Bonobo Liberation Therapy

Based on The Bonobo Way of Peace through Pleasure

Dare to Free Your Inner Bonobo & Be All You Can Be!

People are going bonobos. It sounds like a hot new dance and, in a way, it is. But if you don’t know a bonobo from a banana, you really should read Dr. Block’s new book The Bonobo Way to learn the basics about our “Make Love Not War” Great Ape close cousins who swing through the trees as well as with each other.

Then, when you’re ready to liberate your inner bonobo and be all you can be—in the bedroom and everywhere else—call the therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute at 626-461-5950.

The Dr. Susan Block Institute and Block Bonobo Foundation are dedicated to protecting, promoting and researching bonobo chimpanzees, as well as educating people in The Bonobo Way; that is, how these great apes use sex to maintain peace, playfulness and gender equality in their societies, and how we can learn something from them about sex, love and peace on earth.

Whether or not you liberate your inner bonobo, we urge you to help save the real bonobos in the rainforest from imminent extinction. Here are some places where you can donate:

Lola ya Bonobo
Bonobo Conservation Initiative
The Great Ape Trust
Block Bonobo Foundation

The BONOBO WAY
Peace through Pleasure

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Striptease Therapy

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Are you turned on by a good striptease? Do you love the seductive style of a sensuous exotic dancer? Do you get a voyeuristic thrill from the bawdy bounce of burlesque? Do you crave the devastating tease and denialof the skilled ecdysiast? Or do you go for the “amateur,” the sexy girl on the dance floor who lets the music flow through her body like a shimmering stream of pure rhythm?

Do you like to watch your lover dance for you just before you make love? Or do you prefer to gaze upon a stranger, a hot, untouchable, superstar stripper high up above you on the strip club stage? Do supple pole dancers drive you crazy? Are you a helpless fan of the femme fatale? A sucker for a supple lapdance?

Have you ever watched a sexy dancer—on the stage, at a club or in your dreams—wishing you could get to know her better? Do you fantasize about getting her alone and having her deliver on what her dance seems to promise you? Do you imagine her dancing all over you, stripping off your clothes along with hers, then rhythmically riding you into a series of orgasms that has both of you screaming with deep wild pleasure and harmonious erotic energy?

Or do you worry that you (or a loved one) might be “addicted” to strippers? Are you hanging out in strip clubs whenever you can, cheating on your partner or missing work, sticking all your hard-earned cash in those irresistible little G-strings or just giving the stripper of your dreams money shower after shower, until your wallet is empty and dry?

Or perhaps you prefer doing the striptease to watching it. Are you a secret exhibitionist who longs to strip upon a stage, to reveal what you so often conceal? Would you like to be an exotic dancer—professionally or just for fun? Do you need advice about the “business” or encouragement to strip for personal, private pleasure? Are you having trouble handling your desires for exhibitionism? Are you a stripper that wants to transition into a different kind of life?

Do you need to talk about it?

You can talk to us. Call the Dr. Susan Block Institute now or anytime, 24/7, for Striptease Therapy. What exactly is “Striptease Therapy”? It can take a variety of forms, depending on you and your needs. Whether you need help disciplining your out-of-control stripper fetish, getting up the courage to do a seductive striptease for your husband (or wife), or roleplaying an exotic dancer domination fantasy, give us a call at 213.291.9497.

Dancing is the world’s oldest art form. People have been dancing since shortly after they started walking, and some of the first dances they did were erotic dances, also known as “fertility dances.” Essentially, these were dances to make the crops grow along with the men’s erections, dances to make the rain fall as the women got wet. Some say that any kind of dance is erotic. George Bernard Shaw famously called dancing “a vertical expression of a horizontal desire.”

Stripping is also very old. Probably as soon as people started wearing clothes, some people started taking their clothes off in a sexy, seductive way. Keep in mind that for many thousands of years, we humans were as naked as all the other animals in the forest. As we started to wear clothing, human nudity became taboo. Unclothing—or stripping—became theteasing “gateway” between the acceptable, civilized, clothed world and the realm of forbidden, primal nudity.

Thus stripping is one of the most basic, powerful aphrodisiacs there is. The gradual, sensuous removal of articles of clothing reveals the natural mysteries of the human body in a viscerally exciting way that takes us from our cultured world of clothing to a naked realm of primeval pleasures and our deep evolutionary origins. A well-known University of Chicago Sex Survey found that the second most common turn-on, next to regular sexual intercourse, is watching someone sexy taking off their clothes.

Slowly…as one of the greatest American strippers, Gypsy Rose Lee said, “Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly” (though, if you’re in a hurry, a quick strip can also hit the spot!)….

Speaking of Gypsy, in response to her request for a “more dignified” way to refer to her profession than “stripper,” H. L. Mencken is credited with coining the word “ecdysiast” – from “ecdysis”, meaning “to molt.”

Striptease in mythology goes at least as far back as the ancient Sumerian story of the descent of the goddess Inanna into the Underworld where, at each of the seven gates, she removes an article of clothing until her naked arrival in hell. Inanna’s cosmic striptease is carried on in the Dance of the Seven Veils of Salome, who danced for King Herod in the New Testament (Matthew 14:6 and Mark 6:21-22). Though the Bible records Salome’s dance, the first mention of her actually removing seven veils occurs in Oscar Wilde‘s play Salome in 1893 and Richard Strauss‘s operatic version in 1905, which some claim as the origin of modern striptease.

In the Gay Nineties, striptease and burlesque flourished in Paris at the Moulin Rouge and Folies Bergère, and in 1905, the notorious and tragic Dutch dancer, Mata Hari, later shot as a spy by the French authorities during World War I, was an overnight striptease success at the Musée Guimet. In the 1920s, an American in Paris, Josephine Baker, stripped to nothing but a “skirt” of bananas in her sensational danse sauvage.

The 1960s saw a revival of striptease in the form of topless go-go dancing. This eventually merged with the older tradition of burlesque to create modern stripping. Carol Doda of the Condor Night Club in San Francisco is given the credit of being the first topless—then bottomless—go-go dancer. In the past, the performance often finished as soon as the undressing was over, but today’s strippers usually continue dancing, pole-dancing and lapdancing in the nude.

Meanwhile, burlesque or “neo-burlesque” has branched off from stripping into a separate, somewhat more “dignified” and more humor-infused dance form, maintaining the old striptease traditions with new twists. Then there are the modern temple dancers who perform “striptease therapy” in the sacred traditions of Aphrodite and Apsara. So many ways to strip and tease!

One of the most famous striptease artists of modern times, Dita Von Teese, has appeared twice on The Dr. Susan Block Show, including once when Dr. Block interviewed Bettie Page, the late legendary American striptease, pin-up and fetish model, in 1996.

Dr. Block also wrote the definition of STRIPTEASE for the new Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality.

But back to you…and your stripper fetish…

Do you need to talk with someone who’s been on both sides of the lapdance? For serious sex therapy or a pleasureable phone experience or help with your—or your loved one’s—stripper habit, give us a call right now or anytime you need to talk. Call 213.291.9497. We’re here for you.

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Sexual Surrogate Therapy

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Have you been considering working with a sexual surrogate?

Are you experiencing performance anxiety, erectile difficulties, inability to orgasm, premature ejaculation, an extreme lack of confidence, severe shyness, a sexless relationship or other sexual “complications” that you can’t seem to work out on your own?

Have you wondered if there is a serious, therapeutic, “hands-on” way to improve your sex life?

If you’re thinking about working with a sexual surrogate or “sex surrogate,” our staff of trained phone sex therapists is available to discuss your desires and needs. If you’re interested in learning, ready to start working with a sexual surrogate or if you need help deciding if sexual surrogacy is right for you, call The Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime 24/7 at 213.291.9497.

What do you know about sexual surrogacy?

Sexual surrogate therapy is an alternative method of sex therapy which a therapist may recommend for those individuals who have serious problems engaging in fulfilling sex. Sexuality, while a natural and rich source of pleasure, is generally at its richest when expressed with a partner. But sex with a partner, or even the prospect of obtaining a partner at all, often comes with compromises and complications.

For some, emotional trauma, low self-esteem, fear of intimacy or many other social barriers can make the act of sexual intercourse a near-impossible achievement. For others, there are physical obstacles, such as impotence or delayed or “premature” ejaculation. And then of course, there are the social skills and opportunity required in acquiring a sex partner in the first place. Surely, the pressure of obtaining a partner can worsen existing issues with nervousness, anxiety or depression.

Sexual issues can be psychological and emotional matters where regular “talk” therapy is the best treatment. On the other hand, sexuality is, in part, also physical, and sometimes physical help is required and beneficial. This is where sexual surrogate therapy comes in. Working in conjunction with a therapist, the trained sexual surrogate takes a step-by-step, hands-on approach based on the classic work sensate focus therapy of Masters & Johnson, in combination with other traditional and nontraditional therapies. A sexual surrogate will spend the time it takes (usually several weeks) to work slowly with the client to help them work through all the issues of concern, emotionally, and when appropriate, physically as well.

The Block Institute works with California state-certified sexual surrogates. Of course, we always stay within the strict confines of the law on these matters. We also recommend that you contact the International Professional Surrogates Association (IPSA).

But if you need help deciding if sex surrogacy is right for you or if you just need to talk about your problem, you can give us a call anytime 24/7. Someone is always here to talk with you, and we may be able to get you started working with a sexual surrogate and/or therapist. Sexual surrogacy is not legal in every state or country, but talking about it always is.
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Crossdressing Phone Sex Therapy

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Gentlemen: Do you like wearing women’s clothing?

Do you get aroused, have fun or just feel comfortable wearing feminine lingerie, stockings, dresses, skirts, lacy or silky panties, bras, garter belts, wigs, high heels and/or makeup?

Do you crossdress openly or is it a big secret?

Would you like to share your secret crossdressing fantasies with someone–perhaps a lover, therapist, friend or understanding stranger–with your complete confidentiality absolutely guaranteed?

Ladies: Did you find a lacy thong stashed in a hidden compartment of your husband’s briefcase? Don’t jump to conclusions. They may not be another woman’s–but his!

Do you want to learn more about why you (or your lover) enjoy crossdressing? Would you like to find out where your transvestite or transsexual fetish or fantasies come from, or how you can best cope with your crossdressing desires?

Maybe it’s time you call the world’s foremost Crossdressing Phone Sex Therapy Specialists. We’re always here for you, anytime you need to talk, 24/7. You can call us now at 213.291.9497.

Crossdressing is nothing new. From ancient Greek drama, which featured men in all the women’s roles, to Victorian Bloomer Girls to modern drag queens, ever since men and women started wearing different clothes, they found excuses to wear each other’s clothes. Currently, unlike men, women who wear “male” clothing have few social problems. Tomboys are accepted. Sissies are not. Women wear pants and nobody even blinks, but when a man wears a skirt (unless perhaps, its a kilt), its usually a big deal. It doesn’t seem fair, but such are the decrees of socio-sexual fashion.

How does male crossdressing start? Every crossdresser has a different story, but most begin their lifelong love affair with feminine apparel around early adolescence. The first glimmers of the fetish often revolve around Mama‘s sensual, forbidden panties or nylons. Many teenage boys get aroused by touching or smelling Mom’s or Sister’s lingerie, usually hanging tantalizingly over a towel rack or lying nestled in a hamper. Crossdressers take this common interest a step further by actually trying it on.

Some say the desire to crossdress starts as a sort of security blanket when a boy seeks comfort in Mom’s clothing to escape a harsh or absent Dad. If he’s caught in the act, he’s often humiliated which makes him feel guilty, but enhances the excitement of crossdressing. Some say crossdressing is partly genetic. Regardless of the cause, most experts agree that the desire to crossdress is not something someone can simply eliminate, even with therapy, especially if it’s been going on since childhood.

What do men feel when they crossdress? Many thoughts, feelings, sensations, desires and fantasies may course through their veins and penetrate their brains as they wear feminine clothing. They might feel it’s exciting, relaxing (even tranquilizing), mystical, dangerous, taboo, irreverent, erotic and more. Some really want to be women (and may eventually become transsexuals). Some are gay. But most are straight or bisexual. Many say they feel that deep inside, they are lesbians. Some might have trouble connecting with women, so they dress up so they can be the kind of lady they’d like to go out with, but can’t find. Then there’s James, a retired judge (male), who just married Sharon, an attorney (female). It was a beautiful crossdressed wedding: James wore a full-length bridal gown, and Sharon wore a top hat and tuxedo.

Why is it that so many closet crossdressers are judges, fire fighters, construction workers, police officers, attorneys, and CEOs? Usually, they’re overcompensating or trying to *disguise* their feminine desires by working in a field that’s traditionally ultra-male. Many feel that ladies are pampered. Whether that’s accurate is irrelevant. The fact is when these men crossdress, they feel pampered. They forget the manly stresses of the board room, fire station or construction site, and simply relax and have fun. It’s ironic that when most women want to relax, they take off their high heels and garters, and put on a T-shirt and shorts. The fact that some men get comfortable by taking off their jeans and putting on a corset is one of the great paradoxical joys of crossdressing.

There is nothing ethically “wrong” with crossdressing, thought many people, societies and religions maintain that its wrong. The biggest problems arise when, because of these social pressures to conform, crossdressers feel they must stay in the closet, which most do. Many lifelong crossdressers have girlfriends, or even wives of many years they wouldn’t dream of telling about their undercover fashion passion. Their desire for secrecy is understandable, since the potential for stinging rejection or worse is immense.

Your secrets are safe with us, and your confidentiality is absolutely guaranteed. Anytime you need to talk, 24 hours a day, the world-famous telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences are just a phone call away. You may talk with a male, female or shemale therapist. For more information, call 213.291.9497.

Though we completely understand and honor the need that most crossdressers have for complete secrecy, there’s no doubt that most crossdressers are happier and healthier–and less likely to get into trouble–if they can share their fetish with someone they are close to. If you are a crossdresser and you want to open up to a partner, we can help you turn this exciting thought into a reality.

We also understand that some wives might have a tough time coping with the revelation of their husbands’ crossdressing. Though transvestitism itself is very difficult to stop, with a little knowledge and a lot of love, wives have been known to change how they deal with their husbands’ fetish. Usually this requires modification on the husband’s part as well, not necessarily of the crossdressing itself, but of some other aspect of his behavior toward his wife. Keep in mind that though some women are horrified to discover their husband is crossdressing, some not only tolerate it, they love it. You may, despite your assumptions, find that you enjoy it too. And hey, if your sizes aren’t too different, you two can trade panties!

Whether you need serious crossdressing therapy, guided masturbation, erotic hypnosis, knowledgeable advice, counseling, help with a problem or just a hot phone sex therapy experience, call us at 213.291.9497.

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Tease & Denial Phone Sex Therapy

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Do you like to be teased? Does it arouse you to be made to wait for that sweet moment of release? Or would you rather do the teasing, prolonging your seduction to make the object of your desire crazy with lust for you? What is it that can make the art of “tease and denial” so irresistible, it’s as if it weaves a magic spell around its helpless, happy victim?

Everyone needs a little tease, at least sometimes. Men need to be teased because it makes them slow down. Women need to be teased because it makes us come around. Teasing puts the pizzazz and mystery into sex. Otherwise, we’d just be rutting animals. Even animals tease! Look at the stop-start, pounce-retreat mating dances of birds, cats, apes, even snakes.

A good tease is erotic but indirect, slowly building up to total seduction and surrender. As that consummate strip tease artist Gypsy Rose Lee once said, “Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly.” A great tease has all the time in the world. And with a great tease, you never know if you’re going to get the gold you’re going for. You might, but then again you might not. You have to be flexible with a tease. You have to remember the Golden Rule of Tease: You never know. The best laid plans may not get you laid the way you planned. You have to be willing to go with the tease, please…

Teasing wears a variety of masks and hats. There is the innocent tease who doesn’t even know she’s a tease, and is all the more devastating for it. There’s the experienced tease who spins her webs of seduction with great skill and sensitivity. I say “her” because, though men can tease too, teasing is a feminine wile. It is manipulative and circuitous, womanly attributes. Some teasing is spontaneous, light as a feather. Some teasing is calculated, steeped in the art of salacious sorcery. Some teasing is loving and sweet, almost nurturing, like tickling a baby. Some teasing is playful and charming, dazzling and devastatingly witty. Some teasing is mean and nasty, even vicious and cruel. Teasing can also be humiliating and torturous. And some teasing really hurts. Rapes, murders, even MASS murders have been committed by people—even children–who say they did it because they were teased. Teasing can be dangerous. It can be quite harmless too, of course. That is why we say “I’m just teasing!” to insist we’re harmless. But it is the dangerous aspects of teasing that make it erotic. That, and the sensuous nature of revealing something slowly, gradually, then maybe not at all, then maybe a little more. It is too dangerous to show more. Too hot to handle. That is the Art of the Tease.

One of the greatest teases of history, believe it or not, is Queen Esther of the Bible. The shrewd and seductive Esther of Shushan, in what is now Iran, teased the great and powerful Persian King Ahasuerus into such an erotic frenzy that he freed her people from genocide. Queen Cleopatra of Egypt was also a great tease; it was her extraordinary teasing ability that kept the Romans guessing and ultimately kept Egypt governed by its own people (that is, herself) until her death.

In modern times, teasing is the stuff of stars, Marilyn Monroe being the most legendary tease. Bettie Page, sometimes called the Dark Marilyn, was also a most delicious tease. Now Dita Von Teese continues the legacy of the tease. I was privileged to have Bettie Page as a guest on my show a few years ago–with Dita (when she was an 18-year-old Heather Sweet) in my studio audience! Though Bettie spoke with me on the air for over an hour, she refused to show her face. What a tease. She said she wanted us to think of her the way she was, forever young and beautiful; she wanted control of her image.

And, yes, teasing is about control. Once you lose control, you’re not teasing anymore. It’s tough to tease when you’re in mid-orgasm. Once the orgasm is on, the tease is over….unless you’re a really good tease.

Does all this talk about teasing make you yearn to be teased?

Call the telephone sex therapists of The Dr. Susan Block Institute for Tease and Denial Phone Sex Therapy. Whether you’re looking to be teased yourself by one of our sweet, charming, experienced, degreed and/or deliciously cruel sex therapists, if you’re in need of some teasing advice to seduce that someone you’ve been wanting for a while, or if you want to better understand, explore, express, limit and/or control your desire for tease and denial, we’re here for you 27/7. We are the world’s foremost experts in the fine art of tease and denial. Call now at 213.291.9497.

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Boot Phone Sex Therapy

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Do you like sexy boots? Do you lust for a lady in shiny, spike-heeled latex thigh-highs? Or do you prefer to worship a mistress’ feet in deliciously strong-smelling leather boots? Maybe you’d prefer a hot master in cowboy boots or tough, scuffed army boots. Would you rather wear the boots yourself, or do you want to be “forced” to spit-shine those boots and play with them—or let them play with you—in other kinky ways? Do you ever find yourself going under the sexual spell of a pair of sexy boots?

Whatever your personal interest, fantasy, question or desire, our Boot Fetish Phone Sex Therapists have got “boots on the ground” and we’re here to help you talk about, understand, explore, cope with—and indulge in—your fantasies as well as deal with your reality. For information, call 213.291.9497

Perhaps you like a bit of pain with your pleasure. As Nancy Sinatra sang, “These boots are made for walking, and that’s just what they’ll do. One of these days, these boots are gonna walk all over you!” Do you like when sexy boots step on you or even kick you when you’re down? Maybe you just like to rub yourself against the instep, take the heel anally or ride the toe of that sexy boot into boot fetish ecstasy.

To talk to a Boot Fetish Phone Sex Therapist with the Dr. Susan Block Institute right now, call 213.291.9497.

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Dirty Talk Phone Sex Therapy

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Do you like to “talk dirty”? Do you get sexually aroused from breaking verbal taboos or hearing them broken by a hot lover with a sexy voice and an uninhibited imagination? Many people are offended, insulted, shocked or just put off by “dirty talk,” so-called “four-letter words,” “obscene,” “indecent” or “vulgar” sexual terminology. Of course, this offensive aspect of talking dirty is a key reason that so many other people find it to be highly erotic. Sometimes we need to be “bad” to feel good, and using “forbidden” words and phrases for various sexual activities is an easy, relatively harmless way to get that naughty, nasty, or even filthy feeling that can make you feel so fantastic.

Here at the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, we understand the sexual, healing power of talking dirty. Though we are, for the most part, educated, empathetic, verbally adept and considerate, we also believe that dirty talk can be a valuable component of fantasy role-play, BDSM play, relaxation and/or guided masturbation. And some of us just love it! So…need to talk dirty, hear dirty talk, learn to talk dirty or get tips on how to get your lover to talk dirty with you? Call us now or anytime at 213.291.9497.

For some people, “talking dirty” is like speaking an exotic, intensely sexual language. Just as traveling to a foreign land can ignite a romance in a flagging libido, so can “dirty talk” provide a “brain vacation” that carries you away from the stressful and tedious reality of politically correct discourse, taking you to a place where you can say all that is usually forbidden and let loose the wild lover within you as you experience the erotic pleasure that you usually repress.

Of course, a page about “Talking Dirty” isn’t complete without some dirty words. So here’s a list of just a few of the more popular ones (starting with the late great George Carlin’s famous “seven dirty words” you can’t say on TV). WARNING: If you are under 18, or if real “dirty talk” with real “dirty words” offends you, do not read any farther….

fuck
cunt
piss
shit
cocksucker
motherfucker
tits
pussy
twat
hole
slit
cock
dick
balls
ass
asshole
whore
bitch
slut
etc.

If you don’t see your favorites, give us a call at and let us know what we should add!

Whether you need to talk dirty, clean, clinical, intellectual, sensual, romantic, analytical, playful or wild, we’re here for you. Give the world-renowned sex therapists of The Dr. Susan Block Institute a call anytime you need to talk. For information, call 213.291.9497

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Stockings and Pantyhose Phone Sex Therapy

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Don’t you love the way a pair of fine, silky-smooth nylons accentuates the length and shape of a gorgeous pair of legs ending in a hot set of high heels—or maybe just sexy “stocking feet”? Do you like naughty garters and old-fashioned, back-seamed stockings or lace-trimmed thigh highs? Perhaps you prefer the fuller coverage of classic pantyhose completely encasing legs, crotch and buns in a tight but ever-so-flexible “second skin” of sheer nylon.

Do you need to talk about your feelings about nylons, stockings or pantyhose? Call the Block Institute at 213.291.9497. Several of our telephone sex therapists are experts in this area of fashion and fetish.

There are so many ways to enjoy the sensual, sartorial magic of fine hosiery…

Stockings incite our senses of sight, touch and smell. Maybe you long to worship, touch, stroke, kiss or sniff feminine feet and legs wrapped like presents in silky nylon or teasing fishnets. Or is it the sight of a charmingly round rump peeking out from above a pair of saucy thigh-highs under a short skirt that arouses you? A pair of sweet, innocent, white knee socks under a school uniform? Or a slinky catsuit or bodystocking sheathing everything in translucent hosiery?

Nude, black or multi-colored, pantyhose conceals as it reveals all that is forbidden below the belt. Perhaps you enjoy the feeling of silky, ultra-sheer pantyhose on your own legs and crotch. Or maybe you just like to play with stockings, wrapping them around your most sensitive body parts for that ineffable, erotic sensation.

Of course, ladies who like to wear nylons usually have no problem putting them on, showing them off and finding partners with whom to enjoy them. Most men like ladies in nylons. But what about men who like to wear them?

That wonderful feeling that so many men get from playing with or wearing “ladies’” hosiery can be tremendously arousing, extremely relaxing or an intensely pleasurable combination of arousal and relaxation. Maybe you started playing as a child or teenager with your mother’s, sister’s or aunt’s stockings or pantyhose, or perhaps you were inspired by your first girlfriend, a special lover, lingerie catalogue or some other catalyst.

Do you need to talk about it with someone who “gets” it? Talking about the source of your feelings for nylons can help you to enjoy them in healthier ways. It can also be very exciting. Call our 24-hour Hosiery Help Hotline at 213.291.9497.

It’s important to talk about this with someone who understands, because in addition to the pleasurable feelings, the stocking or pantyhose lover—or fetishist–may also have feelings of deep anxiety, confusion, guilt or shame about his nylon desires.

One source of this anxiety lies in the fact that contemporary society considers fine hosiery to be for *women only* to wear. It hasn’t always been so. In the 18^th century, many very manly men (like George Washington, Thomas Jefferson and our other Founding Fathers) wore silk stockings and high heels on a regular basis without any fear of being considered effeminate. In the future, hosiery for men might well make a fashion comeback.

But at the moment, society tells men who enjoy wearing stockings and pantyhose that there is something too feminine or just plain *wrong* with them. Sometimes that makes a man’s hosiery fetish even stronger, spicing up the natural pleasures of sheer nylon with the erotic zing of crossing the threshold of the taboo.

But it can also exacerbate anxiety, guilt and shame. Many men are so ashamed of their stocking fetish that they feel they can’t or won’t share it with anyone, even their own wives.

Everyone deserves privacy, especially in that most private of realms, the world of sexual desire. But keeping strong fetish feelings all to yourself can be very stressful and confusing. Of course, it can be dangerous to tell people you know, even—or perhaps especially–people who love you. Talking to an understanding sex therapy professional is usually your best bet. Call the Block Institute at 213.291.9497.

We can help you grapple with the important questions. “Why do I like this so much?“ you may wonder. “Am I a stocking fetishist or pantyhose addict? Can I stop or should I embrace my fetish? Does this mean I want to be a woman or just that I like to wear nylons? Does this mean I want to be with men? Or do I just want a woman to accept me for me nylon fetish? Can I share this with someone I love or is this just a private indulgence?”

Unlike most sex therapists, we can also help you to enjoy the sheer fun of your stocking or pantyhose fetish through fantasy exploration, role-play, guided masturbation, nylon play, stocking shopping therapy and erotic hypnosis.

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Tickle Fetish Phone Sex Therapy

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Do you like tickling? Do you relish tickling a lover until he or she is breathless with laughter and writhing in pain and joy? Or would you rather be tickled, forced to surrender, gasping for mercy, to the wild fingers of a hot lover, until you can’t help but orgasm in ticklish ecstasy?

Our Tickle Fetish Phone Sex Therapists are here to help you talk about, understand, explore, cope with—and indulge in—your tickling fantasies. For information, call 213.291.9497

What’s so special about the teasing, titillating touch of tickling?

Tickling can be a type of “horseplay,” torture, silly sexy fun, deep power exchange, sensual exploration, stimulation or humiliation. Maybe you like to hold a sexy submissive down, take her by surprise, or tie her up and tickle-torture her until she laughs, shrieks, cries and begs for relief. Or perhaps you’d like to be subdued and tortured with tickles on the most sensitive, ticklish parts of your body. Whether it’s the tempting curve of a waist, the soft tummy, inviting underarm, flirtatious feet, the vulnerable inner thighs, or the tantalizing nape of the neck, giving up power and being at the mercy of naughty fingers or devious feathers is a kind of physical and mental submission, as well as an intimate display of trust between partners.

Unfortunately, some people can’t stand being tickled. Others aren’t ticklish at all, and what fun is that? Some think tickling is for kids, or they just don’t “get it.” Naturally, this makes many tickle fetishists rather shy about sharing their fetish with others, fearing rejection or misunderstanding.

Here at the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, we “get it.”
We understand and love to explore the erotic pleasures of tickling.
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Childhood tickle games are usually the first times we experience that crazy “tickle high,” the endorphin-raising ecstasy of pleasure mixed with heightened tension bordering on pain that comes with being tickled, as well as the heady power rush of being the tickler. Adult tickling can bring back those erotic memories as well as give both tickler and ticklee that wild and free feeling of being a child again (without involving any real-life children, of course).

Tickling has been an aspect of sex since prehistoric times. Bonobos, dogs, cats and other mammals often tickle each other as they play, sometimes as a kind of foreplay for sex. The ancient Indian Kama Sutra waxes eloquently about the sexual joys of tickling. While the Chinese, Japanese and ancient Romans would use tickling as a form of genuine torture, the Victorians appreciated tickling for its erotic capacity; being tied up and tickled to a kind of ticklegasm was an extremely common fantasy, as well as a specialty of the better Victorian bordellos. Famous tickle-lovers from history include the Egyptian Queen Hatshepsut and Russian Empress Catherine the Great who are said to have enjoyed having their royal feet tickled ritually before and during sex. It’s no wonder that a hot body writhing and wriggling uncontrollably under a barrage of tickles remains a steamy dream for many fetishists.

So…what about you? Need to talk about ticking? Want to get important, enlightening insight into your personal tickle fetish or learn how to introduce tickling games to your spouse or potential lover? Need to work through your fears or shame about tickling? Or perhaps you would like to experience a phone sex fantasy role-play tickle-torture session—giving or receiving. Our tickle fetish phone sex therapists have their fingers ready! Call 213.291.9497 right now or anytime you’re ready to tickle or be tickled.

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Cheating Phone Sex Therapy

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Are you thinking about cheating?

Are you currently engaged in a secret sexual affair? Or maybe you’re just curious, seriously considering having extra-marital sex, but it hasn’t happened… yet. Then again, perhaps you’d never actually do it, but you can’t help fantasizing about it. Or is it the other way around: Do you think your spouse is cheating on you? How do you feel about it? Devastated? Jealous? Enraged? Excited? Aroused? Confused? Need to talk about your feelings? Need help figuring out what to do, if anything?

The telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute understand the thrill and the guilt, the dread and desire, the fantastic excitement and real life repercussions of infidelity, adultery, betrayal, duplicity, cuckoldry and cheating. Let us give you the kind of help you need right now. We’re open 24/7. Call us now or anytime you need to talk:

Need more information before you call? Keep reading to learn the different ways that “Cheating Phone Sex Therapy” with the Block Institute can help you.

Are you currently cheating?

Are you now having an affair now and need to talk to someone about it? Are you sexually involved with a friend, co-worker or someone you met online, unbeknownst to your spouse? Perhaps you’re secretly seeing a “professional,” such as an escort, mistress, masseuse or dominatrix. Are you committed to keeping your marriage (or other serious relationship) going, but driven by this insatiable urge to “cheat”? Is it the irresistible chemistry of your lover? Is it because your spouse will not have sex with you, or at least not in the way you want to have sex? Or is it the taboo thrill of adultery itself that sexually excites you in ways your marriage alone never does?

Regardless of your reason for cheating, the burden of leading a double life is bound to cause you anxiety. Do you need to talk about it? We at the Block Institute are not here to judge you. We’re here to help. That might mean helping you to better understand and cope with your desire to cheat, whether it’s due to fixable problems with your spouse, your own natural promiscuity or something else. If you want to stop, we can help you to stop cheating. If you don’t, we can help you negotiate your secret life with your more public life. Then again, maybe you just need an understanding, open-minded ear to listen to your story with compassion and empathy. Whatever you need to talk about, we’re here for you. Call us at 213.291.9497

Do you think your spouse is cheating on you?

Are you suspicious that your spouse is having an affair? Are you wondering if the rumors of infidelity are true? Need help trying to determine if your suspicions are valid? Are you unsure of the next step to take and want a plan of action? Your sense of betrayal, hurt, rage, excitement and confusion can be so overwhelming that it feels impossible to think, let alone act rationally. Experiencing a wide range of feelings–from fear to envy, anger to arousal, sadness to relief, aggression to depression, rage to lust–is entirely natural. If you need help dealing with these conflicted feelings, or figuring out what’s really going on and/or deciding what to do about your suspected cheating spouse, the telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute are here to help. Call us at 213.291.9497

Are you considering having an affair?

Are you seriously thinking about looking outside your marriage for something you feel is missing: the thrill of sex with someone new? Are you desperately yearning for the kind of sex you can’t have with your spouse? Do you troll Ashley Madison, escorting websites or your Facebook friend list, on the verge of getting into an extramarital affair? Do you need to weigh the pros and cons of cheating with an experienced expert who won’t judge you, but will help you make some important decisions about your sex life? Of course, society frowns upon cheating—and for many good reasons. But sometimes having an affair is the “right” thing to do for various reasons, one of which might be that your sinking sex life is in serious need of a lifeboat. Sometimes, oddly enough, it can even save your marriage. Then again, maybe you’re open to the idea of re-igniting the spark in your marriage. Dr. Block is an expert at “making marriage feel like an affair.” Whatever your personal concerns and desires are, if you are considering having an affair—or not—we can help. Call us anytime you need to talk at 213.291.9497

Do you fantasize about cheating?

Do you dream of having an affair, but want to steer clear of cheating in real life? Does the fantasy of hot-blooded adultery turn you on, even though you’re pretty sure the reality of doing it would turn your stomach, not to mention destroy your marriage? Do you think about having hot sex with people other than your spouse when you make love or masturbate? Fantasizing is not actually cheating, of course, but it can feel almost as exciting as cheating–and it’s a whole lot safer.

Have you ever used phone sex to role-play adulterous fantasies? Would you like to try? Phone sex fantasy roleplay is an effective, exciting, discreet way to enjoy many of the erotic thrills of an affair without actually “having” one. Phone sex is a relatively prudent expression of what Nathaniel Hawthorne called “lawless passion.” If you’re going to have an affair, it’s better (and safer) to do it on the phone than in the flesh. At least, you won’t get an STD. And at best, you’ll get inspiration and ideas to improve your love life with your spouse without entangling your body, not to mention your body fluids, with somebody else’s. In any case, you won’t get lipstick on your zipper, or semen on your dress.

The relative safety of phone sex often involves deeper, more complex feelings than concern over STDs. The phone is a stage upon which you can act out your wildest fantasies, a telephonic erotic “Theatre of the Mind” that allows you to safely explore dangerous, taboo desires. Whatever the nature of your adulterous fantasy, we’re here to help you to express it, enjoy, contain and deal with it in as positive a way as possible with the least danger to your marriage, work, family or any aspect of your “real life.”

Is phone sex cheating? Not inherently. Though if you keep your phone sex a secret from your partner, you feel like you’re cheating, and if you feel like you’re cheating, you probably are. But if you feel compelled to embark upon an affair, and you want to keep things as safe as possible, better to share your lawless passion chaperoned by your telephone. For phone sex fantasy roleplay, call us anytime at 213.291.9497

Do you fantasize about your wife—or future wife—cheating on you?

It goes against conventional wisdom that a married man–or even a divorced or single man—would be excited by the fantasy of his wife—or future wife, girlfriend or ex–cheating by “cuckolding” him. But this type of cuckold fantasy is a lot more common than you might realize, and it is one of the areas in which the telephone sex therapists of the Block Institute specialize. So if you find yourself aroused by cuckold fantasies like this, rest assured you’re not alone.

Besides being about your wife having an affair with another man, this type of cuckold fantasy can be loving or wild, sensuous or kinky, or a combination. It may involve domination, voyeurism, bisexuality, humiliation, interracial sex, feminization, penis size fetishes, striptease, bondage, teasing, oral, anal and many other types of sex that certainly do “spice up” that sacred marital bond—even if you never do any of it in real life. For more information about your cuckolding or hotwifing desires, see Dr. Block’s article on “sperm wars.”

Whether or not you act on these desires, it’s always a good idea to talk about them to someone knowledgeable. Dr. Block can help you to understand your feelings in order to determine what you might want to “act out,” and what is better kept in the realm of fantasy. Sometimes you just want to leave reality for the moment and enter the magical erotic world of fantasy roleplay, and you can do that with Dr. Block or one of our cuckold phone sex therapists.

And yes, of course, you can masturbate (if you want), during sessions. And no, there is no other phone sex or sex therapy service quite like ours.

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Golden Shower Phone Sex Therapy

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Ah, the Golden Water of Life, water that flows freely, shoots majestically and trickles daintily, sun-colored waters that sparkle in the light, tinkle in the porcelain bowl and melt in the mouth of the thirsty connoisseur. Water that heals, arouses, disgusts, excites, offends and humiliates. Water that can feel truly orgasmic in its release, especially after you’ve held it in a little while.

We all do it, and yet it is something special and secretive, something we almost always do in private. We do it in a closet, in a stall, in a sanctuary or behind a tree. Some say it’s just waste. Others long to take a taste.

But what do we call it? “Peeing” sounds childish, but “pissing” is rather crude. “Taking a whiz” is so casual, but “urophilia,” “urolagnia” and even “urination” are so coldly clinical. Kinky terms are more playful: “Golden Showers,” “Water Sports,” “Wetting,” “Sprinkles.” Then there are more the elegant phrases, like “Sexual Champagne” and “Water of Life.” To differentiate it from its cousin, Female Ejaculation (Holy Water), we sometimes call it the Golden Water of Life.

Whatever you call it, if you need to talk about it, you can talk to us….
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Unlike squirting, peeing is not at all esoteric. Everybody does it. There is no special technique to learn except, perhaps, how to relax so you can piss in front of, or on someone. And, of course, it’s nothing “new.” People have been looking at, touching and drinking urine (uraphagia) probably for almost as long as people have been urinating. Urine has proven healing properties. The yellower your nectar, the more vitamins reside within it. Yogis and other health nuts drink a glass of their own “juice” every morning for that extra vitamin-rich boost. And no less of an authority than Madonna has confirmed that peeing on the feet heals athlete’s foot.

Yet there is tremendous, almost phobic misunderstanding about the essentially healthy, happy hobby of piss play. With such a cultural stigma against this natural form of pleasure, introducing your golden shower fetish to a new lover, or even a regular partner, can be a daunting task. Fortunately, here at the Block Institute, we offer private, confidential phone sex therapy for those who love golden showers to safely and nonjudgementally discuss their fantasies and real life situations.

Need to Talk About Golden Showers? Want to learn how to safely incorporate water sports into your sex life? Would you like to better understand where your erotic interest in urination came from? Want to role-play a Golden Shower Fantasy–whether you’d like to pee or be peed on? Call us now or anytime 24/7. We’re here for you. 213.291.9497

Are you aroused by your lover baptizing you in golden nectar, peeing all over your genitals, your chest or directly into your mouth?

You may or may not enjoy the actual taste of the urine. If you have submissive tendencies, you may not like the taste at all, but you crave the humiliation of being pissed on or “forced” to imbibe by a beautiful, powerful mistress or strong, well-hung master. One avid male pee drinker describes the thrill of “empowering women” as his main reason for allowing himself to be completely subjugated by inviting a woman’s sacred sprinkles into his mouth. Some golden shower fetishists revel in the degradation of being drenched by a Dom’s piss or made to swallow it like a human toilet.

Then again, maybe you don’t find receiving a golden shower to be degrading at all; you just enjoy the warm wet intimacy of sharing your lover’s living waters. Of course, sex itself is fluid-intensive; it’s full of warm wetness that is shared intimately, swapped and savored. Golden shower lovers can enjoy the sexual closeness that wetness suggests with added power play and copiously flowing fluid. Some like the taboo nature of indulging in the Yellow Peril, the rush of playing with what most authorities tell you never to touch or taste. Some feel it is an elixir of health and sensuality, others a symbol of enticing shame and mystery.

Do you like to watch others pee? Perhaps, like the famous British sexologist Havelock Ellis, you are a Golden Shower Voyeur who enjoys catching a glimpse of someone sexy engaged in this ever-so-natural yet publicly forbidden act.

Do you enjoy that feeling of urination desperation when you urgently need to pee, but you’re not allowed…yet? Do you like to watch someone else going experiencing urination desperation, then finally releasing right before your eyes, or onto your hand?

If you’re a Golden Shower Exhibitionist, then you like to pee in front of people, or on people, or into their mouths, or into a flute for them to drink like champagne, or to release your golden juice like a rocket shooting off into space, preferably in front of an appreciative audience. Or maybe you just enjoy the power of dominating your partner with the gushing power of your piss.

What about the tinkle? Everyone knows that listening to someone pee often makes you feel like peeing. It can also get you excited. Some Golden Shower Fetishists get extremely aroused by the mellifluous sound of that telltale tinkle, which can be especially delightful during phone sex. If you’re wearing earphones, it can seem like your lover, mistress or the phone sex operator is actually piddling all over your head.

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Some peeing fetishists enjoy “peeing themselves,” “bed wetting,” “panty wetting,” or being “made” to pee by a dominant partner, sometimes while in panties or adult diapers. This may involve various forms of erotic fantasy role-play and infantilism, most commonly when a mistress plays the role of a nurse, mother or governess to the submissive who acts like a helpless “child” who can’t help but “mess” his or her panties or diapers. Do you like that liberating, warm, wet, forbidden sensation when you can’t hold back anymore, and the pee fills up your diaper, stains your pants or trickles down your leg?

There many different kinds of water sports, fantasies and activities, not all of which appeal to all peeing fetishists. But whatever your golden desires, questions, cravings, problems or pleasures, you can share them with the telephone sex therapists of the Dr. Susan Block Institute. Call Us When You Need to Talk: 213.291.9497

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High Heel Phone Sex Therapy

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Looking for High Heel Heaven? You’ve come to the right place…
Do high heels get you hot? Does your temperature rise when a sexy vixen approaches you in 5-inch stilettos? Then again, maybe you prefer classic pumps or skyscraper sandals. Do you love it when your lover keeps her heels on during sex? Then again, perhaps you like to wear the heels yourself as you strut like a diva on the catwalk… Or do you have such a strong high heel fetish that you’d almost rather kiss, worship and play with the shoes themselves—with or without anybody wearing them? Whatever your personal fetish or fashion preference, our High Heeled Phone Sex Therapists are here to help anytime you need to talk, 24 hours a day, every day. For information, call 213.291.9497

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What is it about high heels that drive you wild? Is it the shape of the shoe that excites you, its striking, curvaceous form? Is it the heel itself with a seductive spike, erect and titillating? Is it the way a pair of heels set off a womanly figure that makes your heart start to race? Do you prefer petite feet in Cinderella heels, or do you like a large pair of platform pumps towering over you like a monument to your desires? Do you feel that if “the clothes make the man, the shoe makes the woman?” Ever notice how a woman in a pair of classic pumps radiates style and confidence whether she’s flaunting power plays in the boardroom or bending over backwards in the bedroom? Maybe you’d even like to hump her pumps…

Or would you rather kick classic to the curb and go for a long, tall pair of hooker heels (aka, stripper shoes)? Or do you long to throw convention to the wind and rock those heels yourself? Maybe you need a high-heeled mistress to “make” you wear high heels for her. Perhaps you’d like her to walk all over you, tease and do kinky things to you with different parts of those high heels—from pointed toe to dagger stiletto. Or would you rather dominate some sweet, vulnerable hottie in those teetering, fragile high heels? Do you love to inhale the aromatic combination of foot smell and fine shoe leather? Do you have difficulty communicating about your high-heeled desires with your partner or potential partners? Do you feel shame or anxiety over your shoe fetish?

Whatever the nature of your interest in high heels, here at the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, we “get it,” and we’re here to talk with you about your high heeled pleasures and problems, answer your questions, advise you on your fetishes, and roleplay your fantasies. To enter High-Heeled Heaven or just talk to a High Heel Phone Sex Therapist right now, call 213.291.9497.

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Interracial Phone Sex Therapy

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Are you interested in interracial sex? Do you prefer sex with partners of different races than yours—or do you at least like to imagine it? Do you have decidedly politically incorrect fantasies about exotic damsels or hyper-sexual alpha males from backgrounds, cultures or races other than your own? Our Interracial Phone Sex Therapists are here 24/7 to talk with you about your deepest, most taboo desires, problems, pleasures, fantasies and fetishes. We are compassionate, knowledgeable, sexy, caring, and totally discreet. And no, there is no other phone sex or sex therapy service quite like ours when it comes to talking about interracial sex.
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In an era of “race-blind” PC culture, why does the thrill of interracial sex continue to captivate so many of us? Though most people don’t talk about it—at least in public—it’s deeply embedded in our cultural thinking to imagine, right or wrong, that some races as earthier, bigger and “better” at sex; some are imagined to be more physical, masculine, dominant, confident or perhaps more animalistic. Conversely, stereotypes have encouraged us to consider some races as more submissive or feminine. Whether it’s true or not, racist or not, the fantasy of a big black cock or a tiny Asian girl certainly stirs a lot of libidinous imaginations. Do you have “yellow fever?” Or perhaps it’s the spicy latin flavor that makes you hot, hot, hot? Do you have a “thing” for natural blondes? How about real redheads? Of course, “once you go black, you never go back”—not after a huge black mandingo, that is. Or a big beautiful black woman. Why are high-contrast images of blacks on blondes so popular? Maybe you have bisexual interracial fantasies. Or do you like to imagine your spouse or lover engaged in super steamy interracial sex, perhaps in a threesome, or with you as the cuckold? Perhaps you eroticize the evil old master or mistress/slave relations of plantation days. We don’t agree with nor do we want to encourage these stereotypes, which may be loving, but are all too often, racist. After all, the most important fact is that we are all part of the human race. But we do want to help you to understand your fantasies and decide whether or not to act on them in real life. We also enjoy helping you to act out your interracial desires—no matter how outrageous, bizarre, politically incorrect or just plain wicked they might be—through phone sex fantasy roleplay. And you can call us anytime at 213.291.9497

Interracial sex has had a long and fascinating history. America’s third president and writer of our Declaration of Independence, Thomas Jefferson, is said to have had an intimate sexual relationship with his African-American slave Sally Hemings, siring several children with her. Some of Jefferson’s writings express his hope that Caucasians and Native Americans would interbreed and form an integrated race of people rather than engage in violence—clearly, he preferred his “Indian Wars” to happen in the bedroom. Nevertheless, interracial sex was illegal as early as 1691. Anti-miscegenation laws remained intact for many years because, according to some historians, the slave class had to be neatly distinguishable from the free classes. Even after slavery was abolished, interracial sex remained socially unacceptable. Meanwhile, rumors and stereotypes circulated around black male sexuality, propagating the idea that African-American men have bigger penises and greater sexual stamina and appetite. Today, interracial porn is a best-selling genre, with the majority showing a black man having sex with a white woman. Is it the intriguing visual contrast of ivory and ebony, the implied conquest, the tortured history, the terrible racism or just the taboo quality of the interracial sex that turns some of us on so much? If you need to talk about your interracial fantasies or desires, call us at 213.291.9497.

With so much interracial sex happening in the real world, Jefferson’s fantasy may come true on an even larger scale than he imagined. More and more people are clicking the box that says “mixed” on those forms that ask for your race. Despite the racists’ attempts at “purity,” eventually, even the idea of “race” will cease to exist, and we will all be mixed. But right now, the contrast of the human races in terms of color, size and other features—real or imagined—captivates a great many people’s sexual fantasies. Race is a subject that makes many people uncomfortable, but at the Dr. Susan Block Institute for the Erotic Arts & Sciences, no subject is off limits for discussion, therapy or fantasy role-play. Maybe you can’t talk to anyone else about these things, but you can talk to us. We are here for you right now. Call our Interracial Phone Sex Therapists at 213.291.9497.

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by Dr. Susan Block.

Have you been thinking about group sex? Do you dream of casting all rigid social boundaries aside and indulging in the orgiastic hedonism of a threesome, multiple partners, a swing party, a pansexual celebration, a polyamorous arrangement or a full-on orgy?

Perhaps you already enjoy the pleasures of sex with more than one partner at one time, but you need to talk about your experiences with someone open-minded, knowledgeable and discreet. Maybe you’re considering group sex or the swinging “lifestyle,” and you need to sort out the pros and cons. Then again, you might believe that multiple partners, free love and orgies are best left in the realm of the imagination, but you’d love to share the fantasy with someone who understands, or maybe even more than one someone at one time; after all, we are talking about group phone sex therapy.

Do you want to make your group sex fantasies come true, at least partially? Do you need to talk about orgies, swinging, “designer relationships,” open marriage, polyamory, communal ecstasy? Want to know the ins and outs of threesomes, foursomes, and more-somes? Need advice on how to bring these exciting but touchy subjects up to your spouse? Would you like to experience group phone sex therapy? Call the Block Institute at 213.291.9497.

Several of our telephone sex therapists are experts in group sex, polyamory, swinging and our world-renowned philosophy of ethical hedonism. Group sex might sound very kinky for some, but it fulfills a very natural, human need to share erotic, orgasmic, loving experiences with multiple people, friends, loved ones and attractive strangers. In a world that increasingly demands compartmentalization and isolation, there are few arenas left in which humans can share in this vital, life-affirming experience of communal ecstasy.

Most of us are expected to meet all our sexual and erotic needs within one relationship, usually a marriage, that is supposed to last our entire adult lives. Our sexual experiences are expected to be always private, “just the two of us,” usually in a locked bedroom, often in the dark. There’s nothing wrong with that; in fact, private couple sex with someone you love is probably the most intimate, meaningful kind of sex there is. But there is something very special and truly wonderful about the “collective joy” (with apologies to Barbara Ehrenreich) of group sex that partner sex simply cannot duplicate.

Many anthropologists agree that prehistoric humans often engaged in various forms of group sex–just as our closest genetic cousins, the bonobos, do–for tens of thousands of years before the advent of farming and “civilization” started pressuring people, especially women, to be sexually monogamous.

Just because human society changed and started trying to squeeze the square peg of our true polyamorous, orgiastic sexual nature into the round hole of traditional marriage and monogamy doesn’t mean human beings changed. We are still inherently nonmonogamous, or even what Sex at Dawn authors Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethas, as well as sexpert Dan Savage, call “promiscuous.” Some of us can “control” our desires for multiple partners and group sex experience better than others.

Of course, despite society’s sanctions against it, some people have always found ways to enjoy various forms of group sex. The famously decadent orgies of ancient Rome come to mind. In the 18^th century, during the period known as The Enlightenment, European intellectuals commonly took pleasure in the delights of partner-swapping—including the proudly promiscuous and ingenious Mary Shelley, author of the classic Frankenstein. Of course, “cheating” has always been a popular option for those who can manage double lives, though often at great risk to the cheaters’ marriages and even their lives. Swinging rose in popularity in the U.S. during World War II with the “Key Club” parties where married men would leave their house keys in a basket so that other men at the party could enter their homes and have sex with their wives.

As a result of the sexual revolution of the 1960s and 70s, and an increasing openness to nontraditional forms of sexual expression, swinging and other forms of group sex have become increasingly common in America and around the world. Yet a cultural distrust of group sex still exists, and in many areas of society–especially those that are religious, conservative or very “politically correct”–this distrust and disapproval of any kind of erotic expression that goes beyond the married couple has risen and intensified. Many normal, sexual people who have a basic human yearning for communal ecstasy are afraid to indulge in it, and even too ashamed to talk about it with their partners. The repression of these natural desires can put the individual—and the marriage itself–under tremendous toxic stress.

What you do is up to you, of course. But it always helps to talk about your feelings with someone who understands, someone you can trust with your secrets and desires. The Block Institute offers conventional sex therapy as well as the opportunity to roleplay a group sex fantasy you may have over the phone through simulated swinging, guided masturbation or erotic hypnosis. Your group sex fantasy may involve orgies, threesomes, fetish play, bisexual activity, cuckolding, domination and submission,breaking taboos,or any number of other forms of erotic adventure. You can even speak to multiple therapists at one time for group phone sex therapy. As always, your telephone sex therapy call is completely private and confidential.

For more information or to arrange to talk to a therapist right now, call us anytime 24/7 at 213.291.9497.

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