Go on a very personalized body-and-mind trip, an erotic adventure into self-love via Guided Masturbation with the Dr. Susan Block Institute.

We use Guided Masturbation to unlock many positive aspects of our sexuality, as well as to cope with and control negative aspects.

Let Your Fingers Do the Walking as We Do the Talking…

To talk to one of our many expert Masturbation Guides, Call The Dr. Susan Block Institute Anytime at 213.291.9497.

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“If God had intended us not to masturbate, S/he would have made our arms shorter.”
George Carlin

 

The Dr. Susan Block Institute Established 1991

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Fetish Phone Sex Therapy

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What can be a fetish? Just about anything. But not just anything.

A sexual fetish is a profound erotic desire for something; it could be a boot, a breast or a burqa. One could also have a fetish for an activity, such as watching, being watched, spanking or being spanked. One can even have a fetish for a concept, like fame, or a feeling, like love. Whatever the sexual fetish object, the fetishist invests in it great sexual power.

What do you think of when you hear the word “fetish” ? What images come to your mind? Do you have a fetish? Do you know someone who does? Do you enjoy your fetish, or do you have problems with it, or maybe a little bit of both?

No matter how “out-there” your particular fetish may seem to be, chances are that it’s far more commonplace than you think. From high heels to hamburgers, from angora to airplanes, from money to mortuaries, all fetishes are welcome here at the Dr. Susan Block Institute, at least in terms of talking about them. We can even help you to keep your fetish “under control” with our uniquely effective Fetish Coping Techniques

Read Dr. Block’s entry on Fetish in the Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality

Need to talk to someone about something you can’t talk about with anyone else?
You can talk to us.
Anytime you need to talk, 24 hours a day, the world-famous telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences are just a phone call away, and you can call us at 213.291.9497.

The Dr. Susan Block Institute Established 1991

For more information, call our recorded line.

213.291.9497

We’re available 24/7, including all holidays.

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